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  1. Having a Threesome

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    Kink Asylum [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner and I had on many occasions mentioned a threesome. We knew that together as a couple we were strong and on the basis of that we knew that having another join us for occasional sex would be enhancing and in no way threatening to our relationship. If either of us had jealousy issues it would not have happened, you have to be secure to start with or it could end up a disaster.

    Seeing as we had met via alt.com (10 years ago) we decided that was the best place to search. We created a profile, an honest one!

    We told how we were as a couple, (He being Dominant, myself submissive) and that we were looking for a man to join us for fun times and who would be respecting of our roles. I guess we were lucky with our first adventure. We decided to meet just for a drink first to see if we "connected" because if one of us didn't then it wasn't going to work.

    Well, it was an instant attraction in all cases and although unplanned within 30 minutes of meeting we were all "ready" to play. OK, we didn't have time to plan but you know it turned out to be one of the most thrilling times for all. We actually stayed in touched and met up with this man a few times.

    We since had a few other play partners that would join us and also we met a few that we were'nt suited with but it wasn't awkward, just honest. It's not something we do on a regular basis just something we did for extra fun.

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    sallysue [sign in to see picture]
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    oh.....I really want to find a couple to have sex with...it sounds like an amazing experience to make twp poeple happy at once....but that.s easy for me to say as the extra, I think Iit must be so much harder for the couple. would really like to hear from some couples what they look for: it seems impossibly difficult to seduce two people at once! it would also be my first experience with a woman, but most couples I have been in contact with want an accomplished lesbian, not novice me :(

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    happyfeet69 [sign in to see picture]
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    hi, me and my female friend often sleep together as we were both bi curious , recently we decieded between that we wanted a threesome with a man , so we found a man we both liked who we knew sort of, and we went back to his flat, we were all a little tipsy, and it was amazing, weboth took turns to have sex with him in between me and her having sex with eachother, he said it was awsome , and the best sex he,d ever had :) , there is just something about threesomes i love , dont think i could do this with a partner tho .

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    glassjoy [sign in to see picture]
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    I had a threesome some years ago, with the man I was with and his friend. It was amazingly good, having two men paying attention to every square inch of me. It worked, because though very fond of each other, love didn't play a part. As a result much fun was had without any jealousy or similar problems. It couldn't happen now, as I'd go crazy if I saw another girl with my man, and he wouldn't stand another man pleasuring me. It was great at the time, though and I have no regrets... other than never trying a threesome with another girl!

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    Drums from Weston [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my wife often talk about a threesome , she says her making out with another
    Female to turn me on, then me joining in we tried it with an escort at a premises but
    Wasn't erotic or a turn on at all , the other female just wasn't the right one and the premises not comfortable , we continue to discuss it frequently and found an ideal female that we both found very attractive , but she's a friend so backed off, I think
    Tbh we will leave at a fantasy and one to wonder what may have happened

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    smoothies. [sign in to see picture]
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    Always agree your boundaries and stick to them. It's very easy for the guy to get led by the brain in his clock.
    There are plenty of clubs you can go to, where you can meet others with similar interests and there is no pressure to do anything you aren't comfortable with.
    Both of you have to be 100% sure it's what you want or there will be problems.
    Alternatively, there are several swinging websites where you can arrange to meet somebody, but they are hard work and there are a lot of time wasters on them.

    The important thing is to have fun and remember NO means NO.

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    Drums from Weston [sign in to see picture]
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    Sallysue although it's both ours fantasy my wife bought the idea up initially, to turn me on, no prompting at all by me, seeing my wife with another female and really enjoying it and being turned on would certainly turn me on , but as for me touching the other female I'm not sure (although that's easy to say now) I'm like the idea of my wife doing things with the other female as I do my wife as to speak and 3rd person wise a novice is what we'd both prefer someone as excited but unsure of how to let it unfold just like us , not some kind of porno pro !!

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    Drums from Weston [sign in to see picture]
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    Sallysue although it's both ours fantasy my wife bought the idea up initially, to turn me on, no prompting at all by me, seeing my wife with another female and really enjoying it and being turned on would certainly turn me on , but as for me touching the other female I'm not sure (although that's easy to say now) I ike the idea of my wife doing things with the other female as I do my wife as to speak and 3rd person wise a novice is what we'd both prefer someone as excited but unsure of how to let it unfold just like us , not some kind of porno pro !!

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    Drums from Weston [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm really sorry it's posted my reply twice and I can't delete it :-(

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    Drums from Weston [sign in to see picture]
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    Great honest and sensible advice smoothies thank you :-)

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    smoothies. [sign in to see picture]
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    No problem Drums. Letting others into your sex life is a big step and shouldn't be taken lightly.
    A relationship needs to be strong and good communication is essential. When we first started, we weren't 100% sure what we wanted out of it and had a couple of issues, but we managed to start a list of things we weren't comfortable with and now each encounter gets better.

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    Hornypussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Me too!!!

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    Naughty_J&J [sign in to see picture]
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    It's a fantasy of mine to watch my OH with another women , before we met she had a 'play' with a friend of hers and a bloke. She's never told me the details :-( but I do keep asking. I think I'd prefer a ffm threesome but not too sure on if I'd be interested in the other F I'd rather watch my OH get turned on and pleasured by another women.

    I think I'd like to go to a swinging club not to swap partners but to make out where others can watch and see just how sexy my OH is....

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    Cowboy81 [sign in to see picture]
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    NaughtyT wrote:

    I had a threesome and it led to my marriage ending for 6 months until we tried again. My husband got a taste for it and i was to jealous, when i refused to do it again, he went off on his own and started sleeping around. Some people have 3 somes very sucessfully but there is a world of pain and hurt for alot more then the lucky ones and i wish i could turn the clock back.

    This is the story I have heard way more than "success"; some from very dear friends/family. Very sad.

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    M&A [sign in to see picture]
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    This has been a very interesting topic and its not something that everyone achieves successfully. But I have to say Hubby has been amazing as he first suggested we try swinging so I put the condition that we should try a three some with another fella. I am so glad he agreed and that was back in 1992. No such thing as the internet then. we didn't even know about contact mags that were around at the time. So I came up in the knowledge that hubby's best friend had already seen me in readers wives so I was prepared to show and go the distance knowing that he found my pics a turn on. I told hubby to arrange it and sure enough he did and wow the rest of that weekend was just the 3 of us being very very sexual and open.

    Both Hubby and I have not looked back and have had many 3 somes since. we have even had ffm ones as well. Which did give hubby a true treat on several occasions.

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    Keri and dave [sign in to see picture]
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    We've had experience with 3 somes. Although we don't do them often it's something we are willing to do again.

    we prefer MMF, normally men prefer MFF but my Oh enjoys me being pleasured and likes seeing me take another man

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    M&A [sign in to see picture]
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    Keri my OH is also like yours and its a real treat to be able to have our special fun knowing he loves to watch the action before he then joins in.

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    ranchyroo [sign in to see picture]
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    I love three somes. I enjoy how naughty they make me feel and having a woman as well as a man is just such an amazing feeling. I would definetly agree that appraochnig friends is often ackward. I thing strangers are your best bed and nights out especially in gay clubs are your best bet

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    Keri and dave [sign in to see picture]
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    ranchyroo wrote:

    I love three somes. I enjoy how naughty they make me feel and having a woman as well as a man is just such an amazing feeling. I would definetly agree that appraochnig friends is often ackward. I thing strangers are your best bed and nights out especially in gay clubs are your best bet

    We've only done it with friends. Well more like acquaintances. It is a bit awkward because now that's the only real connection we have to them.

    we think strangers would be easier but worried about STD's. I know it's not 100% safe with people we know but the fact we know them helps us make a choice on whether it's more likely to be safer

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    Keri and dave [sign in to see picture]
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    M&A wrote:

    Keri my OH is also like yours and its a real treat to be able to have our special fun knowing he loves to watch the action before he then joins in.

    Yeah it is good having a partner like that because not many people are like that.

    we have both found that with people we know at work that even most females wouldn't do a mmf even if offered to them if they have a bf.

    a lot of females wouldn't do a mff because of jealously and a lot of guys wouldn't do a mmf for same reason. we must be the lucky ones.

    at work if a new person starts usually within 2 days they say to me in a shocked manner "is it true you've had a 3 some?"

    Should see see their face when I tell them how many sex toys I own.

    i might not have the biggest collection but we now need to clear out one of the drawers from our chest of drawers to make room lol

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