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    bwitchingfun [sign in to see picture]
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    i have just been diagnosed with a cervial ectropian and this causes bleedin after sex am due to restart me sex life again this week and am worried abt wat may happen, i also go to swingin clubs just after sum advice plz

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    i would keep it to just anal then until your problem is solved

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    Ilovemyman [sign in to see picture]
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    Well i'd say talk to your partner, take it slowly. Have you spoken to your GP? They should be able to advise you. Good luck x

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    Sorry forgot to say welcome to the OA! x

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    I suggest consulting a medical professional about such a matter.

    Good luck.

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    bwitchingfun [sign in to see picture]
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    spoke to ma gp n they say it will pass but dont wana put ma life on hold until it clears, its been 3months since me last session, n thanx for the welcome x

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Perhaps avoiding the clubs is best for a while, with a caring understanding partner it should be easier to get back in to sex.

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    I'd personally advise taking it easy. I understand how difficult it is to abstain, but you dont wanna do yourself any permanent damage because you were impatient.

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    suze9 [sign in to see picture]
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    Would think that taking it easy would be the best course of action, you could still have fun not having full sex and a decent partner would wait untill you are better xxx

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    Wizzie86 [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with the above. I'm sure your partner will understand that you need to take things easy for a while. It could be a good time to indulge in some erotic massage or more relaxed sexual practices. It's better to be safe than sorry. It probably would be good to avoid the clubs for a while or at least take it easy x

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    deffinitely go and see your doctor forget the clubs. and maybe get back to a normal sex life after a rest but deffo no clubbing till you have seen a gp.

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    bwitchingfun wrote:

    spoke to ma gp n they say it will pass but dont wana put ma life on hold until it clears, its been 3months since me last session, n thanx for the welcome x

    Sex doesn't have to be penetrative 100% of the time to be pleasurable.

    I'm not able to have penetrative sex as often as I'd like, and the best thing I learnt was when it was good to persevere gently and when it was best to try an alternative. The next best thing I learnt, was that mutual oral is sex. It's just as satisfying as an alternative when taking it easy is the best course of action.

    Adx

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    bwitchingfun [sign in to see picture]
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    thank u for all ur comments an they will be taken on board thanks once again x

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