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  1. Having sex vs making love

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    Vampyrewillow [sign in to see picture]
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    I see them both as the same, obviously there is physically difference but when my partner fucks me, he is still making love to me, and when we are slow sexing, he is still fucking me =/

    i don't know if that makes sense though

    even if we're having disgusting degrading sex we are still making love because yanno... we love each other and even if we are taking it slow, it still feels awesome, so i'm still being fucked

    i apologise for the lots of language there guys but i felt it was needed to get my point across?

    as for which i prefer... hmm i think i prefer the rough stuff, because the love is still there and its so intense i could die and be happy :]

    VW x

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    monstergeeza wrote:

    Some times lots of slow kissing and caressing while having some hard but slow and firm thrusts while legs are locked is very sexy and romantic.

    This made me think, this thread shows that the context is no clue as to which you are doing (if you even want to compatmentalize sex in that way) I've had the long, slow variety on a one nighter but also a dirty quickie when I'm committed to a person. Vice versa too and one variety can easily slide into the other.

    Personally I do love having a rampant session, falling asleep and then hours later you have bleary eyes, sleepy, Four in the Morning sex.

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Can you make sex and have love?

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    Tigerlilies wrote:

    Making love?

    Is that where you turn the lights off and hold hands against candlelight??

    Ewwwwwwww. You kinky perverts.

    Ha!!

    I think I'm wIth VW - I see them as the same thing x

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    WandA wrote:

    Can you make sex and have love?

    Yes! Sometimes both at once!

    I also love sex, but I'm having trouble trying to have make.

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    Mr Monster wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    Can you make sex and have love?

    Yes! Sometimes both at once!

    I also love sex, but I'm having trouble trying to have make.

    WandA's comment was funny but this topped it completely!

    Adx

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    Mr Monster wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    Can you make sex and have love?

    Yes! Sometimes both at once!

    I also love sex, but I'm having trouble trying to have make.

    Oooo, you're not trying!

    Have make (as in build or brand).

    And have make? Terrible grammar Mr M...

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    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    WandA's comment was funny but this topped it completely!

    Adx

    WandA wrote:

    Oooo, you're not trying!

    Have make (as in build or brand).

    And have make? Terrible grammar Mr M...

    You're just jealous I topped you infront of your girlie.

    Yah, boo, sucks to be you! *ppffft*

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    Mr Monster [sign in to see picture]
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    And that's why I 'm having trouble, geddit?

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    I also think there is definately a big difference between having sex & making love.

    I think me & the OH have sex 98% of the time but then every now & then there is something that makes us slow it down & it's very gentle & intense.

    I love both equaly & think there is a time & a place for both! :)

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    Sex is more 'the norm' for us, but once in a while, love making is just sooooo good. Feeling horny and a lack of time often results in quickies!

    I'd probably sway towards a rough, hard fuck, but I do like a snuggle afterwards!

    MrsPx

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    For me it depends on the mood and time we have. Sometimes I like lovemaking and sometimes I like a fuck. I suppose the best type is starting off slowly and then going hard and fast at the end.

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    MasqueradeMinx wrote:

    For me it depends on the mood and time we have. Sometimes I like lovemaking and sometimes I like a fuck. I suppose the best type is starting off slowly and then going hard and fast at the end.

    i second that one

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    MasqueradeMinx wrote:

    I suppose the best type is starting off slowly and then going hard and fast at the end.

    Hell yeah!!!

    MrsPx

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