I must admit, if he's late twenties, never had a job and only just moved out of his parents house, well, my first thought is he needs a clip round the ear and to find a job.
Its a man thing
He has had a job since he was young. I think you might have misread something. He hasn't been employed for the last 8 months though, he is my carer (I am disabled) He certainly isn't lazy and he does the lions share of everything physical, because I can't. I sometimes wonder if that is part of the stress, as I said, going from no responsibilities to looking after me and children. He does work part time from home though. He is a PC geek and graphic designer. Sorry if I made it sound like he was a lazy git. He is actually brilliant and as I said, no problems or grievances outside the bedroom.
Thanks for everyones comments though, they are certainly helping me calm down and not bother so much about the issue, as it seems like it is quite common, even if it is frustrating. xxx