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    Mr Monster [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd love to have it done, and to do it, but I have really wide hands. Short and stubby.

    Ouch!

    Guess I'll just have to talk MrsM into lubing up...

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    violeteyes wrote:

    well OH and i never manage to get past the point of the knuckles, no matter how lubricated or relaxed i am. i think it may also depend on the size of the hand and the amount of time spent- i also notice that it seems to be bigger women in videos that can completely be fisted so might be something to do with girls size? like if shes small and petite it might be a bit harder

    I'm sorry VE, but you're wrong there. Outward size and internal tightness are absolutely unrelated. Do you really think chubby girls have loose pussies?! You could cause a lot of offence that way! What kind of magic science would cause that?

    SS xx

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    Have to agree with you - I'm 5 foot 2 and a UK size 6. Could be the fact I had a nearly 10 pound baby and probably have a completely massive fanny as a result :) but my OH manages to completely fist me, and he's got massive hands - mind you, it takes a while! Worth it though!

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    SweetSubmission wrote:

    Outward size and internal tightness are absolutely unrelated. Do you really think chubby girls have loose pussies?!

    Not fat, just big-boned, as the saying goes!

    I imagine absolute pelvic size puts a pretty firm limit on the amount of stretch possible in any case.

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    just read through all these posts and oh my days this is a horny discussion, all hot n bothered now!!

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    This brings funny memories from about two hours ago! lol Lady-J will know wat I'm on about won't you sexy?! lol xxxxxx

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    I tried fisting with an ex boyfriend and found it such a turn on, I ended up ejaculating all over him (which obviously he loved).

    Tried it on myself but yep the angle is all wrong and you're all right you do end up drying up.

    Got really horny the other day and asked my new (4 months) boyfriend if he would do it too me, he seemed pretty reluctant but did it for me, as I felt like he didn't want to do it I ended up not enjoying it as much. Think he must of thought 1) he would hurt me or 2) i'd be so stretched after he wouldn't touch the sides. Well I'd already done my research there, I still talk to the ex and had asked him wether I was still tight after, he said tighter and seeing he wasn't the most well endowed man I was doubly pleased.

    Gonna try again with new BF and squirt for him as I used to.

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    Also didn't realise you had toys on here for fisting, will certainly be investing in one soon.

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    I love being anally fisted. I experienced it first 8 years ago and now it's the only sort of sex I really like.

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    I would love to try it but the thought terrifies me! I love watching it on porn but thats different! Thanks for all your tips though...i might just give it a go!

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    sorry the quote function got in the way!

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    cj 1972 wrote

    Fisting. It can be done right or wrong, if it's done wrong, she will never want to do it again!

    Fisting does not have to be literally about 'fisting ' as in, the whole fist and half your arm up there, so stop worrying about losing a braclet or watch lol!

    Extremely important is to removal all jewellery

    Heres what to do:

    Make sure your nails are trimmed with NO jagged edges.

    Get some KY Jelly. There are other lubes out there, but KY is the best.

    Apply KY to your hand. Apply KY to her vagina inside and around the entrance.

    Most of this advice is good, but KY is frankly an awful lube. It dries up quickly, and is not very slippery at all. Try a silicone oil or if you prefer another water-based lube.

    Do some usual foreplay with thouching and caressing and oral sex. (or which ever one she likes best).

    Start by sliding one finger in and out, then progress to two, then three.

    Then stop, hold it there!

    Keep three fingers in and gently move in and out, rotate around, push in and out.

    Now she needs to switch on a bullet vibe like the bang bang bullet or a mild to moderate mini vibe preferrably with a single speed and start to stroke her clitoris with it. This will make her relax and the pleasure will stop her tensing.

    NOW go four a fourth finger, in and out, slowly, twist around again, while you are doing this your hand needs to be in a narrow shape (forefinger and little finger leaning in to touch middle fingers to make your hand narrow).

    Press your thumb tight to your centre palm and then push in again, out, rotate, in and out, slowly and gently.

    You are now in up to the knuckles.

    Push gently again but if she feels pain, STOP PULL BACK A LITTLE AND GO AGAIN - GENTLY.

    If you still feel resistance, thats as far as you can go. Wide hands will not fit inside sometimes! (That's why porn actors doing fisting scenes often have slender hands, have you noticed that?)

    Small hands are indeed an advantage.

    If this is as far as you can go, concentrate on the pressing gently against the entrance and twisting gently around, the stretching sensation alone shud be enough with the bullet in use as well, to give her a good orgasm.

    Fisting does not have to mean taking the whole hand, many people (myself included) get mind blowing pleasure from simply feeling a partners hand stretching down there. Which is still fisting even if the whole fist is not involved.

    This should help you to achive the result you both want, so try this next time you have a go at it. And remember fisting is patience and skill and technique, but that's only 20% of it - the rest is TRUST so as long as you are both relaxed, gentle and careful, and go slowly, it should be good for you and mind blowing for her.

    All the best and I hope this helps.

    Source of my advice: An 18 month relationship with a former lover who used to fist me vaginally and anally. He never got past the knuckles either but it was amazing, because it was slow, careful and he did all the things I listed above.

    Hope this helps a lot

    Source of my advice: I enjoy being anally fisted and I've been fisted by both men and women. At our last session she fisted me to halfway up her upper arm.

    One tip to the fister not mentioned here. If have managed to get your hand entirely in her vadge and she orgasms DO NOT in any circumstances try to remove your hand while the orgasmic spasms are still taking place. These can be extremely powerful and you might end up with severe bruising or even a broken wrist.

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