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    holdenmcgroin [sign in to see picture]
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    Have any of you guys had the same problem as my OH. Basically he has a foreskin that doesn't come all the way back and sometimes during sex it gets pulled tight and splits a little bit maybe a couple of centimeters. Other than getting curcumsised is there anything he can do to try and stop this from happening?

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    Heart2Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    Have he been to the GP yet?

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    holdenmcgroin [sign in to see picture]
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    No he's a bit embarrased about it, it doesn't happen vary often maybe once every couple of months but when it does it causes our sex life to suffer.

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    Heart2Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    He MUST go to the GP... he must take into mind his gp has seen it all! and if its a female gp he can request a male at a local clinic, but it does seem best to do that.

    I cannot offer advice as i don't have first hand experience with this problem...Only at puberty when the penis starts to develop and the forskin can be brought back over the head of the penis.

    All the best,

    Sir.Thrustalot

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    Ilovemyman [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello there is a recent discussion about this here (i hope this works )

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sex-talk/253376-any-ideas-any-circumcised-men-here/

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    sexytime [sign in to see picture]
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    I used to have a similar problem when I was about 16ish. being young I didn't realise that the foreskin was meant to go back quite so far (innocent or what?), but then when I started watching porn and getting more sexual with girlfriends, I soon realised that mine wouldn't even go back enough to fully expose the head.

    My solution........well to put it bluntly.........wanking! I read somewhere that its normal and that you can 'train' it my masturbating and pulling back on it slightly each time, and eventually it begins to stretch I guess. And now it's perfectly normal and slides all the way back, which obviously makes masturbation and sex a lot more comfortable and enjoyable!

    This was my experience, but if you were worried, then I would strongly recommend seeing your doctor, or just calling up NHS Direct, which is obviously less embarrassing.

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    Heart2Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    sexytime wrote:

    I used to have a similar problem when I was about 16ish. being young I didn't realise that the foreskin was meant to go back quite so far (innocent or what?), but then when I started watching porn and getting more sexual with girlfriends, I soon realised that mine wouldn't even go back enough to fully expose the head.

    My solution........well to put it bluntly.........wanking! I read somewhere that its normal and that you can 'train' it my masturbating and pulling back on it slightly each time, and eventually it begins to stretch I guess. And now it's perfectly normal and slides all the way back, which obviously makes masturbation and sex a lot more comfortable and enjoyable!

    This was my experience, but if you were worried, then I would strongly recommend seeing your doctor, or just calling up NHS Direct, which is obviously less embarrassing.

    Yeah, sort of what happened with me. Was 14 at the time, and when i noticed it i went straight to the docs and he soon straightened things out for me.

    How old is your OH ?

    All the best,

    Sir.Thrustalot

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    sexytime [sign in to see picture]
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    Sir.Thrustalot wrote:

    sexytime wrote:

    I used to have a similar problem when I was about 16ish. being young I didn't realise that the foreskin was meant to go back quite so far (innocent or what?), but then when I started watching porn and getting more sexual with girlfriends, I soon realised that mine wouldn't even go back enough to fully expose the head.

    My solution........well to put it bluntly.........wanking! I read somewhere that its normal and that you can 'train' it my masturbating and pulling back on it slightly each time, and eventually it begins to stretch I guess. And now it's perfectly normal and slides all the way back, which obviously makes masturbation and sex a lot more comfortable and enjoyable!

    This was my experience, but if you were worried, then I would strongly recommend seeing your doctor, or just calling up NHS Direct, which is obviously less embarrassing.

    Yeah, sort of what happened with me. Was 14 at the time, and when i noticed it i went straight to the docs and he soon straightened things out for me.

    How old is your OH ?

    All the best,

    Sir.Thrustalot

    Intrigued.......how did the doctor sort it? Snip snip?lol

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    Heart2Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    sexytime wrote:

    Sir.Thrustalot wrote:

    sexytime wrote:

    I used to have a similar problem when I was about 16ish. being young I didn't realise that the foreskin was meant to go back quite so far (innocent or what?), but then when I started watching porn and getting more sexual with girlfriends, I soon realised that mine wouldn't even go back enough to fully expose the head.

    My solution........well to put it bluntly.........wanking! I read somewhere that its normal and that you can 'train' it my masturbating and pulling back on it slightly each time, and eventually it begins to stretch I guess. And now it's perfectly normal and slides all the way back, which obviously makes masturbation and sex a lot more comfortable and enjoyable!

    This was my experience, but if you were worried, then I would strongly recommend seeing your doctor, or just calling up NHS Direct, which is obviously less embarrassing.

    Yeah, sort of what happened with me. Was 14 at the time, and when i noticed it i went straight to the docs and he soon straightened things out for me.

    How old is your OH ?

    All the best,

    Sir.Thrustalot

    Intrigued.......how did the doctor sort it? Snip snip?lol

    Lmao! Nope just told me it was all normal... I just needed that piece of mind xD Tho being 16, i have alot of development to go! xD

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    holdenmcgroin wrote:

    Have any of you guys had the same problem as my OH. Basically he has a foreskin that doesn't come all the way back and sometimes during sex it gets pulled tight and splits a little bit maybe a couple of centimeters. Other than getting curcumsised is there anything he can do to try and stop this from happening?

    I've posted a bit in the link provided and I'd suggest a forum search which might have more info.

    The best resource will likely be a dedicated forum that is likely to have tips on other therapies such as stretching. Although I've never needed to stretch I think I have become more loose since I became sexually active and began masturbating.

    Regardless it is likely talking to a GP is a good idea, remember a GP cannot make your OH do something he doesn't want and he can go just for a diagnosis and to discuss any other treatments if he is so against the idea of a circumcision. Good luck.

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    jackador123 [sign in to see picture]
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    I think its just a development thing. Just happens sometimes where your foreskin just won't pull back. But I would recommend the doctor if its an issue, they have like mentioned above seen it all. And will be best to advise him on the situation. Good luck to him.

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    holdenmcgroin [sign in to see picture]
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    He's 28 and is now thinking he should have wanked more as a teenager. :)

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    sexytime [sign in to see picture]
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    holdenmcgroin wrote:

    He's 28 and is now thinking he should have wanked more as a teenager. :)

    "Yes vicar, I know masturbation is bad, but I'm doing it for my health!"

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    holdenmcgroin [sign in to see picture]
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    sexytime wrote:

    holdenmcgroin wrote:

    He's 28 and is now thinking he should have wanked more as a teenager. :)

    "Yes vicar, I know masturbation is bad, but I'm doing it for my health!"

    This made us both chuckle :) hehe

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    holdenmcgroin wrote:

    sexytime wrote:

    holdenmcgroin wrote:

    He's 28 and is now thinking he should have wanked more as a teenager. :)

    "Yes vicar, I know masturbation is bad, but I'm doing it for my health!"

    This made us both chuckle :) hehe

    Made me laugh also xD

    There are many techniques for stretching, Might be worth putting a search in above ^^

    I

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    From what I'm aware stretching is a viable alternative although it can take a while. Have a wider google search.

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    From what I'm aware stretching is a viable alternative although it can take a while. Have a wider google search.

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    Heart2Heart [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&rls=com.microsoft:en-gb:IE-SearchBox&rlz=1I7ACAW_enGB328&&sa=X&ei=6T18TIH3IMiOjAfij7HSDg&ved=0CBsQvwUoAQ&q=stretching+your+foreskin&spell=1

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    holdenmcgroin wrote:

    He's 28 and is now thinking he should have wanked more as a teenager. :)

    Haha, its never too late!

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Roar wrote:

    I was circumcised as a baby so I would agree with the previous comment about removing a childs option to choose as an adult

    Can't say that it has ever posed a problem though

    That's unusual then, Ireland has a circ rate of 0.5%.

    I thought you were Israeli anyway?

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