• Swingers!

    1487330554
    Goodvibrationz [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 392
    • Joined: 2 Jan 2017

    chisel wrote:

    GV & OV. My wife and I have been swinging for many, many years and have met some wonderful people and some right ' Bs ', so be very careful. Over the years we have made our own circle of friends ( about 40 ) and every 3 weeks or so we have parties at our place for between 8 and14 people ( not the same ones at every party ). They can all be trusted and follow our very strict rules with no problems. So be careful who you pick and where you do it. You sound like the right two to try it out, if you don't care for it back out as quick as you can. I certainly hope you have success. Good Luck. XXX

    Thanks for the info. For now I think we will stick with what we know best but perhaps in the future who knows? We have enough on our hands at the moment with OH's friend (and his girlfriend) and GV's young and lovely girlfriend. Mrs GV is certainly taking it all in her stride!

    XX

    1487335185
    Boox [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 204
    • Joined: 8 Sep 2015

    I've never been swinging but I've always wanted to a deep fantasy of mine is to watch others have sex while giving out a small bit of coaching , swinging is one of those things I worry risking getting into because you never know what you're getting yourself into but it's the risk that arouses me I think , the thought of finding myself in some trouble is somewhat pleasing

    1487339501
    cyclenutt [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 21
    • Joined: 4 Nov 2015

    Anyone have any good starting advice, how do you find a club how do you get an invite etc what do you wear what so you expect etc anyone local to norwich who could help we would be most appreciative x

    1487343684
    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2964
    • Joined: 11 Jun 2012

    @cyclenutt there's all the info of clubs on Fabswingers and a small amount on social swiging.

    There are forums on both sites that offer great advice, but Fab is better for the club details and events.

    As for what to wear, it depends what type of club you go to. Some are a like a nightclub, others are classed as 'wet clubs' where guys were shorts or undies and ladies wear lingerie.

    Never go with expectations. Go with the mindset of sitting in a bar, having a few drinks and chat to staff and members. You could go to a private room and play together, or take the plung and enjoy a couples only room and have sex besides others or watch.

    Check out swinging sites for more info.

    1487494353
    Badger73 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1065
    • Joined: 10 Oct 2012

    We were on Fabswingers and we met a guy through there. Was such a turn on watching him with Mrs Badger and seeing them pleasuring each other.

    The only thing we found with Fabswingers and i belive most of these sites is the amount of time wasters that you get.

    1487934980
    nodrog [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 144
    • Joined: 18 Mar 2014

    after reading posts on here i went and had a look on fabswingers and now i think im addicted loads of women in my area up to everything only thing is im married so its a no go really no harm in looking tho lol

    1487935457
    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2964
    • Joined: 11 Jun 2012

    Goodvibrationz wrote:

    We've been fortunate in having both FFM and MMF by just hooking up with friends who have given us the right "signs". But a swingers club does sound like fun............................but it also sounds a bit daunting.

    GV & OH

    XX

    clubs are much safer than meeting in homes (unless you attend a well established party). A club can be just lke a bar, you can go at your own pace ie socialising, or moving on to a private room, to playing alongside aother couple, to full swap.

    If you're not too keen on singles, a couples only nght would be a good way to start.

    If you do find a club you'd like to try, do tell staff it's your first time, they'll give you a tour and probably ntroduce you to regulars.

    1488039801
    Nonamesplease [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 6
    • Joined: 20 Feb 2017

    Would love to go to a Swingers club, not sure if the wife will agree to it though. We talk about it during sex and she seems to like the sound of it then, might suggest it for my birthday in a couple of months. Have been looking at a few on Swingers Heaven so have an idea where I'd like to go

    1488040427
    Goodvibrationz [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 392
    • Joined: 2 Jan 2017

    Purring-Pussy wrote:

    Goodvibrationz wrote:

    We've been fortunate in having both FFM and MMF by just hooking up with friends who have given us the right "signs". But a swingers club does sound like fun............................but it also sounds a bit daunting.

    GV & OH

    XX

    clubs are much safer than meeting in homes (unless you attend a well established party). A club can be just lke a bar, you can go at your own pace ie socialising, or moving on to a private room, to playing alongside aother couple, to full swap.

    If you're not too keen on singles, a couples only nght would be a good way to start.

    If you do find a club you'd like to try, do tell staff it's your first time, they'll give you a tour and probably ntroduce you to regulars.

    Thanks for the info. We are still thinking about it all but may well give a club a try. X

    1489571123
    Badger73 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1065
    • Joined: 10 Oct 2012

    We are on Fabswingers at the moment. When we were on there in the UK we would get loads of guys wanting to meet up but over here we are so far out of the way it's hard to meet up.

    1489703509
    Bigtrak [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1141
    • Joined: 17 Nov 2010

    We've talked it and always dismissed it. Would love to but truly believe it would destroy our relationship

    1493043821
    LOVE [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 191
    • Joined: 19 Jan 2009

    we have been swinging now for over 20 years

    have found a lot of timewasters over the years

    if you can put up with that sid e to swinging you will meet genuine people

    we still enjoy the fun

    1493936583
    Bigtrak [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1141
    • Joined: 17 Nov 2010

    We are both interested but too worried about it so maybe later in life

    1494236744
    jellincream [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 2
    • Joined: 30 Mar 2014

    Agree entirely, a lot of timewasters out there. Me and my wife have swung a few times with couples, mostly as she is bi and trying to find single women is nigh on impossible! Have tried fabswingers a couple of times and while it is one of the better sites we've found it falls into three catagories, over the top pushy people who want to say hi then have sex instantly or are constantly swinging (we only partake occasionally), people who are really nice but quite often make excuses at the last minute and a few nutters/timewasters. Also had someone who we're pretty sure was trying to get photos to sell to porn sites! It's not easy to find genuine, non pushy people who just want a nice night of sex!

    1494237066
    *sexybabe* [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 803
    • Joined: 14 Aug 2012

    I get lots of couples wanting me to join them for sex, but when I ask to bring my OH they say they just want a girl. I'm not keen to go to someone's house alone as I'd feel too vulnerable. And I want my OH there too 😁

    We used to be on a swingers website but came off a few years ago. I have a few friends now who swap partners, I think I'd be more comfortable doing that as I know and trust them. It nearly happened a while back but the other girl in the party got too drunk and threw up!! Kinda killed the atmosphere!

    1494238398
    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2964
    • Joined: 11 Jun 2012

    In 5 years of swinging, I've never had to experience timewasters, but I guess it depends on your definition of a timewaster.

    To me, it's someone who cancels the very last minute, or doesn't show up to a meet. Yes I've had one or two cancel or rearange, but I had plenty of notice, so none of my time has been wasted. I also have a good sense of those single guys who pretend are females or couples and I follow my gut instinct. Always worked for me.

    Meeting in clubs is great because if the said person/s don't turn up, there is a club full of people you can chat to and perhaps invite to a room.

    1494238686
    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2964
    • Joined: 11 Jun 2012

    jellincream wrote:

    Agree entirely, a lot of timewasters out there. Me and my wife have swung a few times with couples, mostly as she is bi and trying to find single women is nigh on impossible! Have tried fabswingers a couple of times and while it is one of the better sites we've found it falls into three catagories, over the top pushy people who want to say hi then have sex instantly or are constantly swinging (we only partake occasionally), people who are really nice but quite often make excuses at the last minute and a few nutters/timewasters. Also had someone who we're pretty sure was trying to get photos to sell to porn sites! It's not easy to find genuine, non pushy people who just want a nice night of sex!

    Set filters, hide pictures, use the tools of the site.

    What's wrong with constant swingers? I used to go out 3 times a week and mostly it was to socialise and make friends first and foremost.

    Where I am in the North West, there are loads of single ladies. On some club night, we overwhelm the single guys, some events have 20 ladies.

    1494283690
    andytaylor98 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 74
    • Joined: 17 Jan 2009

    Where I am in the North West, there are loads of single ladies. On some club night, we overwhelm the single guys, some events have 20 ladies.

    Trying to keep within the rules here but are there clubs in the NW you'd recommend for me and the OH? I've looked at some that look lovely inside but in not so great locations and I'm bothered about issues when we leave late
    1494286001
    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 472
    • Joined: 20 Jun 2014

    andytaylor98 wrote:

    Where I am in the North West, there are loads of single ladies. On some club night, we overwhelm the single guys, some events have 20 ladies.

    Trying to keep within the rules here but are there clubs in the NW you'd recommend for me and the OH? I've looked at some that look lovely inside but in not so great locations and I'm bothered about issues when we leave late
    Fab have a good directory of clubs with ratings. Im too young for my only local club as they have a minimum 23 age limit so just play around with friends.
    1494286616
    jellincream [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 2
    • Joined: 30 Mar 2014

    Purring-Pussy wrote:

    jellincream wrote:

    Agree entirely, a lot of timewasters out there. Me and my wife have swung a few times with couples, mostly as she is bi and trying to find single women is nigh on impossible! Have tried fabswingers a couple of times and while it is one of the better sites we've found it falls into three catagories, over the top pushy people who want to say hi then have sex instantly or are constantly swinging (we only partake occasionally), people who are really nice but quite often make excuses at the last minute and a few nutters/timewasters. Also had someone who we're pretty sure was trying to get photos to sell to porn sites! It's not easy to find genuine, non pushy people who just want a nice night of sex!

    Set filters, hide pictures, use the tools of the site.

    What's wrong with constant swingers? I used to go out 3 times a week and mostly it was to socialise and make friends first and foremost.

    Where I am in the North West, there are loads of single ladies. On some club night, we overwhelm the single guys, some events have 20 ladies.

    Nothing wrong with constant swingers, my wife has an illness that makes her tired a lot so we only swing occassionally. We just seem to attract people who want to swing often which we can't always do and some people get in a huff over it. :)

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.