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    MzBee [sign in to see picture]
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    My last post on here and I still am in the same place and it was way back in October!!

    But a lot of sense has been spoken since.

    The FFFF sounds far better, it's probably just my mind but I'm thinking it would be more giving and less selfish. I don't know, maybe I'm out of line here but I just think the male in a threesome gets all the action! But what would I know, I've never been in one! lol

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    sxe_couple21 [sign in to see picture]
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    This weekend we had our 3rd FFM.

    The first we ever had wasn't a great experience; not due to jealousy but I think the girl we had it with wasn't really bi she was just trying it on for size which didn't leave Mrs. SXE fulfilled.

    The second was much better, the lady in question was bubbly, freindly and put as both at ease, having said that we didn't have that much in common so some of the weekend was a little uneasy.

    As I said at the start of the post, this weekend we had our 3rd. OMG.

    We both couldn't believe how stunning the other girl was, brunnette, slim and just so easy to get along with. Unlike the other two, she had actual desire to try things with us and it lead to an amazing weekend, one which we'll never forget. For all those people that think an FFM would be all about the guy, it wasn't in this case. Everybody was involved at all times and everybody was satisfied by the end of the night (more like 4 in the morning!). Since the w/e me and Mrs SXE have both had amazing sex too, we both can't stop thinking about what we got up to.

    Good news is we won't have to wait too long before it can all happen again. Mrs SXE has a birthday coming up and to celebrate she's hiring out a swanky hotel room for some more fun with our new found freind.

    It may have taken us nearly 5 years but it was well worth the wait! Plus we switched her onto lovehoney for her sex toys

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    Columbus [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah, my OH would consider a FFM but never a MMF... interesting, that LOL

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    Columbus [sign in to see picture]
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    Yep I think so! But equally that might be the case with a guy persuading two women that aren't emotionally involved with him too... I don't think it's something we would ever do anyway, but it's interesting to hear other people's experiences :-)

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    SnowyOwl [sign in to see picture]
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    In the remote past I was in a threesome with 2 men - one shagged me almost senseless from behind (not in ass) after the first one came very quickly - No2 carried on for over an hour while No1 sucked my nipples until it started to hurt & I got sooo turned on!!! It was fantastic at the time, but as I didn't come never fancied doing it again!

    When I was with a woman, we talked about a 3 or 4 & found another couple were curious too. We were all nervous & we just drank loads. After loads of playing around with each other, we shagged each other with strap-on dildos - one took it up the ass & I dearly wish I'd said yes instead of no when offered! I got held down though & shagged with a huge dildo, & then one of the others used a vibe on my clit. Eventually I had an orgasm which left me shaking & my nipples were sore for days too, but I didn't care! We broke up soon after & I moved away. All seems such a long time ago now...

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    Columbus [sign in to see picture]
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    wow! The closest I've come was many years ago, when someone that I'd previously hooked up with bumped into me on a night out and invited me and my friend back for a drink. He just went up to bed as he was tired and we sat drinking vodka. Then we both went up giggling and got in. She ended up wanking him off while I touched her clit and made her cum. I got nowt off anyone LOL Makes me cringe now thinking about it though! I'd done stuff with her in the past so she was up for it. I was absolutely roaring drunk though I must admit. Not too long after that I started seeing my ex (which turned into a 7yr relationship) but had an embarrassing moment when I bumped into his guy again in the library of all places and we made (quiet) small talk and the whole time I could feel my face burning, remembering the last time he'd seen me :-$

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    sxe_couple21 [sign in to see picture]
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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Wow sxe couple. That sounds amazing!

    I've had a lot of fantasies about MMF 3somes lately. It always seems much better in fantasy though I think.

    Yeah it was, and its all sorted for her b/day now as well

    I never understand the leaving it in fantasy thing, you only live once...

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    I hope you can give me some advice, my wife & I would like to have a threesome with another straight guy. We both get very turned on at the idea but don't know how to move this on. We had a friend get involved, I watched and was kissing my wife as he licked her pussy which we both enjoyed but he had a problem and has since fallen off the radar. I'm not interested in another female joining us, which is a good thing as my wife would not want to see me with another woman. We have been together for coming up to 7 years now and our sex life is amazing, we are sexual equals and very much in love. I find the idea of seeing my wife being pleasured and giving pleasure (she gives amazing head) a total turn on and cant see it becoming a problem. We have discussed this at great length and as long as the third party understands he is there for our pleasure (obviously we want him to have a good time too) then all should be fantastic or am I deluding myself. Any help would be greatly appreciated. V Horny now!!!!

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    Vixen82 [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH and I have been talking about a threesome with anther guy - we've talked it over, and over and its something we really want to try.

    However, we've been together for 12 years, so its been a while since I've been with anyone else and I never had a one night stand or anything unconnected so to speak. I really don't like the idea of a stranger.

    My OH understands this, and we have a friend who we approached. He was shocked and not apposed to the idea but was worried that it would affect our friendship.

    The other night we were all out for another friends birthday, and me and this friend started flirting (actually we always flirt so nothing unusual) and but it further this time. I was sat on his lap (again, nothing unusual for us) and when no one was looking, he started to kiss the back of my neck and shoulders (The naughtiness got me very, very excited). However, since it was our good friend's birthday we couldn't get away to do more. Since then, I haven't directly asked our friend if he's reconsidered as I'm concerned that he'll think I'm always on about it. We can't really do anything at home as my disabled mum lives with us. OK so I'm waffling now but any tips for taking this further?

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    *Emma* [sign in to see picture]
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    Id say although you want to explore and try a threesome with friends not to, go for someone you dont know as then there wont be any jealously or issues afterwards. The gumtree suggestion sounds good otherwise perhaps try a site like plentyoffish where you can meet people purely for sexual encounters

    This is something that really isnt for me. Im not the jealous type but i see sex as something intimate shared within a relationship and thats how i want to keep it. I would feel dirty and uncomfortable doing things with people that i dont love and seeing my man with someone else would be very upsetting/heartbreaking. I would say i have a very good sex life with my partner and dont feel the need to involve other people. Please ensure its what you really want as im sure you dont want to ruin what you have with your partner. Good luck

    x

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    Vixen82 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you both for your replies.

    Mark - you're very right, we should arrange something for just the 3 of us and I have to think that his actions show that he's interested.

    Emma - I understand your feelings on this. We've ruled out a girl as the third for 2 reasons, firstly I'm not bi in any shape or form and secondly I'd be way too jealous. As for a stranger, now that makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm not saying it would need to be a close friend, but at least someone I knew. We've joined a couple of Adult sites and to be honest I just didn't like how it made me feel. It is something we've really spoken about (about 2 years) and its not that we need any help with our sex life - that is fantastic already - more that its something I've always wanted to experience.

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    linda2008 [sign in to see picture]
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    myself and hubby regular have 3 somes i do love the attention i get from another bloke joing us for fun normally i arrange it about 10 times a year, nothing wrong in having 2 guys plessuring my body, and it has made us both stronger in our marrage, normally look on adult sites for guys that looking for fun i normally go for a younger guy to join my hubby as he is older so i get the best of both worlds and we both enjoy so go and give it a try

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    Really not into the ideas of threesomes now Im in loveland with the OH, Im far too jealous and he says he isnt into anyone else [awwwww! even if untrue its sweet of him to say that lol]

    When I was single I did indulge in a few 3somes, both FFM and FMM, actually I would probably still do a FFF one if there are any takers! haha.

    I think if you are in a rel where you are secure and have thought long and hard [!] about the impact of a 3some on your relationship, then go for it. Sometimes [well a lot of the time] realities are nothing like the fantasies you have been having though. Someone gets left out or their feelings hurt and jealousy and malice creep up.

    I slept with a married couple in my youth and they divorced shortly after. Just a word of caution!

    xxxx

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    Sam66 [sign in to see picture]
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    In my experience as having had one threesome, it's something best left to fantasy and porn. In real life it's a bit of a let down. Mine was FFM and as a bloke we're a one shot deal (so to speak!) and I didn;t fancy wanking over faces etc to bring things to a close.

    Think very carefully - somethings are best left in the mind and imagination ...

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    wizadora [sign in to see picture]
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    hmmm I think 3sums are great fun but you have to be in a strong enough relationship to cope and handle the emotional issues which come with it. as long as you are completely open with one another and trust each other implicitly, there is no reason to not enjoy 3sums for what they are, enormous fun! xx

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    To be honest I am always a little confused by my feelings towards threesomes. There is part of me that thinks I would like to try it but then there is another part of me that just doesnt know what to make of it all.

    I know my ex was interested in having a threesome with another guy but I was always a little worried about the whole experience. Kinda though she would prefer them to me etc and well it never got passed watching a DVD of other people doing it.

    Like most guys I have had thoughts about a threesome with two girls but then I dont actually think I would know what to do if it happened. I mean in the way of do you spend more time pleasuring your actual partner thus possibly leaving the other person less satisfied etc.

    There are lots of things to consider I guess and you would need to have lots of trust ina relationship if its you and you rpartner involved.

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    I have a fantisy about a foursome, with 3 guys. I'd love to be air-tight as my OH says lol. However as i am happily married it's not something I would do. I love my OH very much and would never put that at risk at all.....Some things are better left as fantasies, all be it a good one .

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    Oh and I could never do my OH and another girl. I am way to jealous and insecure for that lol.

    I'd have to claw her eyes out and have a proper girly strop

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    Puppies77 wrote:

    Oh and I could never do my OH and another girl. I am way to jealous and insecure for that lol.

    I'd have to claw her eyes out and have a proper girly strop

    Agreed! Although I would probably enjoy this scene just with a girl if done with the right accessories, some foodstuffs and plastic sheets. Or lots of lube. Or you know, tongues.

    *dreams*

    Ha but no seriously I am also too jealous and insecure for a 3some with my guy and another girl, would think he fancied her more or she was catching his eye, and I would be comparing us.

    xx

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Mistress Cara wrote:

    Puppies77 wrote:

    Oh and I could never do my OH and another girl. I am way to jealous and insecure for that lol.

    I'd have to claw her eyes out and have a proper girly strop

    Agreed! Although I would probably enjoy this scene just with a girl if done with the right accessories, some foodstuffs and plastic sheets. Or lots of lube. Or you know, tongues.

    *dreams*

    Ha but no seriously I am also too jealous and insecure for a 3some with my guy and another girl, would think he fancied her more or she was catching his eye, and I would be comparing us.

    xx

    Yup I would just be a total nightmare lol I would have to pick an ugly girl so he didn't fancy her, but then that not gona do much for me, I'd want a attractive girl with big boobs n bum

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