• Advice on sex up against the wall

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    Dirty Red Angel [sign in to see picture]
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    So, this is something both myself and my OH wonder about.

    I'm ever so slightly taller than him, 6"1' so we're pretty evenly matched but we just cannot seem to have sex against the wall. We love the idea of me being up against the wall (so my face is facing towards the wall) almost in a dominant stance that he put me there (if that makes sense) yet he just cannot enter me - I can't feel anything.

    In the end, we end up laughing and doing another position, so my questions is...

    how the hell do you have sex in this position - how should i be standing to make it easier for him to enter me!!??

    Any advice appreciated

    Cheers x

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    Well we have tried sex up the wall in a shower.

    I am 5ft 4, he is 5ft 8 so I am not sure if this will work for you.

    We do 2 ways, me slightly bent over facing the wall, he lowers his hips and legs to enter me, the straightens up more and I bent my legs.

    Or I wrap my leg around him, use the other for balance, stand on tip toes due to height difference, he lowers his hips and enters me.

    I hope that makes sense, it may be different when the woman is taller.

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    I know it's door not wall but what about restraints?

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16087

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2445

    Perhaps over a radiator might help just to get the bum a few inches out more?

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    It makes sense - thanks - I'll have to give the first one a go although from that I suspect it'll be me bending my legs so he can reach me... I don't know why but I'd love to be pressed up against the wall, almost like it's so urgent you can't wait but the practicalities just make it a lost cause!

    Either that or he'll have to stand on the Yellow Pages to truly match my height

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    LittleKitty wrote:

    It makes sense - thanks - I'll have to give the first one a go although from that I suspect it'll be me bending my legs so he can reach me... I don't know why but I'd love to be pressed up against the wall, almost like it's so urgent you can't wait but the practicalities just make it a lost cause!

    Either that or he'll have to stand on the Yellow Pages to truly match my height

    Glad that helped

    I know what you mean, it is a sense of urgency and almost submission as you cant move too much, not that you want to get away

    I brought some restraints: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5202 was £35 now down to £15. At that price I had to! I haven't tried them yet but they do feel good quality and me and the OH yanked on them as hard as we good and nothing happened, no stitching loose or anything.

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    Ah, now the restraints are on my wishlist - they look fun but also my thinking was they might help stabilise me too and like you say, might help get the bum out a bit more

    Thanks for the suggestion

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    That was thanks for the suggestion to both of you - I'm minutes behind the last post making me out of sync lol

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    Lol.

    The manbound ones are so cheap I just had to get them.

    See what happens

    Ohhh and I just remembered. Wenchiepie has some trouble with height difference, her being taller and created this thread:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sex-tips-and-advice/208241-the-maths-of-doggie-style/

    See if that helps

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    Thanks MM, just read through that thread. I'm quite intrigued as to what positions Wenchiepie was referring to!

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    LittleKitty wrote:

    Thanks MM, just read through that thread. I'm quite intrigued as to what positions Wenchiepie was referring to!

    Your welcome. I was as well.

    I hope it helped.

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