• woman who use strap on's do they.....?

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    spguy30 [sign in to see picture]
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    For all the woman who use strap on's, do they also wish to see there man with another man too? Or is it just all about the strap on for them ?

    It got me thinking ya see when i was talking to my best friend(female) an she said once she got her fella into it she had also wanted to have a MMf bi 3some as she wanted to see him take real thing...

    So am courious now if all woman share this veiw or prefer to keep it to playing just as a couple with there toy?

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    I think some women would want to go one step further and want to see thier man with another man, but i'm sure there are just as many women who don't want to take it any further and its just a toy for them to enjoy as a couple.

    I have never used a strap on, i'm not saying its something I wouldn't try, I would if my partner wanted it, but he doesn't. But if I did...lol i'm gettin there...I would want a MMF threesome or just watch him with a man, the thought of that makes me really horny! He knows but says there's no chance lol xx

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    ... I prefer if my OH just lets me do him, dont want anyone else to do it *mine*!

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    Firewolf wrote:

    ... I prefer if my OH just lets me do him, dont want anyone else to do it *mine*!

    Yeh, When J eventually decides to make love to me in this 'Special' way...

    That's the only way I want it.

    For me, personally, Strapon sex from a straight male pov, Is all about the sensations, the handing over of control, And of course, The kink factor!

    If there was a man attached to said Phalis, I would run a mile.

    And J has already made it clear that a Man on Man thing just doesn't/wouldn't do it for her! *Phew*

    But then, That;s us, Everyone has their thing! And that's cool!

    * Stands on the frontline for Acceptance for Straight Males who enjoy anal shenanigens and strapon lovin' *

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    This thread is right up may alley (so to speak)....

    My gf loves using a strap-on on me and has done for a while now. As far as I ever knew she just loved the idea of her doing me, rather than the other way round. But then she confessed a while back that she had been watching MMF bi porn and was really turned on by it, and in fact she hardly ever watches any other kind of porn now!

    After getting her to talk about it I found out that it had turned into a pretty big fantasy of hers to be having sex with me, missionary, and then have a guy come behind us and start shagging my arse! She even mentions it A LOT when we are having sex, saying she is imagining it etc etc.

    I have to admit after talking about it and watching some bi porn with her, I am very curious about it. Not for the contact with another man (i'm not attracted to men at all) but just for the feeling, and wondering what a real cock would feel like. When I told her this it turned her on immensely, and she still does talk about it, but she said it will never EVER happen because i'm hers......even though she had the idea first!lol.

    Long story, sorry, but I think it does show that there is a big difference between the fantasy and the reality. Even though it is her biggest fantasy, she would never ever do it. Even when I begged her!lol.

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    Maybe with the MMf 3som - shes looking for some fun too? It'd probably be a great turn on to see you taken by someone else too whilst you do stuff to her - giving you "that feeling" whilst you both play how you normally would!! Add's a great kink to the bedroom dont you think??

    As for the strap on, maybe its a power thing and likes having that little more control with ... Strap on's are amazing in my opinion, the wearer can get sensations too with different vibes so really worth it if she can orgasm as she's fucking you.

    If I was with a guy (which I'm not, but strap on's are a must in our lesbian sex life) then I'd like him to have some bum fun - as long as he was into it

    and as for 3soms... well I wish I'd had one! :P x

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    Hmmm, I'll point SexiLexi towards this thread later, but I think I know what she'll say (my ass is hers, & hers alone!)... which is good, 'cause the only 'cock' I want is hers

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    chels18 wrote:

    Maybe with the MMf 3som - shes looking for some fun too? It'd probably be a great turn on to see you taken by someone else too whilst you do stuff to her - giving you "that feeling" whilst you both play how you normally would!! Add's a great kink to the bedroom dont you think??

    As for the strap on, maybe its a power thing and likes having that little more control with ... Strap on's are amazing in my opinion, the wearer can get sensations too with different vibes so really worth it if she can orgasm as she's fucking you.

    If I was with a guy (which I'm not, but strap on's are a must in our lesbian sex life) then I'd like him to have some bum fun - as long as he was into it

    and as for 3soms... well I wish I'd had one! :P x

    We have spoken about it and I suggested finding a bi guy so that we could both enjoy some fun, or even a couple, but she just said no But I really want to try it once in my life, but don't want to cheat on her.

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    sexytime wrote:

    chels18 wrote:

    Maybe with the MMf 3som - shes looking for some fun too? It'd probably be a great turn on to see you taken by someone else too whilst you do stuff to her - giving you "that feeling" whilst you both play how you normally would!! Add's a great kink to the bedroom dont you think??

    As for the strap on, maybe its a power thing and likes having that little more control with ... Strap on's are amazing in my opinion, the wearer can get sensations too with different vibes so really worth it if she can orgasm as she's fucking you.

    If I was with a guy (which I'm not, but strap on's are a must in our lesbian sex life) then I'd like him to have some bum fun - as long as he was into it

    and as for 3soms... well I wish I'd had one! :P x

    We have spoken about it and I suggested finding a bi guy so that we could both enjoy some fun, or even a couple, but she just said no But I really want to try it once in my life, but don't want to cheat on her.

    All you can do is suggest it to her and talk about it. Maybe she thinks that by you having anal sex off a man, you're questioning your sexuality whereas if its her doing you up the bum - then its still "straight sex"???

    Are you bi?

    x

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    My fantasy is to watch my man get off with another man and then for me to join in.

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    chels18 wrote:

    sexytime wrote:

    chels18 wrote:

    Maybe with the MMf 3som - shes looking for some fun too? It'd probably be a great turn on to see you taken by someone else too whilst you do stuff to her - giving you "that feeling" whilst you both play how you normally would!! Add's a great kink to the bedroom dont you think??

    As for the strap on, maybe its a power thing and likes having that little more control with ... Strap on's are amazing in my opinion, the wearer can get sensations too with different vibes so really worth it if she can orgasm as she's fucking you.

    If I was with a guy (which I'm not, but strap on's are a must in our lesbian sex life) then I'd like him to have some bum fun - as long as he was into it

    and as for 3soms... well I wish I'd had one! :P x

    We have spoken about it and I suggested finding a bi guy so that we could both enjoy some fun, or even a couple, but she just said no But I really want to try it once in my life, but don't want to cheat on her.

    All you can do is suggest it to her and talk about it. Maybe she thinks that by you having anal sex off a man, you're questioning your sexuality whereas if its her doing you up the bum - then its still "straight sex"???

    Are you bi?

    x

    Until she mentioned this too me I was completely straight and never thought about another man, and I do still consider myself completely straight. Not attracted to men at all..........just curious about the feeling, not the closeness or affectionate side of things. Tbh, I might get into the situation and completely freak out.lol.

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    Or you might get into the situation and love it!! Thing is, you can have sex with men without having that emotional closeness - loads of people do it, gay and lesbian!

    There's nothing wrong with experimenting in my opinion - maybe tell your girlfriend that you're straight, you love what you both have together and you're not at all attracted to men, but like the idea of having a mmf 3som?

    How would you feel if the other man had sex with your G/F?? Anal, Vaginal and Oral??

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    This might sound completely wrong and weird, but tbh, if we were to have a threesome and the bloke had sex with her, I think it would be a MASSIVE turn on being able to watch her being pleasured. As long as it's together, and not about emotional feelings, I wouldn't consider it cheating, provided you both consent of course.

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    Hmmm i can see the dilemma, i love the thought of trying the strap on with a partner.. im striaght, myself but then i do wounder what the differeance would be between the strap on and real thing so can see where ya coming from ..

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    sexytime wrote:

    This might sound completely wrong and weird, but tbh, if we were to have a threesome and the bloke had sex with her, I think it would be a MASSIVE turn on being able to watch her being pleasured. As long as it's together, and not about emotional feelings, I wouldn't consider it cheating, provided you both consent of course.

    Doesn't sound wrong or weird at all, sexytime! It's a common fantasy and many people indulge in this regularly. Each to their own xx

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    sexynurse09 wrote:

    sexytime wrote:

    This might sound completely wrong and weird, but tbh, if we were to have a threesome and the bloke had sex with her, I think it would be a MASSIVE turn on being able to watch her being pleasured. As long as it's together, and not about emotional feelings, I wouldn't consider it cheating, provided you both consent of course.

    Doesn't sound wrong or weird at all, sexytime! It's a common fantasy and many people indulge in this regularly. Each to their own xx

    Well said gorgeous

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    Thank you! x

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    Well a threesome is very near the told of my sexual to-do list, but I just know my OH will never ever say yes (to most of the list actually) oh well...

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    Aww

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    sexytime wrote:

    Well a threesome is very near the told of my sexual to-do list, but I just know my OH will never ever say yes (to most of the list actually) oh well...

    Aww...does she know? You never know! There are things we're about to try that I did't think my fella would EVER agree to, but he has! She might just surprise you xx

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