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  1. Having a Threesome

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Its just

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Its just that people on the swingers sites are so eager to meet that night there and then! There seems to be no wiggle room. We dont particularly want to get to know them as people either lol but atleaste want to properly suss them out first to see if they are into the same things we are sexually.

    Have you never had the opertunity to be with a woman? I find that 60 percent of the enjoyment is the fact it is a woman! So dont worry?, you onlu have to figure out the other 40 percent :). Its not too hard, you'll find you know what you're doing once you get going because you know as a woman what feels good. I've been with a few girls and had a 2 year lesbian realationship. It was great!

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    AT1 [sign in to see picture]
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    We've exclusively used escorts for our FFM threesomes, started looking on swinging sites but decided escorts was the way forward for us. It's been fantastic fun and no worries about timewasters, a 3rd persons emotions etc, just the wife and I enjoying some new experiences with no worries about it getting out or being contacted by the 3rd person.

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    john69 [sign in to see picture]
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    We had a ffm once, had a nice night, but not as exciting as some people claim. We both found that being just the two of us together gives much more. You loose so much of the intimacy between the two of you, it is not worth it.

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Thread broken?

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    I see your point john :) threesomes and more aren't about intimacy for me and oh. Its about lust and fantast and sharing our filthy secrets with someone .

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    Skitty [sign in to see picture]
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    Sarahgee wrote:

    Its just that people on the swingers sites are so eager to meet that night there and then! There seems to be no wiggle room. We dont particularly want to get to know them as people either lol but atleaste want to properly suss them out first to see if they are into the same things we are sexually.

    Have you never had the opertunity to be with a woman? I find that 60 percent of the enjoyment is the fact it is a woman! So dont worry?, you onlu have to figure out the other 40 percent :). Its not too hard, you'll find you know what you're doing once you get going because you know as a woman what feels good. I've been with a few girls and had a 2 year lesbian realationship. It was great!

    I can imagine that it's really difficult with swinging sites to tell who's genuine and who isn't. I think it'd be a bit of a minefield. I signed up to a few last night because I figured it's best to check out all the different avenues just in case and I won't lose anything from looking. There's a swinging club on the road I live on, so it seems kind of mad not to try there, but it's also a naturist club so it's a bit intimidating because of that.

    I've only ever kissed another girl, and that was always with friends as a sort of drunky jokey thing and I knew that they wouldn't ever be into doing anything else, not that I would have wanted to with them because they were my friends and it would've been weird. I only ever really had vague opportunities to do anything with women when I was a lot younger and I was extremely shy then, being a complete virgin and having awfully low self-esteem.

    I think because I've never had the experience, I'm very much like a virgin teenage boy when it comes to women XD In a way, that's ok because it means I find everything insanely erotic, but when thinking about things realistically, I'm very aware of my inexperience. To be honest, I think I could happily just kiss a girl for an hour and I'd be fine just with that for a start, but there's kind of a pressure to try more if money's involved. Desperate and thrifty, I'm such a winner ;P I guess growing up I always kind of assumed I'd have the opportunity to date women and have actual relationships rather than it just being a sex thing but then I found the perfect man for me and all that got a bit confused.

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    - sorry this thread isnt showing on my phone properly i keep having to type something before i can actually see the new message.

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Desperate and thrifty! 😂. If your oh is happy to allow you, you should try it. There is nothing worse than living with regret. It has been a long time since i have had sex with a wiman and i am having withdrawls! Lol. It's a completely different experience from sleeping with a man.

    It sounds a little but like you haven't had the chance to fully explore your sexuality before you settled down. hopefully your oh will jump at the chance to let you experience these things :) you'll have no regrets and you will appreciate him more for allowing you! You will need to get on top of those chores you said you were behind on.. Maybe a woman could be your reward lol ;) x

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    kevindurham [sign in to see picture]
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    There is a swingers website called Fabswingers, its straight forward to use, and it will be better than gumtree/facebook etc, it is full if like minded people with a open view to sex. Good luck

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    Skitty [sign in to see picture]
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    Sarahgee wrote:

    Desperate and thrifty! 😂. If your oh is happy to allow you, you should try it. There is nothing worse than living with regret. It has been a long time since i have had sex with a wiman and i am having withdrawls! Lol. It's a completely different experience from sleeping with a man.

    It sounds a little but like you haven't had the chance to fully explore your sexuality before you settled down. hopefully your oh will jump at the chance to let you experience these things :) you'll have no regrets and you will appreciate him more for allowing you! You will need to get on top of those chores you said you were behind on.. Maybe a woman could be your reward lol ;) x

    It's been really nice talking to you about this, I really appreciate all the advice and reassurances :) I don't think it's the sort of thing I'd regret, but when it takes so much arranging and whatnot it starts to feel like a really big deal, a sort of once-in-a-lifetime thing when actually I'm sure if I enjoyed it it could be set up again, or might open up new experiences anyway.

    My OH is more than happy for me to try it and always has been, which is really fortunate for me. We were friends for a long time before getting together and he was one of the first people I came out to as a teenager as liking girls, so he's always known about it and accepted it. Sometimes it's difficult because I am pretty much only attracted to women, so he does sometimes have a bit of low self-esteem from that as even though we're completely in love and very sexually compatible in most ways, he does feel as though I'm missing something from not being with someone of my preferred gender in terms of sexuality.

    Good idea about the chores - I think I'd be much more inclined to be a very good girl if I was getting a reward like that ;) I've started wondering how I'd feel if he actually did arrange a meeting for me with another girl, whether having the control and choice taken away from me would be exactly what I need. The only reason I'm worrying about all this really is because of the decisions and feeling like I'm the one who has to be in full control of arranging the situation and that if I don't do it it'll never happen. Sorry, I'm totally rambling!

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    It's ok you are not rambling. If you are worried about how he will feel in the end, Maybe you could start off by sending sexual messages exchAnging pics with a woman and see how he feels with that? Then move on to finding someone? You could also reassure him that he is very lucky in the sense that you are only attracted to women but even so you chose him! In my eyes that makes him a pretty special guy :) .

    I think you may be right a out giving him control of getting you a woman to experience, you letting go of that control will bring it into your sub/dom relationship . Think how much of a good little sub you will be if you are aiming to recieve your ultimate reward. :)

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    annaceecee123 [sign in to see picture]
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    a three some would be a fantasy to me but i dont think i could maybe if i pictured it?

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Everything is possible anna :) no such thing as 'don't think I could' push yourself, you might like it! :)

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    AT1 [sign in to see picture]
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    What Sarah said, you might like it, although you should not do it if you don't want to. My wife only really started to realise he bisexual side herself when we watched porn together after serveral years of marriage. She became so turned on at the girl/girl stuff that she started to talk openly about it in fantasy etc, and we eventually decided to try it out. She was very nervous to start with (as was I), and it was clear if either of us wanted to back out we would both leave, but she absolutely loved it and we've done it several times since.

    Also agree with what John said a few posts earlier, we don't find it particularly intimate, but it does allow us to experiment and fulfull some fantasies. It also provides a lot of fun when we are just the two of us discussing what we done, fantasizing about what we'd do next time etc.

    If you think you might like it, try it, just make sure you agree beforehand that if either of you choose to back out at any time then you can call it to a halt without fear of repercussions from your partner.

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    mr sp [sign in to see picture]
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    Myself and my wife once had a 3sum with a female friend of hers. Were were out one morning and when we returned the conversation turned to sexual inuendos. I then began calling their bluff and they then called mine. All 3 of us ended up naked and i had the pleasure of them both. There was a high degree of trust and we all had a wonderful time.

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    Lilnewman [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my gf are looking for a girl to have a three some with. We are both new to it but love trying new things. We are open to a lot of things like role play, toy play, being each others slave. Anyone know where a good place to find a girl would be I have had no luck so far :( we both live in peterborough, Cambridgeshire.

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    Nipnips70 [sign in to see picture]
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    i would love 2 have a 3sum! Ffm, just the thought of it turns me on immensely but it's just a fantasy don't think I can persuade the oh

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    tricks730 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd love to have a threesome just never had anyone around me that's open enough I will one day though it's got to be done

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    shine69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my bf have been looking to have a threesome ffm and fmf positions. I have had mfm and mff threesomes in the past. But he hasnt and wants to explore his fantasy. Also we want to fuck a chick together eat her out together. Kind of like fucking a chick with one of his friends but better since im a girl and since I am his best friend it will b fun for him! He also really just wants to watch me eat pussy and fuck a female

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