• Men....tall or short, fat or thin??

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    Minxbaby [sign in to see picture]
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    So girls, how do you like your men?

    What sort of build do you like?

    Personally, I love my man to be taller than me and cuddly - I love to be enveloped in a big hug and feel protected.

    I dislike muscular men with six packs or skinny men - give me cuddly any day!

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    chipNroll [sign in to see picture]
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    Each has their merits:)

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    GHxx [sign in to see picture]
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    I work on whats inside first, but on first looks a guy who's muscley, taller than me and is strong physically.

    I like cuddly too and dont fancy skinny men but my OH would say he's very muscley and toned so no fat on him but he's a cuddly guy which is best of both worlds for me!

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    GHxx [sign in to see picture]
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    ooo... and i'm a sucked for a six pack!!

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Hmmm... Perhaps some may object to the terms fat and skinny.

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    chipNroll [sign in to see picture]
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    I object to all the skinny man hating. theys cute.

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    Wicked Willy [sign in to see picture]
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    chipNroll wrote:

    I object to all the skinny man hating. theys cute.

    As someone who is both skinny and short(ish) that gives me some hope

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    For me its personality all the way and how they treat me. I fall in love with that and really have no preference at all to how someone looks. My OH is tall and slender and yet I would jump at the chance to be with Jack Black who is on the more robust end of the size scale...... however as cNr said each has their merits =D

    Xxx

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    chipNroll wrote:

    I object to all the skinny man hating. theys cute.

    WandA wrote:

    Hmmm... Perhaps some may object to the terms fat and skinny.

    Diplomacy.

    I don't use the terms fat or skinny - I don't think it's polite. I don't really have a preference either - I like eyes and strong facial features and a wide chest in proportion to the rest of the body - whether a guy is slimmer or bigger.

    Adx

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    chipNroll wrote:

    I object to all the skinny man hating. theys cute.

    Can I skinny jeans hate? Only on fellas.

    Men are generally top heavy so it makes men wearing them look like they're ready to topple over... I also don't enjoy the tight package look...

    (They look especially silly when they're half way around your arse like they were physically too small to pull up)

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    WandA wrote:

    I also don't enjoy the tight package look

    Sorry but I'm gonna have to object again...

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    I like a bit of meat on my men. By meat I don't mean muscle (seriously, I had a fear as a child and now I can't stand muscle on people. Makes me feel a bit queasy).

    My Mister is a big guy and he's absolutely gorgeous.
    Also, I'm a big girl so I don't feel like I'm going to snap him in half during an attempt to straddle.

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    chipNroll wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    I also don't enjoy the tight package look

    Sorry but I'm gonna have to object again...

    They just produce remind me of the weird Ken (from Barbie) genitals... *shudder*

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    Obviously a guy has to be a good person on the inside, but if we're talking solely about looks then I really don't mind! I've dated some very slender guys, some very big guys, and some average built guys, and I can honestly say that I liked them all physically.

    They've all been taller than me, (I'm a bit of shortie anyway at 5'1") but I don't think I would mind about height either, though I guess a very tall guy might be a bit awkward sometimes, with stretching and stooping for a kiss!

    I guess the only physical attribute that doesn't do it for me is rippling muscles! *shrug* Just not my cuppa tea I'm afraid.

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    Minxbaby wrote:

    Personally, I love my man to be taller than me and cuddly - I love to be enveloped in a big hug and feel protected.

    I dislike muscular men with six packs or skinny men - give me cuddly any day!

    GHxx wrote:

    I work on whats inside first, but on first looks a guy who's muscley, taller than me and is strong physically.

    I like cuddly too and dont fancy skinny men but my OH would say he's very muscley and toned so no fat on him but he's a cuddly guy which is best of both worlds for me!

    Malteser81 wrote:

    For me its personality all the way and how they treat me. I fall in love with that and really have no preference at all to how someone looks. My OH is tall and slender and yet I would jump at the chance to be with Jack Black who is on the more robust end of the size scale.

    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    I don't really have a preference either - I like eyes and strong facial features and a wide chest in proportion to the rest of the body - whether a guy is slimmer or bigger.

    Ravenous_Rubenesque wrote:

    I like a bit of meat on my men. By meat I don't mean muscle (seriously, I had a fear as a child and now I can't stand muscle on people. Makes me feel a bit queasy).

    Kitty_McPlunder wrote:

    I guess the only physical attribute that doesn't do it for me is rippling muscles! *shrug* Just not my cuppa tea I'm afraid.

    I think I'm seeing a pattern forming here...

    Big chest, cuddles, muscles we can take or leave, depending. *shouts* Oi, Seduced! come meet our fan-club!

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    I have two extreme: large, but not too tall, or lanky and skinny. Don't mind the in-betweenies, but on a pure physical attraction level they have to be bigger than me in one direction. I don't actually mind muscles, but it's not something I class as a bonus; they neither add nor detract from the overall.

    I do go through phases, and right now I'm more drawn to the nerdy-look (tall, skinny, pale), but that could just be because those tend to be the kind of guys I get on with best personality-wise.

    Only thing that really puts me off is long hair. Think it's just cause most of the guys I knew with long hair didn't take care of it, and there's nothing more off-putting than lank greasy locks brushing against you. *shudder* Even the ones with great general hygeine would fall foul of that, just washing it and letting it sit there in a tangled mess of rats' tails, which looks as bad as unwashed hair. If see a guy now with long hair, even if it's all clean and pretty, I still get that "ugh" factor.

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    BashfulBabe wrote:

    Only thing that really puts me off is long hair.

    I'm with you on that.

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    Shit! Must shave head! :-p

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    i love big hands and nice shoes. I also have only been with men that are taller than me. My husband is perfect, he is 6ft 3 blond (i do like dark men though skin and hair) and chunky

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    Me and Ad were only before discussing how some women's sexual preferences seem to alter depending on the stage in her cycle. I can't be arsed to link or reference but perhaps it's of interest to some people.

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