heaven1986 wrote:
Yay go me! 
Just an after thought...how do I distinguish between reward and punishment? He'll enjoy a spank my lad, and I don't want any deliberate acting up. Will it just come with time? How will he know if he's really disappointed me?
Sorry to but in but I thought I could add something here.
If this is going to be your thing rather than a vehicle for him getting you to give him his kinks, then he needs to know that when he chooses to step into your world it really is your world with your rules. Let him play up to try and get what he wants then take it away and make it a reward at the end of the list as least likely to happen, like you did with his strapon. Now he has to earn his rewards the hard way.
you will have to use a serious tone and try wispering in his ear something like so you think you can play mistress for a fool do you, then shout wrong in his ear.
A whisper can fall harder than a rock.
Punishments can be your pleasure too, having him act as a body slave, with nothing sexual to it, and slave must not touch mistress anywhere naughty.
Finally give your self a name, Mistress ? saying mistresses name without permission is so bad.
Have fun and play safe, it's all a game in the end.