• Do you prefer being the Dom or Sub?

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    YoungEssexCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Think more so Sub, but sometimes Dom, again depending on mood

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    LadyVelvet wrote:

    Mistress D - is the book you mentioned - "The mistress manual" - suitable for a complete novice who really wants to Dom - and do it properly?

    Where's a good place to start - in all honesty the thought of causing him real pain worries me - but we are both really keen, we really want this for our relationship but I really don't have a clue.

    Thanks x

    No. The Mistress Manual is the good girls guide to female dominance by Mistress Lorelei. Worth a read. X

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    Sub definately. Pegging sounds fab.

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    i can swing both ways depends onmy mood

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    lickmadick wrote:

    i can swing both ways depends onmy mood

    Which mood are you in today? X

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    sub i feel i need some directing

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    lickmadick wrote:

    sub i feel i need some directing

    Thought you might somehow!

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    Idea of being sexually dominated is big turn on for me.

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    Cardiff1 wrote:

    Idea of being sexually dominated is big turn on for me.

    It is for a lot of people. So many powerful men escape their roles in life by wanting to be controlled and punished. Which is good news for me!

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    I love being a sub you get to truly let go of life for a while and its also quite fun in general compared to some less extreme methods of foreplay

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    Yes though of escaping to a place where in thrall to someone else

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    I switch. Sometimes mid session. I frequently start off wanting to be subbie but slowly start to want to take control. Other times I'll be dom from the start. Probably depends how horny I am I guess...

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    crag630 wrote:

    I love being a sub you get to truly let go of life for a while and its also quite fun in general compared to some less extreme methods of foreplay

    Thats what my partner K says. He loves the complete escape from real life. X

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    ilove the feeling of being a sub when the whip comes down

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    I love being sub. I've been dom once and REALLY didn't like the side of my personality that emerged. OH enjoyed it, but I felt terrible afterwards.

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    really dirty sex is good but no violence involved for us, we switch around a lot

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    I want to be sub but my OH just doesn't quite get what I want..........despite direction - work in progress.

    But I love to be dominated! Mmmmmmm

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    I like to be dominated, but then I slowly start to take control, so it kinda defeats the object I guess. My oh doesn't mind tieing me up, which is always good fun.

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    I like to be dominated but am still trying to convince my wife, she tries but has'nt perfected it yet (to my dissapiontment) any body any tips on how to encourage her wicked side ? surely every woman has one.

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    oh yes they have eveready just a few glasses of wine and the whip comes down mate

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