Hi all
How’s everyone doing today? Anyway another question for all of you out there :)
Earlier today me and the OH were having a discussion about what we wanted to try next sex wise, and general chatting about our likes and dislikes in the bedroom (or wherever the mood takes us!). We both realised that we greatly enjoy humiliation both giving and receiving. Now we have never deliberated thought of the link between our bedroom antics and humiliation, however we realised that this part of our enjoyment. The more we thought about the links, the more disturbed we got. Neither of us could explain why we loved humiliating each other and why it turned us on so much. Outside our bedroom acts we are always very respectful and quite old fashioned people in the sense that we are very prim and proper always maintain good manors. Our jobs also demand us to act professionally at all times both on and off the clock in public.
However then when you look at what we get up to in the bedroom there’s all kind of (what some would call disgusting) kinky acts. For example we both enjoy watersports, wetting, desperation play, bondage, chastity, domination, and various other fetishes, even light pony play. On occasion these have moved into our daily lives such as chastity play. My other half also admitted to getting a massive kick out of making me wear dirty knickers during day to day living (ie wet from getting excited or even a combination of both our sexual fluids).
The more we talked about it, the more shocked we were at how much enjoyment we got through humiliation of each other. Is this the case for anyone else? can anyone else raise their hand and admit they enjoy humiliating their partners for sexual arousal. Or are the OH and me really just that strange haha?