• Do you prefer being the Dom or Sub?

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    mmm sound funky

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    Draig [sign in to see picture]
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    Im a switch and I love it. It ads more fun and allot more options to play with. just need to find away of gettin the OH to realise I wont break!

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    Tupperwareheart [sign in to see picture]
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    Since meeting the OH i've become a switch, i used to just be a sub but as the mr is aswell i slowly discovered i had a dominant side to me aswell.

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    yeah i think i'm a switch too, love it both way's anytime, depends who takes the intiative on the night xxx

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    Thats just like we are, think its the best of both, it changes during the session to sometimes! that gets confussing though!!

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    I'm definately a " Switch " but I think At present, I'm going to settle with Sub as LJ is not confident being completely submissive. She enjoys me taking control in the terms of controlling what happens when, But not in a bdsm sense.

    However, she is showing a lot of interest in dominating me within the bdsm sense.

    Confused?

    Hell, I am lol

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    LokiDay [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a switchy-leaning-dom type but I definitely like to bottom to painplay, even when I'm in charge: You're going to pour that hot wax across my breasts exactly how I tell you to and you're going to do it now.

    Mind you, while my boy is on the subby side of switch he's getting more comfortable with his dominant side, and it's lovely to see his growing confidence in himself and his abilties.

    Nothing more fun than squabbling for power while you play!

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    Rosalie_x [sign in to see picture]
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    Im definatley a "Sub" , ive tried being dominant with my OH but it just makes me feel awkward, but im slowly getting more dominant though

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    I love being a Dom. I control Slave Ks life, its great fun, every girl should try it. X

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    I love being the Dom and pushing my OH boundaries,but ultimately the sub has the higher level of control.

    So sometimes it's sub for me,my OH is a very convincing dom and it gets very exciting very quicklyIt's all about trust though and we are lucky we both have high levels of trust in each other.

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    sub is my favourite

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    occhiverdi [sign in to see picture]
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    LuciousLips wrote:

    I love being the Dom and pushing my OH boundaries,but ultimately the sub has the higher level of control.

    So sometimes it's sub for me,my OH is a very convincing dom and it gets very exciting very quicklyIt's all about trust though and we are lucky we both have high levels of trust in each other.

    Yep we're the same I like being Dom although I am not as comfortable in the role as I am as a sub. I love watching my OH take control.... :D totally agree its all about trust :D

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    Have always loved Sub but with my husband he loves me to dominate and I must say when I get all the kit on .. i feel very powerful indeed! I still have to take things easy with him atm and he doesnt like much pain (men and their pain thresholds eh?)

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    kinkySnM [sign in to see picture]
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    I way prefer Sub but like to kick it up occasionally and Dom haha x

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    Oh I love being a sub, tied up and blindfolded is great. ;)

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    Sam27 [sign in to see picture]
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    We switch but she definately prefers being sub.

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Either definately! But I think J prefers Dom deep down

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    Mistress D [sign in to see picture]
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    I can not understand switching. Every part of me just wants to dominate, i love being cruel to K, bondage punishment the whole scene but although i trust him completely it would scare me to reverse the roles. Thankfully we are both happy with the way it works. X

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    Love been a sub so hot and love the wife been in total control

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    Mistress D wrote:

    it would scare me to reverse the roles.

    Isn't that part of the excitement at first?

    I've never really done either, but I can see the see the attraction of e.g. tying my OH up and teasing / having my way with her, and vice versa.

    One thing I can't understand is when denial of orgasm is included.

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