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    Nikki and rich [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all

    I have a problem with premature ejaulation dose any one have any advice on controlling ejaculateion or just last longer without the aid of desenseating creams or gels

    Any advice is appreciated


    Ryuudoragon [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi buddy,

    Very difficult area to give advice but a few points to note:

    Do you have sex often? If not, you must have it more regularly to de-sensitise yourself and become more familiar to the feeling.

    Do you get deeply excited? If so, try to relax and mellow out a little. It can seriously reduce your ability to perform if you become too excited.

    Penile sensitivity? Try to use a condom to see if that makes a difference, if it does then this may assist you with getting a start on how to address it.

    Try different acts with your partner oral/full sex. Different positions that will help you become confident.

    Please don't become so rapped up in the here and now, it may just be a blip. It so important to relax and be open with your partner with a litle help you WILL crack this.

    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya Nikki & Rich - I have heard about a technique to help with this called the Masters & Johnson method - I had a quick look online and found a website that describes this and also another web link with an article which may be useful:



    I hope this helps :) xx

    Sean88 [sign in to see picture]
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    If you want to please your partner masturbate an hour before sex so when you get it down with her it will last longer

    Sean88 [sign in to see picture]
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    Or have lots of sex in a day and by 3rd or 4th u can go for hours

    HappilyExperimenting [sign in to see picture]
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    You could always try a stamina stroker or fleshlight, I can't link any from my phone but there are plenty on the LH site to choose from. You could also practice masturbating and then holding off for a few minutes while you calm down, then start masturbating again. This may help. Fluffbags is good at advice, I hope she sees this thread to help you :)

    happydays121 [sign in to see picture]
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    I know this will bring howls of derision from the vast majority on here.........But a couple of drinks can always help!!

    Shy_Guy [sign in to see picture]
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    As others have said if it is caused by sensitivity using a stroker can help as it can help desensitise you. Masturbation can also help also, as they both have more friction than a vagina.


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    Pelvic floor exercise, put a towel over your erection and try and move it with your cock alone. After a few weeks of this exercise, when you are about to ejaculate do this exercise without the towel and you will stop your orgasm. Good luck

    Nikki and rich [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks all this has helped me really thank you for ur time


    Khaleesi [sign in to see picture]
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    I can't really add anything to the above advice but this might be useful http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SAdYPS40V8. It's a clip by Annablle Knight on premature ejaculation.

    Kaiser [sign in to see picture]
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    some great advice on this thread

    andrex [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm with HappyDays here, after half a bottle of red wine, if I'm in the mood it can go on for ages, without the wine I can't. Also, I use this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22771

    it's been a revelation in our bedroom, it helps me control myself longer & vibes my wife very nicely, she loves it, I love it, well worth a try & even on offer now! Good luck mate!

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