• Female ejaculation

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    Tupperwareheart [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks very much for the advice dontav, very helpful and i'll definitely be trying those tips

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    Chris Wood [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm not sure if it has been mentioned yet but 'White tiger tantra' by 'Steve Piccus' is a 5 dvd set dedicated to female ejaculation and gives you all the information you need regarding positions, hand movements, comfort building etc.

    Works a charm.

    dontav1, it is something you can do regularly, I think one of the main reasons it doesn't happen that often is, like you said, women feel they're about to pee! so releiving the bladder beforehand aswell as re-assurance that it is infact ejaculatory fluid is essential for first time squirters!

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    dontav1 wrote:

    Tupperwareheart wrote:

    The first time i did this was with my ex and i was mortified but luckily he worked out what had happened before i did and reassured me! Think he was quite impressed really

    I've never been able to do it myself since and my now OH cant seem to make it happen either. It's no big deal really but i wish i could work out how to do it again, G spot orgasms are so much more satisfying than clit ones for me.


    I think the secret is... DON'T TRY it's not really something you can actually "do" (unless you're amazingly talented which I doubt many of us are if any) sort of like passing wind (GROSS I KNOW) but for examples sake you can "do" it... but you don't actually do it unless events line up to cause it lol its a natural reaction. Relieve your bladder (as sort of last second as possible) before you get down to any business and get your OH to use the "come hither" movement with his finger/s against the front of your wall (or sex toys if you have them whichever you and/or even him prefer) if you can feel a slight, or strong depending on the pressure being applied, "need to pee" feeling chances are you've got the spot that needs to be stimulated just right (harder, softer, faster, slower or even all whatever works for your body you'll know best) The trickiest part during all this is to NOT hold on as if you're scared you might actually pee instead because THAT is what is most like the ejaculating part (at least for me it is as far as I know) if you hold on thinking its pee instead then you're working against your body's natural reaction which is to come... and VOILA... Or so I hope it won't hurt to try anyhow.... I only ever used to ejaculate very rarely and never understood how but now with my current OH it seems to happen rather frequently and I think it's because I let him NOT stop.... and he doesn't until I ask him or pull his hands/the toy away from me.... If your one for sensitivity I would suggest (as long as your comfortable and he is and there's trust LOTS of it perhaps) use some form of hand restraint just so you wont be tempted to pull him away because your somewhat sensitive by leaving your legs UNrestrained if it does get a bit too much you can at least move your body up away from him to lessen any intense sensitivity.

    If not then remember EVERY girl is different and maybe you might need to retry that night over again just don't sit there thinking "gotta come gotta come"

    Thats good to hear! Its all stuff we've tried (minus the hand tieing) but I really PUSH for mine to happen which means I get stressed and when my OH stops, I burst into tears! I find i have to be "worked down" as much as I was "worked up" to prevent tears! Maybe if I just let myself enjoy it rather than wanna squirt so badly - it may happen!!

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    I got really annoyed when i kept trying and trying and it never happened!! Until i just didnt think about it then away i went and now try and stop me lol!!

    I think practise is the key but then so is relaxing and just going with the moment with no 'intentions' You will be there in no time!! xxxxx

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    I've found mrs_m find it easier if more is put into "the build up" i.e concentrating on teasing her to orgasm without trying to get her to squirt and then it will happen really easily!


    (also - putting some porn on seems to help for some reason, but maybe thats just her ; ) )

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    I really wanna get ther. My OH tells (yeslls) me to stop when it hits the point where I reckon we could get to squirting. Maybe I should just carry on til she squirts in my face. We'll get there onday - I cant wait!

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    Id love to experience it but I feel I cant do it no matter how many times I want to or get the feeling that I need to go to the toilet (a sign it may happen so im told) it just doesnt happen :[

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    xxxxchelzsxxxx wrote:

    Lovebunny12 wrote:

    Id love to experience it but I feel I cant do it no matter how many times I want to or get the feeling that I need to go to the toilet (a sign it may happen so im told) it just doesnt happen :[

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    So sorry computer had an eppi!!!! I was the same until i just didnt think about it whatsoever then i was like oh my god!! How amazing!! Im sure if you keep trying (but dont really try if you n o i mean) you will be sure to get it!! xxx

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    Someone broke Chelzs!!!

    The main thing I found was that once you get the 'need to pee' thing, you have to push a bit harder or rougher, and not settle into a repetitive pattern. Plus the whole "don't try" thing. :)

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    discovered this by chance really and now i can't get enough of it and of course OH is always so happy to make it happen...

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    BashfulBabe wrote:

    Someone broke Chelzs!!!

    The main thing I found was that once you get the 'need to pee' thing, you have to push a bit harder or rougher, and not settle into a repetitive pattern. Plus the whole "don't try" thing. :)

    Hehe this modern technology always gets me x

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    Thanks for the advice people, I'm alway a bit worried to push when I feel the need to pee even when I know I've been to the loo! Did it just happen to you when you were playing about or was your lover trying to make you 'squirt' so to speak.

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    It's definitely about lots of foreplay for me. I'm more likely to squirt if I've already had an orgasm in play. As well as g spot stimulation, it's the addition of anal stimulation that makes it an almost 100% guarantee for me.

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    It's definitely about lots of foreplay for me. I'm more likely to squirt if I've already had an orgasm in play. As well as g spot stimulation, it's the addition of anal stimulation that makes it an almost 100% guarantee for me.

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    Sorry about double post.

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    double entry ha ha

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    Honeytongue [sign in to see picture]
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    Ha ha. So true in my case!

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    Honeytongue wrote:

    Ha ha. So true in my case!

    the only way for us too

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    reading so many post s hope this is the right one write on .I d really like cum during sex with my OH but nothing happens please help .............

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