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  1. Complete newbie seeks advice!

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    Lilypad85 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 1
    • Joined: 15 Jul 2013

    Hi there - better start with a disclaimer by saying this isn't meant as a pick up. Hopefully that'll keep the modders at bay.

    I have recently gotten out of a year & a half long relationship, which ended rather horribly if I'm honest. It's left me rather jaded with my view on relationships and the like. As a result, I'm not really want to have another girlfriend anytime soon.

    Thing is, now I am single, I really want to start sexually experimenting. Maybe it's an age/confidence thing, but I'm so much more open to trying things now. This girlfriend, and my previous, were not very adventurous, so I've felt a bit of time running out and frustration for a while now.

    I really haven't got a clue where to start looking for this stuff. I'm perfectly confident, good looking etc but figured my sex was going to stay vanilla so didn't bother looking - any ideas? The idea of escorts/prostitutes does not appeal, my ego dictates that the person wants me, not my cash haha

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    ShyButCurious [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 19
    • Joined: 29 May 2013

    If your new to the whole "lets liven up the sex life game" why don't you start it as a solo thing. Get a couple basic sex toys and see what your comfortable doing on your own before you go ahead a dive in with someone who's been doing it for years and being over welmed by it. That what i would do in your situation anyway :) x

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    Catgirlsp [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 1
    • Joined: 10 Jul 2012

    there is plenty of toys on lovehoney to choose from if u want to experiment u dont need someone to experiment with. i think all u need if u want to do solo is abunch of different type of toys and some time alone. if udo end up with someone weather it would be a partner or a sex buddy make sure u feel comfy and trust them enough to tell them wat u like and dont like and even discuss or compromise.it would only be akward for u if they end up doing something u dont like or u doing something they dont like.

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    Naughty Miss K [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 754
    • Joined: 20 Nov 2012

    I agree with ShyButCurious, start solo :) There's alot of stuff to have a look at on the site, and the reviews are really helpful, as RasKlot said :) And don't forget, there's always the year returns policy if you decide something isn't for you :)

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    Khaleesi [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 337
    • Joined: 1 Jun 2012

    Naughty Miss K wrote:

    I agree with ShyButCurious, start solo :) There's alot of stuff to have a look at on the site, and the reviews are really helpful, as RasKlot said :) And don't forget, there's always the year returns policy if you decide something isn't for you :)

    Agreed :) Xx

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2736
    • Joined: 10 Jul 2012

    Hi welcome have fun check out the forum rules - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/forum-rules/ &

    initation test http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/introduce-yourself/19119-newbies-initiation-test/page-103/ we all a lovely bunch here to help enjoy LH .

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