For me this is also such a conundrum? My oh can make me cum over and over and over, but I just don't squirt? I orgasm (whole body convulses) no problem, but no squirting? I'm not sure if it's because I am simply over thinking it and putting pressure on myself to do it... OR... I am simply not a squirter?
It's so frustrating because, apparently EVERY female has the ability! So why can't I?
Hi SHLove. I think that's just because you want to do so much that it doesn't happen. The more you feel like you want so badly to do it, the more difficult it gets. I kind of feel the same but regarding g-spot orgasm. I can squirt through very intense clitoral stimulation and even though I enjoy g-spot stimulation I have never, ever reached an orgasm through penetration. I've tried, tried and still try, but my body seems to refuse. It's frustrating but perhaps the key is just relax and see what happens, if it happens great, it fnot, well there's no point getting obssessed over it. I know easier said than done!