• new to porn, any advice?

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    GypsyCurl [sign in to see picture]
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    hi everyone

    right so im recently trying new things with me OH and as he has tried a lot of my things I have decided to try another of his... porn.

    I've had very bad experiences with porn in the past which is why i chose never to watch it really and I dislike my partener indulging in porn if I am not around unless its a home video of ours as I dont object to being filmed during coitus with him I've just never wanted to watch it.

    However, after trying some porn with my OH I found it fairly arousing and wanted to look into it a bit more. I've been through his collection but its all very hard core tbh

    Personally what I would LIKE to see from porn is no cheesey lines or crappy storylines, no gang bangs and I'm not really into girl on girl and would prefer to watch something with a good story line or something involving loving couples/porn stars one on one and just mostly sex tbh nothing OTT.

    can anyone suggest anything as a recommendation as I'm completely lost on how to go about looking for porn. I tried the net and LOL well... it was all very OTT and lots of ammeteur stuff which doesnt really thrill me that much.

    thanks

    jo xx

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    diamonds [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey there

    I find most porn films cheesy to be honest, the only ones that I find aren't are the amateur porn films. Which ate basically just a normal couple who have filmed themselves and uploaded the movie to the likes of redtube.

    There is the movies by Anna spanna and some of her DVDs are in the sale at the moment, they do have stories but they are on the cheesy side, there totally none hard core as you can't see a thing as there not R18. But you might find them as an ok option to bring porn in to the relationship.

    Not sure what else to suggest other then maybe watching porn have you thought about reading erotic stories to each other? Just as another option if you can't find what your looking for?

    Dxx

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    I haven't found anything decent. In an ideal world, I'd like to watch something of film/tv quality with the story lines, just with sex added. It doesn't seem to exist. I tried 9 songs but found it dull and uninspiring. And not particularly sexy, despite the fact that the sex was real. If you find anything, do tell!

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    9 1/2 weeks?

    anything with Mickey Rourke from the late 80s?

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    DrtyBoy wrote:

    9 1/2 weeks?

    anything with Mickey Rourke from the late 80s?

    Good film! Not full on cheese porn but an actual (sorta) film just with loads of sex...

    Might also be worth a forum search, some people have made great suggestions, especially about 'female friendly' porn.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/introduce-yourself/66304-pornography-for-women-please-help/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sex-talk/175830-what-sort-of-porn-are-girls-into/

    And the search:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=porn&x=0&y=0&department=community

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    GypsyCurl [sign in to see picture]
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    diamonds wrote:

    Hey there

    I find most porn films cheesy to be honest, the only ones that I find aren't are the amateur porn films. Which ate basically just a normal couple who have filmed themselves and uploaded the movie to the likes of redtube.

    There is the movies by Anna spanna and some of her DVDs are in the sale at the moment, they do have stories but they are on the cheesy side, there totally none hard core as you can't see a thing as there not R18. But you might find them as an ok option to bring porn in to the relationship.

    Not sure what else to suggest other then maybe watching porn have you thought about reading erotic stories to each other? Just as another option if you can't find what your looking for?

    Dxx

    meh... i heard of some porn star girl who does a lot of story line pornos with her OH but i cant remember her name now. but i will look into anna spanna.

    we do role play n naughty stories sometimes already, tbh we've tried quite a lot of things but just the basics and nothing OTT just yet as we've only been dating 3 years so we dont wanna rush stuff atm but as he likes porn i thought id try some for him.

    xx

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    telemachus wrote:

    I haven't found anything decent. In an ideal world, I'd like to watch something of film/tv quality with the story lines, just with sex added. It doesn't seem to exist. I tried 9 songs but found it dull and uninspiring. And not particularly sexy, despite the fact that the sex was real. If you find anything, do tell!

    well i remember watchin the 1st emmanuelle as a kid and i found the whole sorty of her beingteased and played with and taken into the world of naughty sex such a turn on but modern day erotica and porn just seems to be way OTT and its a bit boring watching someone go aah aah uuuh uuuh uuuh aaah aaah aaah aaah uuuuh uuuh for like 2 hours tbh PMSL!!! aaaaah the search continues!!! xx

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    WandA wrote:

    DrtyBoy wrote:

    9 1/2 weeks?

    anything with Mickey Rourke from the late 80s?

    Good film! Not full on cheese porn but an actual (sorta) film just with loads of sex...

    Might also be worth a forum search, some people have made great suggestions, especially about 'female friendly' porn.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/introduce-yourself/66304-pornography-for-women-please-help/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/sex-talk/175830-what-sort-of-porn-are-girls-into/

    And the search:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=porn&x=0&y=0&department=community

    thanks wanda :)

    tbh i did look for things like that online when i was looking for porn and i did find sites with names of artists who make porn for women but no film titles or options to buy... meh maybe i just need to go to a porn shop lol!!! can u try b4 u buy? PMSL!!! jokin i know u cant!!! xx

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    GypsyCurl wrote:

    can u try b4 u buy? PMSL!!! jokin i know u cant!!! xx

    Yes... Online, but often not legally.

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