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  1. Anal pleasure help

    Dax102 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
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    • Joined: 6 Jul 2009

    Hello everyone, sorry if this has been asked before. I've been trying to achieve a more powerful orgasm through prostate massage and have tried various toys of different sizes, although I enjoy the sensation of being full and moving the toy, it's not mind blowing as I've heard about. So I was wondering if anyone could offer any advice? Many thanks.

    ZombieCpl [sign in to see picture]
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    have you tried vibration? also, if you stimulate the perianum as well as the prostate you can often get better results :)

    Dax102 [sign in to see picture]
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    I have tried vibrators but I have no idea what I'm doing wrong. Thanks for the tip about the perineum, but if I have never heard of that. Where should I aim? What does it do? I do sound stupid lol

    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey Dax

    The perineum is the area of skin between your balls and your anus. It can be quite a sensitive area to play with. Try stroking, tickling or firmer pressure and see if anything tickles your fancy. :D

    Also, just because a "lot" of people rave about anal stimulation or P-Spot orgasms, doesnt mean it will be everyones cup of tea. In much the same way some women enjoy G-Spot orgasms and others just dont. Pleasure is very subjective. Experimentation is great but do not feel bad if something just isnt doing it for you.

    I dont think you are doing anything wrong but if you are completely new to anal stimulation it can take a bit of time and experimenting with different positions, toys, and techniques to find your preferred stimulation. At first you are not completely relaxed and laying back fantasising because you are focusing all your attention on "Does this feel good" "why doesnt that feel good" "ouch that hurts a bit" "is it too far in, or not far enough" and so on. So naturally you are not in exactly the right frame of mind and on top of that, your bum is experiencing totally new sensations and stretchings which can all just be a bit much at first.

    I would say, dont give up, keep trying to relax and go with the flow and try different toys or positions and maybe one day you will be going "oh wow" which is fantastic but maybe it just wont be for you and thats fine too, and definitely doesnt mean your doing something wrong, just that you just dont enjoy it as much as guy X. Good luck

    Dax102 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
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    • Joined: 6 Jul 2009

    Hey fluff bags. Many thanks for the advice and I will certainly give that area a try. See if it makes a difference. I have a new toy so I will give that a whirl with new positions. I'll see if my Gf has any ideas so thanks.

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