• Pegging. *Male pride confidence boosting thread.*

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    adamalx [sign in to see picture]
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    wee_bear wrote:

    We started. off with the wee starter kit. It was crap really. But I suppose cheap enough if you didn't like it.

    We then went for these ones:
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8569

    We haven't done too many times and have only used the 6 inches. The 7 inches looks quite the butt full. I am not adverse to it. But it is a realistic looking one as well. I do prefer my dildos to be Cock shaped but not look like cocks!

    Ah that's a reall nice set! Haha it might seem like a butt full for sure, but I bet you'll be up to 9" before you know it :P

    And yah, I get what you're saying there :) But remember you won't even be thinking about what it looks like when its hitting that spot <3

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    Hahaha. True that.

    I definitely think it is worth persisting with the bigger dildo to get the spot.

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    TarnishChris [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi hi...I've tried pegging about 5 times now...just brought it up with my OH and she said "okay"...
    Got a strap on and gave it a go..
    The ONLY thing I don't like is the image of being submissive...because I really aren't...
    But...pegging feels fucking amazing...some of the best orgasm I've had ever

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    wee_bear [sign in to see picture]
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    I love the idea of being submissive. But just for pegging. ''Tis great.

    It's hard not to be. For me anyway.

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    adamalx [sign in to see picture]
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    You don't necessarily need to be submissive just because you're being the receptive partner ;)

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    wee_bear [sign in to see picture]
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    ''Tis more fun to be the submissive in this case

    You take your bucking. Dirty boy!

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    Been thinking of starting a sexblog for some time, but never quite take the plunge as doubt I'd have any subscribers... but my take on is this:

    Yes, the act itself is largely considered submissive (unless of course you're on top and in the driving seat), but I don't think acting out a fantasy can ever be submissive. The very fact that you are comfortable enough with both your sexuality and your desires to tell your partner what you want is hugely empowering. You are taking control and ensuring you get what you crave.

    Anyone else's view?

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    I really don't buy into the whole “the penetrated is the submissive one” idea. Unless guys are totally inconsiderate lovers they pretty soon find how important it is to pick up on the signals from their partner as to what is working for them and what isn't. So, far from really being the dominant one in the situation you are simply the one that gets to do most of the donkey-work while the whole thing is under the masterful control of the lady - like most things actually 8-)=

    So I reckon being pegged actually puts the guy in the driving seat and has the lady in the engine-room.

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    Did anyone not enjoy it at first? I really love the idea and I love doing it but It doesn't actually feel that great for me. We never do it for too long, so it could be that I'm really impatient, I think ive just internalised the idea from porn that taking it up the butt feels great?

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    There is no doubt it can take time to get used to the strange sensations involved. Wearing a butt plug for increasing intervals helps train the brain that having something up there does not mean you need the loo. Once that is sorted there is still a big difference between having a butt plug in there which allows the anus to close up to a great extent and having a dildo up there which doesn't. You need to get used to the sensation of being held open for a long time AND having it thrust in and out. Eventually the pleasurable sensations take over and, as many on here will attest, it is well worth all the trouble but don't expect to have mind-blowing orgasms the first few times you do it.

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    It was uncomfortable the first time...
    But with each repeated attemp it just got better and better...
    The discomfort can be from loads of things..just remember to use 5 times more lube than you think you need...and make sure your "relaxed"

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    adamalx [sign in to see picture]
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    If you're experiencing a lot of discomfort then try out different positions until you find one that works for you :)

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Had my first pegging experience last Monday night with a FWB and had so much fun! :D He takes more than I could for certain. Built up from fingers to small toys then to a fairly girthy strap on in one night. Used lots of JO Anal lube and had an amazing time :)

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    Tholuc [sign in to see picture]
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    What would everyone say is the best position for comfort? Our go to position is missionary but I find that tenses me up having to lift up, and my girlfriend cramps from having to thrust. We like doggy but I was wondering if people have a favourite

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    I reckon missionary is the best but you need lots of support under your bum to get you to the right height for your girlfriend to penetrate you. This usually means that your legs are so high up gravity is helping hold them out the way. We used to use a strap that went over my shoulders that had foot-holds so that I could 'assume the position' but be completely relaxed but we don't seem to need it these days.

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    Love it

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    wee_bear [sign in to see picture]
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    The best position is to be on top of her. That is crazy mental.

    I don't think I have ever shot so far. I think the wife loves that!

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    My OH has agreed to try it, next step is to sit down and talk strapons :D

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    Andy1472 wrote:

    My OH has agreed to try it, next step is to sit down and talk strapons :D

    That's awesome don't get a cheap one and make sure you let her know what feels good and how good make it a fun experience for her so it can be repeatable
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    Andy1472 [sign in to see picture]
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    It was and it will be - we got http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701 :D

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