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    Nexas wrote:

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    I think i squirted today but im not sure

    what's the texture like for most people?

    the wet patch underneath me was fairly thick, almost like male ejaculate :S

    I wouldn't worry. It changes from what I've seen, sometimes it can be as thin as water, othertimes really thick.

    ahh right, i was wondering wether i had more than what it was because ive never done it before

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    i havent squirted as yet...but my other half plays with my gspot and the bed gets soaking...........so obviously doing something right......just havent had that illusive squirt sensation..........just cant quite figue out how to do it!!!

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    I gush and squirt.... towel on the bed makes no difference, good thing my bedsheets dry fast and my OH doesnt mind drying the mattress with the hairdryer!!!!

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    we bought a tie on plastic sheet from tesco's for changing babies on its great

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    lickmadick wrote:

    we bought a tie on plastic sheet from tesco's for changing babies on its great

    Doesnt it make plastic sounds? Always reminds me of being a really little kid.

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    not if you put towels on it as well lol

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    lickmadick wrote:

    not if you put towels on it as well lol

    But they are so unromantic

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    nice and warm fluffy towels from the dryer

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    lickmadick wrote:

    nice and warm fluffy towels from the dryer

    Who drys all their stuff in a dryer? I do if its raining but if its a nice day it goes outside

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    lickmadick wrote:

    we bought a tie on plastic sheet from tesco's for changing babies on its great

    really but do you put it on when u need it or leave it there permanently??? If I am on the duvet... I soak through that (13 tog) right onto the mattress!!!!

    may that to look into this!

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    just when its needed and so easy to clean under the shower and dries real quick ..tesco's 5 earthly pounds save a lot of washing too xx

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    lickmadick wrote:

    just when its needed and so easy to clean under the shower and dries real quick ..tesco's 5 earthly pounds save a lot of washing too xx

    How romantic.... sexy undies on *check*, pee the bed sheet on *check*.....

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    I am on a voyage of discovery and I have just bought Tracey Cox's Hot Sex: How to Do it, and was reading the part about masterbation and thought I'd give it try, I've never been one to masterbate alot but I was on my own and thought why not, so while reading and 'doing' I found my G spot and the A spot and in the end I had to wash the fitted sheet and the Pjs I was wearing coz it happened four times, the first time I thought hey I did it, but had to check I hadn't wet myself but carried on coz it didn't smell like urine, by the fourth time I thought hurrah I've mastered it, i kept thinking if I don't think about wanting to do it and just relax it'll happen, which it did, I also had to get past the feeling that I was gonna wet myself I have now given my husband pointers and next time we will definately be more prepared and put a waterproof sheet down, coz sleeping on a cut in half bin bag, then a towel then the fitted sheet is not very comfortable.

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    I find it easier with my boyfriend pleasing me whether its toys his fingers or ... himself. The first time I ever ejaculated (was with an ex) and we were missionary.... I felt really intense and I was pushing as if I had needed to go to the toilet for like ages and he had come out and so I gushed.... I felt more like I did need to go to the toilet but it wasn't a strong colour (or smell) but being my first time I did assume it was some weird toilet accident and was highly embaressed. But now I realise it was the first time I had came. The second time I ejaculated was me on top of him whilst he was sitting up against his bed head.... this became my (our) favourite position again unintentionally but when we were finished and i lifted off it just poured down him... oops lol.

    I now have a small treasure trove of sex toys and a new boyfriend (who is rather well endowed lucky I had some sex toys and had finally bought lube for the first time to see what that was like I needed major help to "receive" him!!!) we've only been together a month for now and he has made me come every single time (and multiple times) without a fail.... He's incredibly gifted with the toys (especially my mini ivibe rabbit) much more so than me. He's also well endowed which can (DOES?!!) help. I've never ejaculated before on my own I think it's because a partner can be that bit more "continual" with us than we are with ourselves and they aren't feeling the need to stop themselves because they're too "sensitive". If you need help i'd suggest maybe a pair of (fluffy!) handcuffs, make sure you trust your partner!, to restrain yourself so you can't pull his hand (or a toy he's using) away and tell your partner to use it gently but not to stop unless you really mean it. It's a wall that needs to be climbed all the way to actually cross. Also our ejaculation apparently DOES come from our urethra like males. Just not usually the whole porn star way which apparently they do by drinking lots of water beforehand and actually "peeing" (eww right? lol) Just don't hold back and go to the toilet beforehand (in case!) and have him do (LOTS) of foreplay first even if to at least tease you to the moon and back first. Also if you're lesbian/bi you would obviously use the toys and whatnot instead if thats your preference.

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    Oh great advice here

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    I agree with Dontav1 and Lorelei, I did it once during sex and ws soooo embarrassed but was never able to work out how to do it again, til now, I really did think I had had a major toilet accident and IT WAS of porn star proportions and yes very very messy although very pleased it didn't smell but the mattress is now stained, oopps, maybe I went up too far and was maybe a little too rough but it all worked. The finger action needs to be more like a 'come hither' like you're beckoning someone over and I found stopping and starting a gain helped heaps, I am yet to try again during penetration as I seem to be able to control it.

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    The first time i did this was with my ex and i was mortified but luckily he worked out what had happened before i did and reassured me! Think he was quite impressed really

    I've never been able to do it myself since and my now OH cant seem to make it happen either. It's no big deal really but i wish i could work out how to do it again, G spot orgasms are so much more satisfying than clit ones for me.

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    It intrigues me it does quite a spectacle and nothing to be embarassed about. Quite the opposite actually

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    jackador123 wrote:

    It intrigues me it does quite a spectacle and nothing to be embarassed about. Quite the opposite actually

    feeling's mutual jackador my oh insists everytime i make her squirt so niceeeeeeeeeee

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    Tupperwareheart wrote:

    The first time i did this was with my ex and i was mortified but luckily he worked out what had happened before i did and reassured me! Think he was quite impressed really

    I've never been able to do it myself since and my now OH cant seem to make it happen either. It's no big deal really but i wish i could work out how to do it again, G spot orgasms are so much more satisfying than clit ones for me.

    I think the secret is... DON'T TRY it's not really something you can actually "do" (unless you're amazingly talented which I doubt many of us are if any) sort of like passing wind (GROSS I KNOW) but for examples sake you can "do" it... but you don't actually do it unless events line up to cause it lol its a natural reaction. Relieve your bladder (as sort of last second as possible) before you get down to any business and get your OH to use the "come hither" movement with his finger/s against the front of your wall (or sex toys if you have them whichever you and/or even him prefer) if you can feel a slight, or strong depending on the pressure being applied, "need to pee" feeling chances are you've got the spot that needs to be stimulated just right (harder, softer, faster, slower or even all whatever works for your body you'll know best) The trickiest part during all this is to NOT hold on as if you're scared you might actually pee instead because THAT is what is most like the ejaculating part (at least for me it is as far as I know) if you hold on thinking its pee instead then you're working against your body's natural reaction which is to come... and VOILA... Or so I hope it won't hurt to try anyhow.... I only ever used to ejaculate very rarely and never understood how but now with my current OH it seems to happen rather frequently and I think it's because I let him NOT stop.... and he doesn't until I ask him or pull his hands/the toy away from me.... If your one for sensitivity I would suggest (as long as your comfortable and he is and there's trust LOTS of it perhaps) use some form of hand restraint just so you wont be tempted to pull him away because your somewhat sensitive by leaving your legs UNrestrained if it does get a bit too much you can at least move your body up away from him to lessen any intense sensitivity.

    If not then remember EVERY girl is different and maybe you might need to retry that night over again just don't sit there thinking "gotta come gotta come"

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