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  1. PARTNER HATES ORAL

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    How generous of you to offer yourself up for practice, BBG ;)

    And great advice about the extra mental stimulation from being slutty or talking dirty... definitely one to try. I tend to get all focused on his cock and forget about him!

    What you say makes a lot of sense - I would feel bad if I couldn't cum from oral and my guy spent a lot of time down there doing his best work. I can see how that would put him off asking me for it.

    Question, though... do you MIND having to use your hand to bring yourself to the edge? Is it like "oh, here, I'll do it myself"... or not?

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    BBG [sign in to see picture]
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    Mind? Not a bit of it! I actually find it pretty horny - like I'm in a porn film myself! And it's not like she's doing nothing if she's busy licking my balls or fingering my ass whilst I'm busy with my hand. The really, really horny thing for me is looking down to see a women grinning back up at me with her mouth open and tongue lapping at the tip of my cock, waiting eagerly for me to cum. I find it a huge turn on to hee her with my spunk splashed over her face. How I get there doesn't matter greatly.

    Here's another tip - a good way to finish a guy off who finds it difficult from oral alone is to use your fist on him after dolloping some of this on his cock - he won't stand a chance, and you'll have done it all by yourself!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/orgasmarmy/lubes/tub-stroke-29-personal-lubricant-6oz-/review/5215.aspx

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    Truly Scrumptious [sign in to see picture]
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    Is that stuff lickable?

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    PrivateAssistant [sign in to see picture]
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    Ohh wow! What a review BBG! I'm gonna have to get some of that for my man, I don't really have a problem bringing him off with either oral or a handjob usually, but if he's come once already and we have more sex then he tends to struggle to come a second time, so this sounds perfect for finishing off a marathon session!

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    Mr & Mrs Naughty [sign in to see picture]
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    Girls,

    Mr Naughty says the secret is all in the pressure you exert on the head. Too light and tentative and a guy can go mad with frustration, thinking, "for fuck's sake suck the bloody thing!" This is not conducive to an orgasm.

    Variation is also important. If you just go up and down, up and down ad infinitum expect him to be asleep before too long. Intersperse up and down with suck and pump, as you plunge up and down with your mouth do the same with your hand on his foreskin, making sure it travels far enough up his shaft to cover the head on the up stroke. Put your hand over the head and as you push down twist your hand whilst at the same time following it with your mouth. Spit on the head then wank it with a very tight grip before plunging it back in your mouth. Flick your tongue across his frenulum at the back of the head. Finally, learn the technique of deep throat.

    Mrs.Naughty mastered it after about 2 weeks and although you will produce spit by the bucketful and have tears streaming from your eyes he will love you forever and consider you a "Top bird", praise indeed from the average bloke. Whatever you do, do not copy what either the males or females do in porn movies, it is impersonal aggressive crap. Ask Mrs Naughty for further details as she is the Most Venerable Queen Of The Blow Job (and mopping the kitchen floor), and drives me absolutely nuts!!

    Mr (lollypop time) Naughty

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Mr Naughty :)

    I'm fairly confident that I have the technique down... I've never had an issue getting a guy off from oral before (the term putty in my hands... er, mouth, comes to mind) but I appear to have landed myself with a bloke who is hard work! In fact, what you've described sounds pretty much exactly what I do, lol, but as they say in Sex and the City, they don't call it a job for nothing.

    BBG - That stuff sounds great! I'm thinking about purchasing my boy a Fleshlight for his birthday, so I might get some of that too.

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    BBG [sign in to see picture]
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    What a wonderful person you are shellyboo! ;-)

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    I know, right?! Problem being, the idiot didn't tell me it was his bithday next week until this week - so I don't think if I order it, I'll have it in time. Sigh.

    Might just treat him to a special night in instead :)

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    MsLatinLady [sign in to see picture]
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    I just came here for nipple covers,lol.

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    Muz333 [sign in to see picture]
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    What a strange way to resurrect a dead topic.

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    MsLatinLady wrote:

    I just came here for nipple covers,lol.

    Welcome MsLatinLady - so you stumbled across the forums - feel free to pop in and say hello http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sex-talk/162279-good-morning-afternoon-evening-part-5/page-476/ we don't bite unless you want us to

    Ax

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    wenchiepie [sign in to see picture]
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    i can't recieve oral.....my OH has this tongue thing where basically its joined straight to his gum so he can't actually stick his tongue out.....i'm ok with it cos i'll be honest i don't much like the idea of him down there lol hes got a bit of a beard thing going on, i'm curious though....

    i like giving it though, its very satisfying to here him moan and tell me how good it is hehe, just make sure you let her know when you're enjoying yourself. Good luck :) lots of people have given you lots of good advice

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    wenchiepie wrote:

    i can't recieve oral.....my OH has this tongue thing where basically its joined straight to his gum so he can't actually stick his tongue out.....i'm ok with it cos i'll be honest i don't much like the idea of him down there lol hes got a bit of a beard thing going on, i'm curious though....

    i like giving it though, its very satisfying to here him moan and tell me how good it is hehe, just make sure you let her know when you're enjoying yourself. Good luck :) lots of people have given you lots of good advice

    Kissing and sucking is were its all at anyway! Can he do that?

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    MsLatinLady [sign in to see picture]
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    Why hello there

    Is this a sexy chat room or something,lol?

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    MsLatinLady wrote:

    Why hello there

    Is this a sexy chat room or something,lol?

    It's a forum lovely,

    If you look up at the top - you should see an clickable "Orgasm Army - Sex & Sex Toys" link - click on that and you'll find a whole host of fun topics to dive into!

    Axx

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    MsLatinLady wrote:

    Why hello there

    Is this a sexy chat room or something,lol?

    Hello and welcome!

    Not too sexy! Self restraint is a good characteristic to have! Feel free to talk openly but soliciting is a big no. Here's the rules:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sex-talk/145046-lovehoney-forum-rules/

    It's a good place to chat so long as no one feels uncomfortable.

    See you around

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    wenchiepie wrote:

    i can't recieve oral.....my OH has this tongue thing where basically its joined straight to his gum so he can't actually stick his tongue out.....i'm ok with it cos i'll be honest i don't much like the idea of him down there lol hes got a bit of a beard thing going on, i'm curious though....

    i like giving it though, its very satisfying to here him moan and tell me how good it is hehe, just make sure you let her know when you're enjoying yourself. Good luck :) lots of people have given you lots of good advice

    Wow, now there's an interesting reason for no oral.

    As WandA said, kissing and sucking could work?

    Not the end of the world though - maybe get yourself a Squeel if you're really curious?

    I personally prefer sex to oral myself though!

    Axx

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    pusseypleaser [sign in to see picture]
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    How about doing it on her for a while. My partner was the same she didn't like it either. I started giving it to her without receving for a while. Now she is more willing to do it on me and is more comfortable with my penis but it takes time

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Probably best to stop if she's not into it and has stated this. Fair enough if she's willing to give it a swing though.

    Tongue vibes are ace!

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    wenchiepie [sign in to see picture]
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    AdnaW wrote:

    wenchiepie wrote:

    i can't recieve oral.....my OH has this tongue thing where basically its joined straight to his gum so he can't actually stick his tongue out.....i'm ok with it cos i'll be honest i don't much like the idea of him down there lol hes got a bit of a beard thing going on, i'm curious though....

    i like giving it though, its very satisfying to here him moan and tell me how good it is hehe, just make sure you let her know when you're enjoying yourself. Good luck :) lots of people have given you lots of good advice

    Wow, now there's an interesting reason for no oral.

    As WandA said, kissing and sucking could work?

    Not the end of the world though - maybe get yourself a Squeel if you're really curious?

    I personally prefer sex to oral myself though!

    Axx

    i'll be honest, i don't mind it so much cos i prefer sex as well...if i ever get curious i might try a squeel lol or just have a threesome haha!

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