• What do you do when...

    astral [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 23 Apr 2011

    It's a communication problem, not a fetish problem.

    clarion [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 27 Oct 2012

    Thanks for the responses. They definetly made me think.

    To be clear, im not considering having an affair. Its just that a lifetime feels like a long time to keep this suppressed.

    Watching porn and going to strip clubs to enjoy this is already a bit of a secret and i fear you have to go further and introduce more deceit to keep getting the buzz, and where does that end.

    You are right that its a communication issue. I joke about it and flat out ask fairly regularly, but she doesnt know just how important this is and how much i want this. I guess i need to take a leap and just explain it at the risk of looking stupid.

    Im slightly embarassed that such a small thing can end up being so important in what is generally a well balanced life!

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