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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi guys. Just registered so be gentle! Have tried squirting the last few days, without much success. Tried masturbating on my own and hubby tried with fingers. Whilst I feel the sensation to pee, I then orgasm as normal. What am I doing wrong? Also I read that you should have an empty bladder, but then some say you should fill up on water before hand. any advice appreciated for this novice! Would love to surprise hubby (and me).

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    tallboy247 [sign in to see picture]
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    Welcome to Orgasm Army k1mmie, l am certain there will be some here who can assist you !! You may wish to try an inflatable dildo but not insert it all the way before inflating, you will then benefit from the stretch. Then again you may want to go slowly slowly then you have erotic encounter after erotic encounter, rather than getting a monster up your pussy and having done with it once and for all !!1
    Bon Voyage, Tallboy. X

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the welcome. Tried again but obviously not doing it right! I got the sensation to pee then climaxed as normal but then needed to do a pee as bladder felt full (but had emptied beforehand) so was sure this wasn't pee. No odour and no colour. Should I have carried on even after climaxing? Maybe im trying too hard.

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Going to Ann Summers the weekend to buy a G-spot vibrator and give that a try. In peoples opinions - are vibrators more successfull?

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    princess_nympho [sign in to see picture]
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    :( It has never happened to me before, it gets me and my bf really frustarted. Did it take most of you a long time for it to happen. We have tried different tips but it just hasnt worked

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    I can relate to that princess nympho. It is so frustrating. There must be a technique that we are not doing right!

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    princess_nympho [sign in to see picture]
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    I guess there is!

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Can anyone give some advice on what you should do once you have this sensation and how you stop from climaxing normally but actually squirt!

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Tallboy. Dont think the size is the issue (lol). Just need to know what I am doing wrong!

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    princess_nympho [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah, and could you tell me while your at it!!

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    GrayMatter [sign in to see picture]
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    Well I'm no woman but what works for my girlfriend is if i play with her clit a lot, get her very turned on. Go down on her, make her come a couple of times with her clit, then move onto the pussy. Rub her g-spot, it should be a bit enlarged at this point. Press on it gently and just basically stimulate it. Go back to kissing her clit, while rubbing her g spot.

    When she says she's starting to cum, I very quickly thrust my fingers in and out of her pussy, rubbing her g spot as I go. This makes her cum.

    All the bits above can be replaced by vibe instead of mouth, cock/dildo instead of fingers.

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    princess_nympho [sign in to see picture]
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    Ok thanks..we'll try that!

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    creativewriter1985 [sign in to see picture]
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    Princess - there's also a gel you can get which is to enlarge your GSpot and therefore make it easier to find and also increase your sensation!

    Hope you manage it, you'll love it!

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    princess_nympho [sign in to see picture]
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    what gel is that??

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Well I went out and bought the gspot vibrator and nothing. No different. I climaxed but no squirting. But still not sure if Im doing this right!!!! Can a woman describe the feelings and actions to us other women please? Thanks.

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    crayola [sign in to see picture]
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    Wow- it sounds like women not ejeculating is starting to become as big a worry as when the man doesn't ejaculate!

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    Onafriskymission [sign in to see picture]
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    Kimmie, you mentioned feeling like your bladder was full, sounds like maybe you were close but you have to try not to think too much because you might find that stops you...i know thats almost impossible if you really want to ejaculate, but try!

    When you're using a g-spot vibe try using it on the lowest vibe setting. I find this means it takes me longer to reach orgasm and that makes ejaculation more likely. Also make sure you're not not pushing the vibrator too far inside, because if you put your finger in your pussy your g-spot is only about as far inside as your second finger joint.

    If you try putting a couple of pillows at the small of your back this might get you in a better position, and just try to focus on stimulating the front wall of vagina and you should feel this spot that feels different when you rub your fingers or vibrator over it. Try not to use any clitoral stimulation as that can make you come before you've had the chance to ejaculate.
    Also, i dont know what vibrator you've tried but i'd reccomend a jelly or softer rubber type because it allows you to press the g-spot quite hard without hurting yourself.

    You ask what it feels like : everyones probably different but i find i get several shuddery half-orgasms before I ejaculate, this is how i know i've got the right spot, just before ejaculation I get this feeling of wanting to push down and the muscles down there all push as if i were trying to push the vibrator out or pee really hard. I have to relax and let go and then I squirt. It should all be quite instinctive by this point your body takes over and by pressing more firmly on the g-spot just before you climax you might find you ejaculate. I ejaculate (if i'm going to which is not as often as i'd like!) just before I orgasm. So if you feel like you've come try keeping going because as i say you might be like me and have a few orgasms before the grande finale.

    Having a g-spot orgasm is a tricky but thoroughly enjoyable experience, keep trying!

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Onafriskymission. That is quite insightful! I am currently using a soft gspot vibrator from Ann Summers, and know I am attacking (lol) the right area.(half way there lol). Thanks for the tip of the pillows.Ok, please bear with me - here are my questions. You mention getting half orgasms before ejaculation - are we talking ejaculation following quickly or do you just continue for however long it takes. Also when you get the urge to push how hard is it to relax and fight that instinct and at what stage do you remove the vibrator,- before ejaculating or during? I have had the feeling of a filling up sensation, then i just seem to orgasm normally. Maybe at this stage I should just keep going and as you say see if ejaculation follows. Thanks for your help. Will keep you updated - may be a few days - time of the month i'm afraid. Typical just when I get good advice and can't wait to try it!!!!!

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    Onafriskymission [sign in to see picture]
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    We have such complicated bodies don't we?!
    Right, half orgasms, I find that I get these sort of all-over 'shuddery' orgasms and I have no idea how long it is from start to finish but last time I had about seven of these (yes seven that was no typo!) and they feel like the sort of nice orgasm you might have if you've just had a quickie, but theyre just not quite amazing enough to stop you wanting to go on. If you feel like the stimulation is still pleasant, keep going...i think others have mentioned that it takes a long time when you start off trying to ejaculate then gets easier with time. Still not easy for me yet so I can sympathise with you, but you'll be so pleased if you manage it just try to enjoy the trying!

    To answer your question about how long after...they come in waves and get a bit more intense each time until I ejaculate, then the next 'wave' is usually the really intense oragsm that leaves you breathless and completely deliciously exhausted. The acutal ejaculation is a result of this type of stimulation but its the feeling you get from g-spot stim you should try to focus on because the more used you get to having G-orgasms the more relaxed you'll be, less focused on the ejaculation itself and I dare say you'll be an expert on finding your g-spot by the end of it, no bad thing even if you are someone who can't squirt. So yes, just keep going for as long as it still feels good, you will start to get sore arms though!

    On this whole not being able to squirt thing, I really didnt think i was capable of it until I just started really experimenting to see what would happen, and when I found I got this different sensation I tried using a small mirror so I could keep an eye on what was really going on down there- I found out I WAS ejaculating, just in really small amounts! So if you're happy to have a good look at yourself 'down there' whilst youre going at it you might find you do have a little trickle. (its definately not pee) I find now that I know I can do it the ejaculations are getting bigger and better so i think a lot of it is psychological.

    How hard is it to fight the instinct to push, right...well you need not to be worried about what you're going to produce, wether it pee, an ejaculation or something a bit less pleasant...so make sure you do have a towel down! You're not going to pee (or worse) but the thing that makes you fight the ejaculation, i think , is the tightening of those muscles that stop you peeing, which as potty-trained grown ups we are so used to doing! So the urge to stop it is much less if you are not worried about whats going to come out...

    Removing the vibrator, well I find I need to keep using it to rub my g-spot all the way to ejaculation and just after for a short time to have that last climax, so I'd say keep it in, as it were. I know that women who are able to do it more easily take out the vibrator at the last minute and that does get it out of the way if you've got an audience, but if you are still enjoying using the vibe keep going definately...

    time of the month, tell me about it! I was planning a purchase from lovehoney, a new g-spot vibe as it happens, but well, you know, just not much point right not....complicated bodies, as I said...good luck and try not to be too disapointed if it doesnt happen soon, at least you're having fun!

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    Onafriskymission [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh and another thing I just thought of ( I know this is getting really technical!) but what vibrator is it you're using? I know you said it was soft but is it quite wide? Because I've tried vibes like the durex wand which is just far too wide for me to get G-spot stim, its nice but its just too big. As I said I'm going to try something else soon ad we'll see how it goes.

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