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  1. Do you prefer being the Dom or Sub?

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    lola69 [sign in to see picture]
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    the sub as its more exciting being told what to do

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    Student20 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm not entirely sure, usually I tend to be the dominant one but it's always a bit of a turn on when she takes control.

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    LOVE [sign in to see picture]
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    WE ARE BOTH SUB ANDDOM TO EACH OTHER

    SOMETIES I,FEMALE WILL DOMANATE FOR SAY A WEEK OTHER TIMES ITS THE MALE DEPENDES ON THE MOOD

    BUT HER TOTLY DOMANATES WHAT KNICKERS I WEAR ALL THE TIME,I HAVE TO ASKE FOR CLEAN ONES AND EVEN HAVE TO ASK TO TAKE THEM OFF!!

    JUST OUR GAME WHICH SUITS US

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    smirnoff09 [sign in to see picture]
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    as a bossy moo I prefer dom but i do like to be sub as a surprise..that really gets him going .

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    Lookin - Yummy [sign in to see picture]
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    Haven't read any of the posts , so sorry if I repeat what others may have put ! I just read the question ;

    As I say on my profile , I am very much Jekyll and Hyde , I have 2 completely different feelings for sex.

    However , when in my more kinky mood, I think if I am honest I do prefer being sub - Having that feelin of someone controlling me is very sexy. The thought of being someones "Play thing" is rather exciting. I find all my senses get hightened if I am restrained and that makes the pleasure a whole lot more thrilling .

    Actually, I really enjoy dominating my OH .....

    Knowing that I am in control of what they are feeling and that I can cause them pleasure is very ummmm well, it makes me smile an awful lot and role playing a "Powerful Character" seems to be getting me off a lot lately .

    Oh well , I can't make my mind up !

    Best to carry on enjoying both I guess ?!

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Nexas wrote:

    Love, maybe move away from the caps lock? ^_^'

    I'm a bit of a switch but I'm definitely seeing more of my dom side coming out...

    Alas we tried to warn her... apparently it made no difference.

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    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    LOVE wrote:

    WE ARE BOTH SUB ANDDOM TO EACH OTHER

    SOMETIES I,FEMALE WILL DOMANATE FOR SAY A WEEK OTHER TIMES ITS THE MALE DEPENDES ON THE MOOD

    BUT HER TOTLY DOMANATES WHAT KNICKERS I WEAR ALL THE TIME,I HAVE TO ASKE FOR CLEAN ONES AND EVEN HAVE TO ASK TO TAKE THEM OFF!!

    JUST OUR GAME WHICH SUITS US

    I'd recommend typing your above message differently if you would like people to respond in a more friendly manner - recommend the below:

    "We are both sub and dom to each other.

    Sometimes I, female, will dominate for say, a week. Other times it's the male - depends on the mood.

    But he totally dominates what knickers I wear all the time - I have to ask for clean ones and even have to ask to take them off!!

    Just our game which suits us."

    Using caps lock (third button up on the left side of your keyboard) makes your posts more difficult to read. It also suggests to your readers that you are shouting - unless you're Gordon Ramsey on a tetchy day, I'm sure you don't mean to shout as much as you do.

    I'd really like to be able to welcome you to the OA and reapond nicely to you but at the moment you're behaving in an antisocial way by ignoring so many polite requests for you to change your ways.

    Please listen.

    CCW x

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Please please listen!

    That clever lady knows what she is talking about! We love talking to everyone here but it really does seem quite impolite to ignore other members and 'shout'.

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    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    (apart from spelling respond incorrectly)

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    Artel [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd have to say I'm more of a switch by nature. Variety is the spice of life.

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    Kitty_McPlunder [sign in to see picture]
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    Same here Artel, I like to play both roles.

    I guess I lean more towards the sub side, as Mr McP leans more towards the dom side, so it works well for us, but I find it easy to switch over and get my domme hat on aswell. :-)

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Most people appear to be switches but with a certain preference. Reminds me of the sexuality discussion recently!

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    KittyPurry [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd say I'm a switch (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzUozo1628U) with sub leanings

    xxKPxx

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Think I've already answered this ages ago! Total Dom here but love subbing, that's the scoffing of filled breads! :-p

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Haha... I laughed! Cheesy (like a suc actually) but still made me giggle!

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    I think what is annoying members it that they pointed out how they disliked the CAPS LOCK ON thing but were ignored... In post they brought it up in, of which there has been a few.

    I'm always reluctant to report posts, I'd rather explain my position to a member, which I think is more respectful. Not nice to ignore someone.

    Perhaps we did get a bit too tetchy though! Sorry potential friends!

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    Kinkyfish [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all

    I prefer being sub to my girl, there is somthing so erotic about not being in control.

    She likes both but does seem to be siding on the domside (yeah for me)

    She also looks really really sexy in latex :)

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    Kitty_McPlunder [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey Kinkyfish, I liked your latest review for the nurse outfit! The injection bit made me smile!! hehe

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    Kinkyfish [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you, people on here are very nice :)

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    X lovely lady X [sign in to see picture]
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    diamonds wrote:

    im with mybad, i like a bit of both :P but i like being sub more

    Dxx

    Im with diamonds, i definately wouldnt want to always be the submissive one as mixing it about is much more fun, but i really do like being sub more.

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