lasting longer

we have all been there when we cant control ourselves and it goes after no sooner that we started

any tips on lasting longer?

girls guess you can help as well

Easy one this; masterbate before.

Depending on how acute the problem, vary the proximity and number of masterbations.

Do three if necessary during the day if you are planning on sex that night; if it is really acute do it an hour before. For most people one wank 3-4 hours before will be enough & will not have the effect of impinging on libido (which pre-wanks can have) when the time cums (haha 'cums')

Very good advice above, masturbate before hand, and practice alone too... Try thinking of non sexy things when you approach orgasm, then continue plowing away. That will delay you a little.

If not, try pinching with thumb and forefinger just below the head on the shat, squeezing here will deaden sensation and delay orgasm too. Practice that as well!

I think the advice above is good, personally I've never had any success with the pinching but it's always recommended so must work for most. My issue with wanking before hand is, sometimes my OH will let me cum over her and if I've wanked before there's less cum haha!

Certainly do have this issue sometimes though. If we're having romantic, love-making sex I can last a decent amount of time because for me that's a different feeling. If we're completely filthy, and she's begging me for it harder, well that's when I can't stop myself haha!

The pinching technique is ok, but needs practice to ensure that the placing and control of this technique is correct. Incorrectly doing it won't work or will hurt! You need to find what works for you!

Yeah now you've said it it's worth giving it another go.

The OP might find a Fleshlight STU beneficial. I've recently bought one and only used it a handful of times so I can't comment on whether they work in terms of longevity but they were designed for that reason.

its all mental. think of it as a technical thing and take the lusty horniness out of it to calm things down a bit.. thats what i do

Have just started to have the firework effect, tried masturbating before and have found I find it difficult to get a hard on for a long time and even when I do it's not really hard if you no what I mean anyone got any other ideas? also try delay spray this also didn't work help

Man I feel you. When I'm on my own I can last for a decent amount of time, but when I watch porn, I know I can't go for more than 2/3 minutes if I don't hold back. I've since looked around for tips on how to last longer, and the only concrete advice I've found is Kegel excercises.

http://uk.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html

Apparantly regular Kegel excercises help you last longer in the long run, but I've only just started doing them so I can't be sure. What I do know is, they work during masturbation. When you feel you're about to orgasm, or any time really, do it and hold it for about ten 10 seconds. Afterwards, you'll find you're able to go on for a bit longer.

thanks for the feedback people

keep it cumming (sorry couldnt resist)

erm try pausing half way through and doing some more foreplay without getting you too wound up, that helps :P xxx

If you tend to have an eruption too soon have you thought of using a cock ring one that you have behind the shaft and balls this can also help in keeping the old man pumped up and nice and hard!