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    georga_73 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm still waiting for mine lol

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    KinkyWolf [sign in to see picture]
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    Your partner isn't a mind reader. If theres something that you want he\her to do - ask them - otherwise you'll end up with the same thing everytime.

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    The come hither finger motion has paid many dividends with phrases like "where did you learn that!" and "oh fuck that's so good!" haha, goes straight to the head!!

    As has already been mentioned, communication is a MASSIVELY important thing! Don't be afraid to ask to change positions etc, the worst they can say is "actually I am really enjoying it like this right now thanks!"

    Lube even if the girl get's naturally wet, is ALWAYS more fun

    Don't be afraid to try anything once, and maybe twice!

    Don't worry if your first time with a girl/boy isn't the greatest, they will probably be worrying the same thing and it takes time to learn what the OH likes.

    In one way or another, these all changed my life! xxx

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    SmoothOne wrote:

    What sex tip / knowledge that you gained or come across made the biggest difference to your sex life?

    For me, it was probably realising that if you tease a woman enough and in the right way, with the right technique, you can make a woman squirt...which just happens to be my biggest turn on.

    anyone else?

    Oh I would love to squirt

    My hubby showed me what he calles the finger trick when we first got together. Which is getting my G spot. Before I met him I never even knew where it was. Also anal, it took a few years but oh my.... I do love anal!!

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    Ampeli [sign in to see picture]
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    When my OH taught herself to squirt about a year ago, both from clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Now there is nothing nicer for me to be down on her while she cumming. The trick is to be totally turned on, relaxed and without expectation

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    I have been researching it and my OH is doing everything right. I get the feeling I need to pee and insteadt holding tight just incase I understand ya ment to push. I tried, had the most amazing orgasm but no squirting. Do you think its just perceverance and it should come...pun intended lol.

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    Ampeli [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Puppies 77

    OH reckons not to do anything, hold tight, push whatever. She wasn't looking to make it happen it just did. I posted a thread earlier, in that we sometimes use poppers and wonder if anyone else did. I do have to say that a few sniffs before the big O increases her chances of squirting big time. What's more - more and more now she has no 'refractory period and can come continuously for up to five minutes, hence we have invested in new bath towels LOL. Have to say as a mere male I can't manage that - but I do know that poppers can and DO make you feel extremely randy and relax vaginal and anal muscles. Just a thought

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    olihearthoney [sign in to see picture]
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    Ampell, can you post up a link to your thread about squirting? I would really like to teach my girl to do it!

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    Ampeli [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi

    The thread is 'Does anyone use poppers and why did LH stop selling them' Sorry but it doesn't refer to squirting - but its true, using them goes a long way to making it happen

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    Ampeli [sign in to see picture]
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    Just another tip Puppies 77. I read that you enjoy watching girl-girl porn. We subcribe to the site abbywinters.com a link to which is in my profile. Mrs A is bi, and with her watching some of that oh-so real girl-girl sex - a squirt is just about guaranteed !!

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    What are poppers?? I'm sure I have heard of them before, in school, but we talking 15yrs ago lol.

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    Ampeli, me and my OH like watch most porn lol

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    http://www.talktofrank.com/drugs.aspx?id=198

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    Ampeli [sign in to see picture]
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    You can buy them in most sex shops. Small bottles containing Isopropyl nitrate. A totally legal high that puts you 10 on the horny scale of 1-10 in about 5 minutes. Cost is about 5 quid, and we prefer the brand Liquid Gold. The warnings say don't sniff from the bottle, but this is a way of getting around the law as they are sold as 'room odorizers'. The idea IS to sniff with one nostril closed from the bottle.

    Sounds sordid but isn't as a lot of Ann Summers branches sell them and every sex shop you can think of. Providing you don't go over the top - the 2-3 minute high you get from one deep sniff, will keep you just where you want to be if you try one every five minutes or so for as long as you want. It could just do the trick for you!!

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    Thx Living fire. Don't think that will be necessary Ampeli. I don't have any trouble relaxing any muscles and my OH can give me a rush to the head just by playing with my puppies .

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    One man's meat eh................good luck!

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    Puppies77 wrote:

    SmoothOne wrote:

    What sex tip / knowledge that you gained or come across made the biggest difference to your sex life?

    For me, it was probably realising that if you tease a woman enough and in the right way, with the right technique, you can make a woman squirt...which just happens to be my biggest turn on.

    anyone else?

    Oh I would love to squirt

    My hubby showed me what he calles the finger trick when we first got together. Which is getting my G spot. Before I met him I never even knew where it was. Also anal, it took a few years but oh my.... I do love anal!!

    Its a difficult mental block to overcome. You are spot on with what you said earlier. Its when you feel as if you are going to pee, its not so much push, but to just let it happen. Its difficult the first few times because your natural reaction is 'shit I'm going to pee' which snaps you out of the build up. Perhaps you need to be tied up, or had a couple to drink, so you get to a point where you think you can't react or stop it, and easier to just go with it?

    Obviously having never squirted myself, hopefully others will correct me. But from conversations / interrogations from others, that's how you do it. Good luck

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    SmoothOne wrote:

    Puppies77 wrote:

    SmoothOne wrote:

    What sex tip / knowledge that you gained or come across made the biggest difference to your sex life?

    For me, it was probably realising that if you tease a woman enough and in the right way, with the right technique, you can make a woman squirt...which just happens to be my biggest turn on.

    anyone else?

    Oh I would love to squirt

    My hubby showed me what he calles the finger trick when we first got together. Which is getting my G spot. Before I met him I never even knew where it was. Also anal, it took a few years but oh my.... I do love anal!!

    Its a difficult mental block to overcome. You are spot on with what you said earlier. Its when you feel as if you are going to pee, its not so much push, but to just let it happen. Its difficult the first few times because your natural reaction is 'shit I'm going to pee' which snaps you out of the build up. Perhaps you need to be tied up, or had a couple to drink, so you get to a point where you think you can't react or stop it, and easier to just go with it?

    Obviously having never squirted myself, hopefully others will correct me. But from conversations / interrogations from others, that's how you do it. Good luck

    Thanks smoothOne.The OH and I ordered some bondage rope and a few new toys the other week. I think we will try them out this weekend after a few drinks and see how it goes. If it don't happen then we can just keep trying....tis all fun

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    The thing that most changed my sex life was honesty. I am bisexual and when I was younger coming to terms with my sexuality was difficult and confusing. It didn't help that I had a bad experiance with an early partner that told everyone in college that I was gay. I lost alot of so called friends because of it and it made it made it even more difficult to talk about my sexuality.

    It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I like guys just as much as I like girls and it took even more time for me to be honest with my female partners. I would often admit that I liked guys but I would down play it an awful lot. Now I have a fantastic partner who has helped me to learn that is ok to be me :)

    Being honest with myself and with my partner about my sexualty and my sexual desires means that I now a fantastic sexlife. Honesty really is the best pollicy when it comes to your sex life and the fact that I can be honest with partner has opened up some intersting parts of our relationship that I wouldn't have imagined possible.

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    If you have never tried poppers before I would take it easy. If your not carfefull you can end up giving yourself a banging headache. I once went a bit heavy on the poppers and everything went green for 15 minutes. It was a very strange experiance I can tell you :)

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