• Sex Tip that changed your life...

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    Rowan [sign in to see picture]
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    Relaxing and ceasing to think. (have only managed this a couple of times so far, a work in progress shall we say?)

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey I'm in that state permanently Rowan :-s SG69 x

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    Rowan wrote:

    Well said Sam. I think mine to date is how to give oral comfortably lying down. (thanks adnaW)

    Yay :D I'm so glad it helped that much!! Don't know what I'd do without being able to give oral so that was the first thing I figured out how to do when my joints started falling apart hehe!

    My best tip is that everyone is different - guess where I *didn't* get that from....I have a personal vendetta against magazines telling us all what we should and shouldn't be doing/feeling, I felt a whole lot better about things when I just started to relax and enjoy what I enjoy! I don't like to come - try telling that to cosmo ;)

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    Lady Luna [sign in to see picture]
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    1:Applying pressure on a man's perineum when he comes; it makes the orgasm much stronger for them, and they ejaculate MUCH further!

    2: to be open about your fantasies

    3: to tell your partner what you like/dislike, and if thwey're doing something right/wrong!

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Lady Luna wrote:

    1:Applying pressure on a man's perineum when he comes; it makes the orgasm much stronger for them, and they ejaculate MUCH further!

    Oooh that's a goodie. I started massaging this spot firmly just before climax and got some fantastic 'where-did-you-learn-*THAT*' reactions.

    Hippie-Dippie's call it the 'Sacred Spot' and also reccomend very gentle massage of it before the pressing in ensues.

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Wheres that spot? Is that the one on the base of the spine?

    Hi Avrielle, the perineum is that sort of blank space between a gentleman's balls and his back passage. There's handy photos on wikipedia that I won't link to because it's never a flattering angle. Women have one too.

    Pressure to this smooth space provides indirect prostate stimulation so it's a great substitute if like me, you don't really want to enter that department for all the tea in China.

    I found it's best to use your knuckle so the pressure can be controlled with a soft 'kneading' action increasing with firmness when he's pretty close.

    It was one of those tips that I shared with my girlfriends and it started this little Mexican wave of orgasmic men screaming 'how did you know??!' as they spread the word.

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    *AdamKR* [sign in to see picture]
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    i think mine would have to be - never be affraid to explore yourself infront of your partner, because not only do you then find the things you really like in the right places, makes a great show for your partner and they can keep in mind where your sweet spots are :)

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    Tigerlilies wrote:

    Lady Luna wrote:

    1:Applying pressure on a man's perineum when he comes; it makes the orgasm much stronger for them, and they ejaculate MUCH further!

    Oooh that's a goodie. I started massaging this spot firmly just before climax and got some fantastic 'where-did-you-learn-*THAT*' reactions.

    Hippie-Dippie's call it the 'Sacred Spot' and also reccomend very gentle massage of it before the pressing in ensues.

    Yeah I touch this spot too - although don't know if I have just before ejaculation.. I shall have to investigate further! It's because it stimulates the P-spot basically I think, which is why it feels good for men.

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    Columbus [sign in to see picture]
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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Ah, thats what thats called. yeah, I've used that spot a few times, usually just stroking it or massaging it lightly when giving a blow job. Never had any fantastic responses from it though. I may try your tips the next time and see if that get a more 'wow' factor. Though to be honest, he never really 'wows' at anything I do. The only real sex compliment was when I overheard him talking with some friends in a bar when we were still dating and saying "...But she gives damned good blow jobs though!"

    Guess its just the way he is though.

    Why the 'But' at the start of the sentence?! lol

    I know what you mean, as much as that's such a laddy and arguably disrespectful thing to say I'd probably be secretly chuffed if my OH told his mates I'm best he's had in bed or whatever! lol

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    Columbus wrote:

    Yeah I touch this spot too - although don't know if I have just before ejaculation.. I shall have to investigate further! It's because it stimulates the P-spot basically I think, which is why it feels good for men.

    Hey Columbus, just before ejaculation is *the* moment. The look on his face will be priceless. Especially if you do it with upmost nonchalance.

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    sh4ag [sign in to see picture]
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    a tip that has changed the way i give my oh oral sex is where im licking her and start humming to create a vibrating sensation on her clit and it seems to send her wild and want more

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Tigerlilies wrote:

    Lady Luna wrote:

    1:Applying pressure on a man's perineum when he comes; it makes the orgasm much stronger for them, and they ejaculate MUCH further!

    Oooh that's a goodie. I started massaging this spot firmly just before climax and got some fantastic 'where-did-you-learn-*THAT*' reactions.

    Hippie-Dippie's call it the 'Sacred Spot' and also reccomend very gentle massage of it before the pressing in ensues.

    Wheres that spot? Is that the one on the base of the spine?

    Ooh they just showed the Sex and the City episode where Charlotte takes them to a hippy dippy tantric class demonstrating massage of the 'Root Chakra, aka the pereneum.'

    Miranda: 'Perineum, Latin for: not without a wedding ring.'

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    Lube up and patience is a mans best friend and your cocks too..:)

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    Anal sex can be quite difficult to alot of people and just relaxing I dont always find gets me past that point after the head has entered me but found that if I push (very much like if ure going for a poo, if uve used a douche before u wont have any problems or accidents) it helps to open up the anal walls for a much smoother entry.... much more comfortable and enjoyable :)

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    not really a tip, but a position that has become my favourite is if the woman is on her back, like missionary, but her legs are over your shoulders. Gives the guy complete control and can go in quite deep

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Remembered another one: 'open your mouth and start asking questions.'

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    BristolBoy [sign in to see picture]
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    TALK to each other - about how you feel, what you like, what you don't like. Don't spend ages thinking about what you want to say. Just come out and say it. Don't let embarrassment hold you back. :)

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    Jonno wrote:

    not really a tip, but a position that has become my favourite is if the woman is on her back, like missionary, but her legs are over your shoulders. Gives the guy complete control and can go in quite deep

    I love that position!

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    Again - another fairly tame thing from me compared to some ...

    We've recently 'discovered' vibrators. First a free one from LH then I bought a Tracey Cox Bullet. My OH after huge scepticism is now a huge fan.

    We're thinking of getting a 'bigger' one so I can play around with it more inside her. I look round the Vibe threads rather than ask here, but if anyone would like to recommend one here ...! (I think a Rabbit would be a step too far just at the moment!)

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    We recently got this for a tenner...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16610

    Got good bit of power, a non threatening colour or girly colour in lovely packaging!

    Small size too... might make a nice step up.

    Or the lady lust, great reviews and cheap.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=319

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