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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    Ecksvie wrote

    I really wish I could be like you! It's not that I don't enjoy doing it, I just dont often get in the mood for it. I wish blow jobs were something I could do more. Again, not that I can't, but I'm just not that way inclined.

    I don't mean it in a selfish way, but I'm much more comfortable on the receiving end of anything than the giving end.

    I think the knack is confidence in your abilities! Once you've sussed you're in complete control of his pleasure, you never want to stop sucking

    I think blowjobs encourage my dominant side which doesn't come out during "regular" sex...although I love being "forced" to suck cock too :P

    Adx

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    toycar69 wrote:

    puss wrote:

    I love bj's.........love to gag too. Longest I reckon is an hour then my jaw aches and locks:)

    I'm surprised about the gagging thing. I thought that was just something they put in pornos to make it "harder". I have to admit, I'm not a fan of the gagging type bj scenes that seem to be getting more popular in porn, though the regular type is a big turn on for me.

    What do you like about the gag thing? Is it just like a control thing, or is there more to it?

    Me and my partner are starting to get into more rough oral now, for him that is. Face fucking and gagging me while I'm lying on the bed, him kneeling over me. It is soooooo hot. Incredibly so. Almost complete lack of control on my part, lots of hair pulling, lots of fun :)

    I think what I like is the power play of it, but no surprise there :P

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    shellyboo wrote:

    toycar69 wrote:

    puss wrote:

    I love bj's.........love to gag too. Longest I reckon is an hour then my jaw aches and locks:)

    I'm surprised about the gagging thing. I thought that was just something they put in pornos to make it "harder". I have to admit, I'm not a fan of the gagging type bj scenes that seem to be getting more popular in porn, though the regular type is a big turn on for me.

    What do you like about the gag thing? Is it just like a control thing, or is there more to it?

    Me and my partner are starting to get into more rough oral now, for him that is. Face fucking and gagging me while I'm lying on the bed, him kneeling over me. It is soooooo hot. Incredibly so. Almost complete lack of control on my part, lots of hair pulling, lots of fun :)

    I think what I like is the power play of it, but no surprise there :P

    Sounds good!

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    puss [sign in to see picture]
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    toycar69 wrote:

    puss wrote:

    I love bj's.........love to gag too. Longest I reckon is an hour then my jaw aches and locks:)

    I'm surprised about the gagging thing. I thought that was just something they put in pornos to make it "harder". I have to admit, I'm not a fan of the gagging type bj scenes that seem to be getting more popular in porn, though the regular type is a big turn on for me.

    What do you like about the gag thing? Is it just like a control thing, or is there more to it?

    Yes is the power exerted is a real turn on for me. Completely abandoning yourself to another. In the same way hair pulling, biting etc. Guess I am a bit weird

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    toycar69 [sign in to see picture]
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    wow, ok then puss. Maybe a bit weird, but the way you describe it, kinda hot too!

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    toycar69 wrote:

    hmm, I think I lose this competition in every way!

    Although I'm fairly sure I once received a little bit of sucking during foreplay when I was much younger as part of a one night thing, I've never had a bj to completion. Its one thing my Wifey refuses to do...

    So longest amount of time, probably under 1 minute while very drunk, and most in a day would be that single less than a minute time. Does that count as one, or more like 1/2 or 1/4?

    Beat that!

    I always feel so sad for you when i read your posts.

    I hope your wife gives you all the love and care you deserve in other ways toycar x

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    tronic wrote:

    It's a rare occurrence in our house - I'm lucky if I get a little bit of tongue time to encourage me to go for P in V, I can't remember the last time there was an oral only 'gift' given to me, if you catch my meaning. I've never had more than one in a day at any rate, maybe a week at that.

    As for timings, not had a fast one unless you count the times I ask nicely and it's clear that anything else would be preferable and the subject is changed as quick as deemed polite! Sometimes can be like, an hour, but that is because as time goes on, the quite obvious lack of enthusiasm puts a big dampener on everything :( I found out recently that current OH actually gets disappointed with herself if she cannot make me cum in a reasonable time, and I think this is more of a factor than the physical aches and pins and needles etc. I'd love to be able to have a quick bj, cum in a short time, and for her to be satisfied with her 'skills' or what have you, but I'm not sure how we would go about working towards that.. So, most in a day, 1, and longest about an hour or so, but not on purpose!

    Sounds like your OH may lack confidence in her abilities and then get down hearted and almost gives up before she begins? Don't really know how you'd go about rectifying that? Would say that next time you manage to get in that situation make loads of fuss and express how much you're enjoying it. This might encourage her and give her a bit of extra vigour?!

    I can't really claim to be an expert on this subject as i went out with a lovely guy a good few years ago now. We were going out for a year and he eventually explained how much he'd really like some oral pleasure! My heart dropped! We went to a party a couple of weeks later and he managed to persuade me to give it a try in someones garage! I remember it as if it was yesterday...the undoing of the flies and this sick gagging feeling before his pants were even down! Thoughts like 'oh no, god what am i doing, ugh i feel sick, this is not right atall...' going through my head! Then it kind of approached me slowly like some kind of slow-motion bit in a horror film (cue psycho music!!!) then It got pressed against my lips so i had to open my mouth....it lasted for all of about 6 seconds and i could no longer continue!

    The poor boy! Feel awful! Went out with him for a year and a half, never had sex either! Though i would much rather of had sex than touched or sucked his manhood! Still, i didn't realise i was gay until about 4 years later. I left behind me a trail of poor BJ-starved young men, who didn't really get the cream of sexual entertainment really! So i'd like to appologise to any guys i left with a frustrated feeling in their pants!

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    hmmm i used to hate to give one to the hubby then i bought a superb book tickle his pickle i read it and lets just say i can sit for an hour i love to see the smile on his face gives you a few good hints on how not to get a sore mouth lol

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    scottBunny wrote:

    hmmm i used to hate to give one to the hubby then i bought a superb book tickle his pickle i read it and lets just say i can sit for an hour i love to see the smile on his face gives you a few good hints on how not to get a sore mouth lol

    Ohhh that sounds great, I may just have to buy that

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    My wife was not so keen but we talked about it and now she likes the power it gives her to control when i cum and how she can really build me up.

    We don't do it all the time but when we do it is amazing, longest was probably 45 mins with her building me up and slowing down again.

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    scottBunny wrote:

    hmmm i used to hate to give one to the hubby then i bought a superb book tickle his pickle i read it and lets just say i can sit for an hour i love to see the smile on his face gives you a few good hints on how not to get a sore mouth lol

    I'm gonna get hold of this, maybe she will enjoy to read it. Thx for the tip!

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    bumble wrote:

    toycar69 wrote:

    hmm, I think I lose this competition in every way!

    Although I'm fairly sure I once received a little bit of sucking during foreplay when I was much younger as part of a one night thing, I've never had a bj to completion. Its one thing my Wifey refuses to do...

    So longest amount of time, probably under 1 minute while very drunk, and most in a day would be that single less than a minute time. Does that count as one, or more like 1/2 or 1/4?

    Beat that!

    I always feel so sad for you when i read your posts.

    I hope your wife gives you all the love and care you deserve in other ways toycar x

    Aww, thanks sweety!

    hmm, lets see: Cooking is me. Washing up is me. At least she does the washing and ironing

    Sometimes I think I get a raw deal, but it can't be that bad, after all I'm still with her!

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    merry cherry wrote:

    tronic wrote:

    It's a rare occurrence in our house - I'm lucky if I get a little bit of tongue time to encourage me to go for P in V, I can't remember the last time there was an oral only 'gift' given to me, if you catch my meaning. I've never had more than one in a day at any rate, maybe a week at that.

    As for timings, not had a fast one unless you count the times I ask nicely and it's clear that anything else would be preferable and the subject is changed as quick as deemed polite! Sometimes can be like, an hour, but that is because as time goes on, the quite obvious lack of enthusiasm puts a big dampener on everything :( I found out recently that current OH actually gets disappointed with herself if she cannot make me cum in a reasonable time, and I think this is more of a factor than the physical aches and pins and needles etc. I'd love to be able to have a quick bj, cum in a short time, and for her to be satisfied with her 'skills' or what have you, but I'm not sure how we would go about working towards that.. So, most in a day, 1, and longest about an hour or so, but not on purpose!

    Sounds like your OH may lack confidence in her abilities and then get down hearted and almost gives up before she begins? Don't really know how you'd go about rectifying that? Would say that next time you manage to get in that situation make loads of fuss and express how much you're enjoying it. This might encourage her and give her a bit of extra vigour?!

    I can't really claim to be an expert on this subject as i went out with a lovely guy a good few years ago now. We were going out for a year and he eventually explained how much he'd really like some oral pleasure! My heart dropped! We went to a party a couple of weeks later and he managed to persuade me to give it a try in someones garage! I remember it as if it was yesterday...the undoing of the flies and this sick gagging feeling before his pants were even down! Thoughts like 'oh no, god what am i doing, ugh i feel sick, this is not right atall...' going through my head! Then it kind of approached me slowly like some kind of slow-motion bit in a horror film (cue psycho music!!!) then It got pressed against my lips so i had to open my mouth....it lasted for all of about 6 seconds and i could no longer continue!

    The poor boy! Feel awful! Went out with him for a year and a half, never had sex either! Though i would much rather of had sex than touched or sucked his manhood! Still, i didn't realise i was gay until about 4 years later. I left behind me a trail of poor BJ-starved young men, who didn't really get the cream of sexual entertainment really! So i'd like to appologise to any guys i left with a frustrated feeling in their pants!

    i have to say this sounds like me when it comes to oral sex with a man. in january i came out as bisexual, i don't like giving oral to man the thought is cringing but i do enjoy intercourse with my partner. however i will go down on a woman any day.

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    Me and my partner don't do oral to finish often at all, i can't even remember the last time we done it, he prefers oral to a point and then to have intercourse after.

    the most would be 1 i imagine and the longest probably half an hour with a few stops and starts for other fun!

    VW x

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    *Still has a slightly sore cock from having the house free with Ad on Wed night*

    It was sooo worth it though!

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    longest ive ever recieved is just under an hour, but i dont really last very long in the bedroom department sad but true

    and most ive recieved in 1 day is 5

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    I love giving my Oh a blow job, Not sure how long or how but prob give him it up to 5 times a day when with him. will even give him one while hes driving hehe.i like to see him get all flustered and aroused while hes driving. and Like to take it Deep too.

    As someone mentioned the gagging. its the feeling they get on there cock when your gaggin bit like your pussy muscles contracting around his cock when hes inside you and your cuming.

    There is a technique to taking it deep with out gagging, and you have got to totally relax and concentrate. lose that concentration and you gag.

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    tronic [sign in to see picture]
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    That book turned up, I gave it to OH but she was clearly not impressed. D'oh!

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    tronic wrote:

    That book turned up, I gave it to OH but she was clearly not impressed. D'oh!

    Oh dear. Though I guess if she was already insecure about it, the book might have made her more self-conscious.

    Perhaps she just needs more reassurance that you just enjoy feeling her mouth, and don't need to come from oral? I know my boyfriend adores the feeling alone and isn't really bothered about whether I make him cum that way or not... if I feel like it, I do; if he feels like it, he gets rough ;) Not saying your partner would be ok with being facefucked, but if you take the pressure off her to make you cum that might make her more enthusiastic.

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    tronic wrote:

    That book turned up, I gave it to OH but she was clearly not impressed. D'oh!

    Shame Tron.I assume you have but never the less it can't hurt to mention it. Maybe it takes some explaination on your part. It could we taken as a not very subtle hint. I hope she reconsiders!

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