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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 4:16 pm
Silverfox0922
- Rank: Officer Cadet
- Posts: 15
- Joined: 20 Nov 2013
This is just a gut reaction question. I'm not making any statements about committment of time together, whether it's a one night stand or 50 years together. And, I'm not asking about physical beauty. So, which would you pick:
Good lover?
or
Good personality?
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 4:44 pm
Candied Citrus
- Rank: Major General
- Posts: 436
- Joined: 19 May 2012
I think a good personality is definitely most important.
Even if someone was a good lover, if they were abrasive or mean or malicious it wouldn't work for me.
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 4:48 pm
Fluffbags
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 2018
- Joined: 18 Oct 2011
Good personality! 100%
Simple really...you only spend a few hours a day (at the best of times) in the sack, having sex. The rest of the time.....you have to put up with them! lol Still you mention that this is a gut reaction and not to consider time together or committment, but unfortunately, those kind of things count in changing my opinion at least. I mean, put it this way: If I was ONLY looking for a one night stand, sexual thing...then I think good lover would be higher. In most other situations, it would be personality. I had my one night stands back when I was young and outgrew them very quick. They were not suited to my desires. I needed more commitment and feelings involved to really enjoy the sex. So yeh...personality every time, for me.
Skills in the bedroom can come, in time. They can improve if you communicate together and show each other what you desire. Personalities neither can be, or should be forced to change imo.
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 4:52 pm
Scorpius12
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 6599
- Joined: 18 Dec 2007
Personality 100% - as Fluffbags said bedroom skills can be developed :) xx
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 5:07 pm
Cornish89
- Rank: General
- Posts: 415
- Joined: 5 Jul 2013
Definitely personality!
As per usual fluffbags has hit it on the head, I agree with everything she has said
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 5:08 pm
ShannonMarlene
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 781
- Joined: 14 Dec 2013
Good personality by far! Bedroom activities can be improved and there's always the help of toys an such, whereas there's no learning good personality.
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 5:22 pm
taraman
- Rank: General
- Posts: 221
- Joined: 30 Jun 2012
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 5:22 pm
[suspended user]
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 2395
- Joined: 25 Apr 2013
Personality all the way! But to me my partner has both so I'm very lucky! =D x
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 6:21 pm
SophieM
- Rank: General
- Posts: 908
- Joined: 16 Dec 2012
Personality definitely.
As always, Fluffbags has said what most of us are thinking! :P
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 6:41 pm
Heatseekher
- Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
- Posts: 154
- Joined: 16 Jun 2010
no brainer.......
1 night stand = good lover
long term = personality
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 6:43 pm
lubylou13
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 618
- Joined: 3 Oct 2013
Without a doubt good personality. I agree with the others Fluffbags has summed it up really well as usual.
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 7:55 pm
pr4wnst4r
- Rank: General
- Posts: 318
- Joined: 10 May 2013
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 7:57 pm
blonde vixen13
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 1763
- Joined: 23 Jun 2012
Personality!!! I've gone out with some right mi gets but they where good to me and made me laugh x
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 8:31 pm
Shy_Guy
- Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
- Posts: 43
- Joined: 25 Apr 2012
Personality. I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't care about, and whilst I enjoy sex if I was with someone who was great in bed but was an unpleasant person it would be a fairly short lived relationship.
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 9:12 pm
capricorn13
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 1604
- Joined: 25 Aug 2013
Personality definitely. As usual, Fluffbags puts it perfectly.
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 9:12 pm
flaneur
- Rank: Major General
- Posts: 399
- Joined: 23 Apr 2013
Personality always seems to deteriorate with age less than most other things and had to be my choice.
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 9:27 pm
wildflower
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 5763
- Joined: 17 Jul 2013
Personality. It wouldn't matter how good the sex was if I couldn't stand them the rest of the time!
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 10:01 pm
Just Jenson
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 2130
- Joined: 19 Dec 2009
The good lover part is part of someone's personality for me, so the two go hand in hand.
If you mean purely looks vs personality then the latter wins
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Posted 30 Dec 2013 at 10:12 pm
Twilightgirl123
- Rank: Field Marshall
- Posts: 206
- Joined: 8 Oct 2013
Good Personality would be more important to me 
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