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    AdnaW wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    Salvadore wrote:

    " Your vagina is so tight" is a fishing complement lol, I told this to my new girlfriend the other week hoping to get the reply, "oo because you are so big".. but instead I got "thanks"..lol was like she was saying "lucky i did all those exercises".. funny..

    It annoys me the other way around! I'd consider myself average, so when I tell my girl "You're so tight" she responds by saying "It's because you're so big."

    It's not... IT IS because shes so tight... She used to see a specialist because she suffered with pain and was given PC exercises to help her relax (they also strengthen)... Don't lie or blame me woman!

    Oi you! I wasn't lying....to my body you are very big!! Just cause I'm also damaged doesn't take away from the fact that you are big to me (and in fact you are particularly wide!). I have to work hard in order to manage your size so you should be grateful :P....actually, maybe not seeings how you know that I only work that hard cause I'm the one that needs the penetration the most :P

    Going back to the topic....I hope I get bigger with age cause I have no end of trouble with my smallness!

    I'm with you on this one AdnaW...I'm very tiny too and have to work quite hard to be able to comfortably accomodate my partner who is also large (bruised cervixes are not fun!)

    xxKPxx

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    People go on about how great it is to be small, and whilst it's great for him! It's not always fun for the woman, you have to remember to do pelvic floor relaxing exercises every day otherwise have pain during sex, you have to take care during sex to prevent tearing (and blood definately freaks the OH out and puts him off for days!), you have to take things slow else your cervix gets hurt and it means sex that goes on for too long gets painful eventually! Well that's how it is for me anyway!

    Although there is that added bonus of seeing the look of pleasure on the OH's face when we have sex!

    Yay for getting bigger with age lol!

    Ax

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    AdnaW maybe you two should have a play with these? They're really good for staying put and making sure that you are comfortable no matter how hard he thrusts!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16601

    x

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    That's a good suggestion MandS thank you ....My main problem is width though and when depth is an issue I do tend to tell my OH and he holds back a bit, might be a good idea to try them though so he doesn't have to hold back!

    Ax

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    ok gonna sound like a cliche but how can ya tell if its the woman's size or the mans size that makes things uncomfy .... example i am above average (statistically obviously with all the hunks that are part of the OA clan i probably am a twinkie) but say if i put the OH legs over my shoulders halfway is painful ... but missionary she can take me full hilt is it the position , in her mind, or is she too small or am i to big .. is it girth.. ...

    answers to jav-confused.com ... there ya go now i've opened a can of worms !!

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    jav_ski wrote:

    ok gonna sound like a cliche but how can ya tell if its the woman's size or the mans size that makes things uncomfy .... example i am above average (statistically obviously with all the hunks that are part of the OA clan i probably am a twinkie) but say if i put the OH legs over my shoulders halfway is painful ... but missionary she can take me full hilt is it the position , in her mind, or is she too small or am i to big .. is it girth.. ...

    answers to jav-confused.com ... there ya go now i've opened a can of worms !!

    differant postionst shoreten or lengthen the vag or something like that!

    Dxx

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    jav_ski - probably just to do with the areas you're hitting inside her, more pressure on certain areas she might just find uncomfortable. But it's good you found a position where you can really go at it, that's always a good thing :)

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    Every time I see the title of this thread I just keep thinking about this weird scenario where I say:

    • "My vagina's a size 8 but I've been eating doughnuts to try to get it up to a 14 because there's this sexy little number I've been dying to try on ..."

    :D

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    jav_ski wrote:

    ok gonna sound like a cliche but how can ya tell if its the woman's size or the mans size that makes things uncomfy .... example i am above average (statistically obviously with all the hunks that are part of the OA clan i probably am a twinkie) but say if i put the OH legs over my shoulders halfway is painful ... but missionary she can take me full hilt is it the position , in her mind, or is she too small or am i to big .. is it girth.. ...

    answers to jav-confused.com ... there ya go now i've opened a can of worms !!

    I guess it's a mixture of things really. Position plays apart, you can get deeper if you lift the lady's legs up than just ordinary missionary. I think doggy style is supposed to make it easier to go deeper too. You can usually tell if it's girth or depth (well I can anyway!), as a woman, I kinda know when he's hitting my cervix and it's uncomfy or if he's stretching me outwards too much, it just feels different. Also, a woman will get much deeper and wider the more turned on she is, so that can play a part in comfort.

    In our relationship I only know it's me because of medical issues....I was seeing a gynae for a year about pain even just using tampons and tearing and what not so that confirms it as me being too tight, but I also know my OH is slightly above average girth wise.

    At the end of the day, I don't think it matters....my OH is slightly too big *for me* and I am too tight *for him* (I have a "tight" spot due to muscles that are far too strong and his widest point sits at my tightest point so we have to work a little harder to make it "work") and that's what matters right? I mean it doesn't matter about averages and whose "fault" it is when you are in a relationship 'cause all that matters is how you suit each other!

    Hope that makes sense, reading it back it doesn't make much sense to me so hope you get my meaning!

    Ax

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    jav_ski wrote:

    ok gonna sound like a cliche but how can ya tell if its the woman's size or the mans size that makes things uncomfy .... example i am above average (statistically obviously with all the hunks that are part of the OA clan i probably am a twinkie) but say if i put the OH legs over my shoulders halfway is painful ... but missionary she can take me full hilt is it the position , in her mind, or is she too small or am i to big .. is it girth.. ...

    In my experience who is "too big" or "too small" doesn't matter, and even trying to work that out is usually unhelpful because none of this is anybody's "fault". I find that all size is relative in this context, like too big or too small for what? And not all pain is related to size, so that issue could be a red herring.

    If the pain is something which worries your partner, then I hope she goes to see her GP about it. I also hope that you are able to be more gentle in positions in which pain is more likely. Part of being a considerate lover is accommodating your partner's needs and maintaining an active interest in her pleasure. This includes modifying your behaviour where necessary to reduce her discomfort and increase her enjoyment. This is nobody's "fault", this is absolutely what lovemaking is all about.

    I think instead of looking at it as some kind of size issue, what you're talking about is managing your compatibility. If some positions are painful, then explore other positions. If some kinds of thrusting are painful, then explore different kinds of thrusting, and/or explore intimate play other than thrusting. There's literally infinite numbers of erotic possibilities, most of which do not include thrusting. Whatever works for both of you is good. Whatever doesn't, doesn't.

    So explore and enjoy. :)

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    AdnaW wrote:

    jav_ski wrote:

    ok gonna sound like a cliche but how can ya tell if its the woman's size or the mans size that makes things uncomfy .... example i am above average (statistically obviously with all the hunks that are part of the OA clan i probably am a twinkie) but say if i put the OH legs over my shoulders halfway is painful ... but missionary she can take me full hilt is it the position , in her mind, or is she too small or am i to big .. is it girth.. ...

    answers to jav-confused.com ... there ya go now i've opened a can of worms !!

    I guess it's a mixture of things really. Position plays apart, you can get deeper if you lift the lady's legs up than just ordinary missionary. I think doggy style is supposed to make it easier to go deeper too. You can usually tell if it's girth or depth (well I can anyway!), as a woman, I kinda know when he's hitting my cervix and it's uncomfy or if he's stretching me outwards too much, it just feels different. Also, a woman will get much deeper and wider the more turned on she is, so that can play a part in comfort.

    In our relationship I only know it's me because of medical issues....I was seeing a gynae for a year about pain even just using tampons and tearing and what not so that confirms it as me being too tight, but I also know my OH is slightly above average girth wise.

    At the end of the day, I don't think it matters....my OH is slightly too big *for me* and I am too tight *for him* (I have a "tight" spot due to muscles that are far too strong and his widest point sits at my tightest point so we have to work a little harder to make it "work") and that's what matters right? I mean it doesn't matter about averages and whose "fault" it is when you are in a relationship 'cause all that matters is how you suit each other!

    Hope that makes sense, reading it back it doesn't make much sense to me so hope you get my meaning!

    Ax

    it was like a beacon of light in the darkest of dark ..... in short yep hear ya loud and clear my dear

    i'm a poet and dont even know it ... I guess handing her the rolling pin and saying were gonna have sex in an hour loosed up is a bad idea then lol

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    Glad it helped Jav....ask Lubyanka says, if pain is an issue, see a GP, penetrative sex shouldn't be painful, sometimes all it takes are a few adjustments and sometimes the pain is a sign of a deeper issue so if in doubt, ask a doc! I know for me, I saw pain as normal as I have never had sex without pain, so it took me ages to see a doctor and I wish I'd sorted it sooner.

    I'd give the rolling pin idea a miss but a good foreplay session tends to do the trick!

    Ax

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    AdnaW wrote:

    Glad it helped Jav....ask Lubyanka says, if pain is an issue, see a GP, penetrative sex shouldn't be painful, sometimes all it takes are a few adjustments and sometimes the pain is a sign of a deeper issue so if in doubt, ask a doc! I know for me, I saw pain as normal as I have never had sex without pain, so it took me ages to see a doctor and I wish I'd sorted it sooner.

    I'd give the rolling pin idea a miss but a good foreplay session tends to do the trick!

    Ax

    to be fair she is cool with ontop .. doggy ... and missionary and other positions its just anything whiich invloves her ankles abover her boobies that causes the issue but yep might try the gp .. or buy her 15inch heels :)

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    Sounds like a depth issue then, obviously you both know yourselves better than anyone on here would so it's your call....can't hurt asking a doc though. It shouldn't really hurt if you go too deep, it can just feel uncomfy if you hit the cervix for some woman (some woman love it so I hear though) so perhaps it's worth seeing a doc!

    Ax

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    Lubyanka wrote:

    Every time I see the title of this thread I just keep thinking about this weird scenario where I say:

    • "My vagina's a size 8 but I've been eating doughnuts to try to get it up to a 14 because there's this sexy little number I've been dying to try on ..."

    :D

    Maybe volume would be a better measurement! If indeed someone really needs to know!

    Waterballon and a hosepipe should get this answer...

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    Lubyanka wrote:

    jav_ski wrote:

    ok gonna sound like a cliche but how can ya tell if its the woman's size or the mans size that makes things uncomfy .... example i am above average (statistically obviously with all the hunks that are part of the OA clan i probably am a twinkie) but say if i put the OH legs over my shoulders halfway is painful ... but missionary she can take me full hilt is it the position , in her mind, or is she too small or am i to big .. is it girth.. ...

    In my experience who is "too big" or "too small" doesn't matter, and even trying to work that out is usually unhelpful because none of this is anybody's "fault". I find that all size is relative in this context, like too big or too small for what? And not all pain is related to size, so that issue could be a red herring.

    If the pain is something which worries your partner, then I hope she goes to see her GP about it. I also hope that you are able to be more gentle in positions in which pain is more likely. Part of being a considerate lover is accommodating your partner's needs and maintaining an active interest in her pleasure. This includes modifying your behaviour where necessary to reduce her discomfort and increase her enjoyment. This is nobody's "fault", this is absolutely what lovemaking is all about.

    I think instead of looking at it as some kind of size issue, what you're talking about is managing your compatibility. If some positions are painful, then explore other positions. If some kinds of thrusting are painful, then explore different kinds of thrusting, and/or explore intimate play other than thrusting. There's literally infinite numbers of erotic possibilities, most of which do not include thrusting. Whatever works for both of you is good. Whatever doesn't, doesn't.

    So explore and enjoy. :)

    Your scaring me recently Lubyanka... We're in agreement again!

    As you basically said size isn't really an issue as sex is so varied it can mostly be worked around!

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    WandA wrote:

    Lubyanka wrote:

    Every time I see the title of this thread I just keep thinking about this weird scenario where I say:

    • "My vagina's a size 8 but I've been eating doughnuts to try to get it up to a 14 because there's this sexy little number I've been dying to try on ..."

    :D

    Maybe volume would be a better measurement! If indeed someone really needs to know!

    Waterballon and a hosepipe should get this answer...

    hosepipe trailing through the house? No...Supersoaker would do the job just fine.

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    SmoothOne wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    Maybe volume would be a better measurement! If indeed someone really needs to know!

    Waterballon and a hosepipe should get this answer...

    hosepipe trailing through the house? No...Supersoaker would do the job just fine.

    Its all about rubber ducks and supersoakers with you isn't it?

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    It could be that she has a retroverted uterus Javski?

    I have one and deep penetration can be a simple matter of repositioning or even the timing of hard sex.

    I find it uncomfortable to have doggy style or legs on shoulders/knees by ears sex in the 1st week of my cycle but once I've ovulated then my cervix moves and it's all fine.

    If I've got my bum up on a pillow and my legs pretty vertical against my husband's chest then it's usually fine too, great for g-spot stimulation as well or you could try holding her legs out as wide as they'll go, that's very deep.

    I think that any positon that involves being effectively folded in half is actually squashing your internal organs downwards, just my opinion.

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    Not sure if someone's already mentioned but Balzees are quite good for controling penetration depth and would work in a variety of positions!

    xxKPxx

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