We were very nervous when we started our quest, but we stuck to our guns bad always said, no partner swop, no hidden agenda. We would reccomend sitting down with your partner, agree on how far you want to go and join a swinger website. Sounds scary, we were, but there are loads of like minded couples on there looking for same room no swop sex, voyerism, as well as swingers, but you just make it plain in the ad what it is you want. We had lots of people get in touch and met a few for coffee after emaing for a bit, then chose a couple to meet. They are now very good fiends and socialise more than we do adult play with them, which is nice. We know they won't suggest anything else, as we know where we all stand, but we were all very surprised when the two women wanted to play with one another. Very safe, clean, adult fun. We are meeting then again next month, as it was that good. If anyone would like to know any more please ask, as it took us a few weeks to work out what we were doing and how to do it, so learn from our mistakes. Good luck, it's definitely worth the wait. X