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    Seduced wrote:

    MasqueradeMinx wrote:

    Looking Yummy,

    As I was saying on chat, try and tell him straight. Dont say I am unhappy and have thoughts of leaving you as that isnt a great place to start.
    Try wording like, I feel as though we arent spending enough time together and I miss you type of thing. See if you can work out something where one of you moves closer?

    Really hope it works out sweetie.

    x

    This is also brilliant advice! Any form of " I'm thinking of leaving or I want a break " can cause insecurity and maybe a greater lack or willingness to talk.

    I remember J did this onceyears ago, and instead of me listening I became paranoid and clammed up.

    Thanks

    If you change the words round it helps. What would you rather hear?

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    As an emotional kinda bloke, I'ld want the truth but in a soft manner.

    So like put it to me in a Soft but straight to the point way.

    Ie...

    " Look honey, There are a few things that are really getting me down and I really need you to help and support me. I'm feeling *bla bla bla* but I want you to know that I really do Love you and I want this to work, I want us to become stronger. "

    Something on those lines.

    Pauli * Hugs * xxx

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    " But the only way we can become stronger/happier is if we face this issue/problem together as a team! "

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    Any of that make sense???

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    Oh, And it may be an idea LY if you c&p this lot, starting with your first post explaining everything... and start a new thread. Or I can start a new one for you???

    Then we can dedicate that thread to helping you! and get this one beack ontopic. Sorry, Im not having a dig, Jeez I hate not beeing able to show my true emotions in a post lol!!!

    I mean it nicely hun xx

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    Seduced wrote:

    Oh, And it may be an idea LY if you c&p this lot, starting with your first post explaining everything... and start a new thread. Or I can start a new one for you???

    Then we can dedicate that thread to helping you! and get this one beack ontopic. Sorry, Im not having a dig, Jeez I hate not beeing able to show my true emotions in a post lol!!!

    I mean it nicely hun xx

    Thats a really good idea, some people may not have seen this because of the hugs title.

    It is making sense. LY, I think you need to put it to him in a way that he wont be too clammed up.

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    New thread sorted .

    Sorry to have diverted your lovely thread ;

    x * Big soft sensual "Thank You" hugs* x

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    Nothing to be sorry for LY, Just thought it would be more helpfull to you if you made a new thread ;)

    And good job with all that c&p'ing ;)

    * Huge squishy Moobie hugs * xxx

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    *squishy boobie hugs to all the OA* - You are all fab!

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    And to you too MM.

    As you are part of the OA, you are fab too !

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    Lookin - Yummy wrote:

    And to you too MM.

    As you are part of the OA, you are fab too !

    *hugs for not having to work friday*

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Can I have a gentle 'uggle please? I'm sore... :(

    *hugs for soreness* *is careful of foot*

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    * Big hugs *

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    *big hugs for talking all night about sex*

    Did you cuddle?

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    No we didn't.

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    But we did today, And are going to tonight, Even if I have to drag her to bed kicking and screaming like a banshee!

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    Seduced wrote:

    But we did today, And are going to tonight, Even if I have to drag her to bed kicking and screaming like a banshee!

    Cuddles? It's a great start Sed.

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    Yes. It is!

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    mmmmm are we still dishing hugs out as i could do with a few....not feeling my usual bubbly confident happy self at the moment....not sure why...dont know if its just because iv been run down and ill or something else but i cant quite get back on form....................hate feeling low.............not me at all................so could do with a bit of LH cuddle therapy!!!!

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    toxycat wrote:

    mmmmm are we still dishing hugs out as i could do with a few....not feeling my usual bubbly confident happy self at the moment....not sure why...dont know if its just because iv been run down and ill or something else but i cant quite get back on form....................hate feeling low.............not me at all................so could do with a bit of LH cuddle therapy!!!!

    Big hug for Toxy ;) xx

    I know how you feel chick, Have been feeling a bit low myself the last 24 hours. :(

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