• What's does an orgasm feel like for you?

    1276905800
    claypigeon101 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 13 Jan 2010

    is this workin?

    1276905835
    claypigeon101 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 13 Jan 2010

    yes it is working. sorry new to the forum haha!!

    1277240218
    Miss BoomStick [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 245
    • Joined: 11 May 2010

    I have never even had an orgasm so I can't comment on that but this thread saves me asking what it'll feel like when/if I do have one. I've heard lots of people saying that when you do have an orgasm, you'll know... hope so, I'll hate to have missed it.

    1277242963
    Lookin - Yummy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 290
    • Joined: 2 Jan 2010

    missorgasm wrote:

    nomnomnom what a lovely thread! my OH asked me this not too long ago, the only way i can describe it is a rollercoaster egding up a hill, which essentially start from the first kiss, then edging up the hill slowely.....then i get the the top, some times im there for a second, some times it seems like ages, then i get tipped over the edge and scream allllllllllllllllllllllll the way down :)

    Agreed ! x

    1283955313
    ronnie-baby [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 397
    • Joined: 6 Jan 2010

    Miss BoomStick wrote:

    I have never even had an orgasm so I can't comment on that but this thread saves me asking what it'll feel like when/if I do have one. I've heard lots of people saying that when you do have an orgasm, you'll know... hope so, I'll hate to have missed it.

    I feel the same on this one here. I'm not sure if I have really experienced an orgasm (via penetration). Although having said that, I rarely sometimes feel like a wave type pleasure coming over/through me, and it makes me feel a little light headed as though I'm about to start seeing stars! lol. But it's not quite a release or strong enough like a clitoral orgasm. This is sometimes mainly when I stimulate my g-spot or vaginal walls near the entrance with a dildo though. Is that an orgasm? If so, what's all the hype about?! It feels good but not overwhelming.

    rb

    x x

    1283958257
    jackador123 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 545
    • Joined: 3 Sep 2009

    Errm well a man orgasm is slowing down, groaning, then blacking out from which when you get back up you fall asleep

    1283959905

    [suspended user]

    suspended user
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2373
    • Joined: 30 Oct 2008

    LoveHoney - Hella Rouge wrote:

    Oooh, I like this subject :D

    Anything from a dying butterfly on its last breaths to an invisible force contracting me into a convex shape by my hair and ankles while simeltaneously blowing freezing cold air all over my body, squeezing my internal muscles like a damn accordian player squeezing his instrument on speed.

    Um...tada? haha.

    nice one hella the last sentence was a gem well described ha ha

    1283960226
    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 641
    • Joined: 14 Aug 2009

    jackador123 wrote:

    Errm well a man orgasm is slowing down, groaning, then blacking out from which when you get back up you fall asleep

    I was expecting you to say "a distant memory"...

    1283981764
    Rugbyman [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 100
    • Joined: 2 Sep 2010

    It feels as if all of my energy is focused on my cock and it is building up and then my body spasms and the energy rushes out to the rest of my body, get small aftershocks afterwards and an incredibly sensitive cock which the OH loves as she finds it fun to try and play with.

    1283985639
    linda2008 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 450
    • Joined: 22 Jan 2008

    my body starts to twitch ,,according to my OH i start to deep breath my neck turns red and my nipples go hard ,,i arch my back, and i exploed like a volcano,,,trouble is after that i cant have my OH touch my clit for a couple of mins as its sensitive but then he can do what he wants xxx

    1283987258
    Miss BoomStick [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 245
    • Joined: 11 May 2010

    God, when will I be blessed with the big O

    1283987715
    WandA [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 6178
    • Joined: 28 Nov 2007

    Miss BoomStick wrote:

    God, when will I be blessed with the big O

    Still not found it?

    I'm sure if you relax enough and practice it'll come!

    Enjoy yourself when it does.

    1283988652
    Miss BoomStick [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 245
    • Joined: 11 May 2010

    Nope, not yet WandA but I'll get there and have alot of fun on the way

    I think I am starting to relax more but not completely yet.

    Wow sounds like a lot of fun AA & the vibe looks really nice, are you going to write a review for it?

    1284028197
    telemachus [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Colonel
    • Posts: 314
    • Joined: 10 May 2010

    Avrielle - can you properly feel the vibrations in that one at the tip?

    1284039952
    Mr Trinity [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 35
    • Joined: 20 Aug 2010

    for a man my OH always knows when im close, my eyes close, my toes curl and my legs twitch, you can feel it building at the bottom of your shaft, and you cant control tensing it, then my whole body feels at as i orgasm, my whole body convulses and twitches. i get her to keep going for 10-15 seconds after ive cum and i shake for most of it haha never had orgasms the way she gives them to me!

    1284045259
    sweetcherry24 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 93
    • Joined: 11 Feb 2008

    Miss BoomStick wrote:

    God, when will I be blessed with the big O

    Hey babe have you tried using toys. Using toys will more likley make you orgasm. The key is to relax and let go. you will feel this strange urge and then i just happens. you will know your whole vaginal insides will contract and there will be a sheer flush of excitment all over your body.

    1284048909
    DrtyBoy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 533
    • Joined: 21 May 2010

    relaxing is definitely the key, let the pleasure take control of your body and let all the worries of the world behind...

    1284058379
    Miss BoomStick [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 245
    • Joined: 11 May 2010

    sweetcherry24 wrote:

    Miss BoomStick wrote:

    God, when will I be blessed with the big O

    Hey babe have you tried using toys. Using toys will more likley make you orgasm. The key is to relax and let go. you will feel this strange urge and then i just happens. you will know your whole vaginal insides will contract and there will be a sheer flush of excitment all over your body.

    For years I've been getting newsletter emails and looking all over the internet for tips for having an orgasm and heard loads about using toys but never really thought I would like it well until I found this site in may. I've brought a few toys from here and really enjoy them. My oh uses them on me but I've also started using them on my own. I must admit since using toys sex has gotten so much better and every thing just feels so good. I think as I'm a worrier I do find it hard to fully relax but it getting easier each time. I think it's not knowing what will happen puts me off but at the same time I get annoyed that I don't quite get there.

    1284059353
    WandA [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 6178
    • Joined: 28 Nov 2007

    My OH is a bit worrier and really struggles to relax, once you learn to actually empty your head I'm sure you'll be fine. Just don't worry about it...

    1292103305
    Dirty Red Angel [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 684
    • Joined: 16 Sep 2010

    Thought I'd bumpity bump this thread as it's something I've been wondering about

    I know we all experience slightly different effects but I don't *know* as such if I'm having an orgasm

    I know that might sound weird but you always read abot the women having this crashing wave of pleasure where she nearly want to pass out with the most amazing explosion. Now I don't believe everything I read but I do feel a tad cheated.

    I can't really explain how it feels. I can feel something building in side me but only centred on my clit (which is the only way I've managed to achieve an orgasm, if thats what it is). My OH says he can feel my get very tight and pulse/clench but I can't feel any of this. I suspect I have one coming but generally I HAVE to stop moaning and end up holding my breath whilst sensations build (instinct rather than deliberate) but I can't say I've ever had an amazing orgasm - or rather known that I've had one.

    Am I possibly doing something a little wrong and not getting the full effect? Any tips x

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.