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  1. what is acceptable for you?

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    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    I hadn't noticed that! KP, have you seen your avatar(s)?!

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH knows LH and my account on it. He also knows that I flirt on here. However I would never take it any further than light flirting. Cyber sex or texts etc are out of the question. He knows that MM is just a part of my fliratous personality and he respects me as he knows I wouldnt do anything.

    I agree with your rule KP as well.

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    KittyPurry [sign in to see picture]
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    Aww thank you Fr33b1rd and CCW! My body is ok because I'm quite fit but facially speaking I'm just not that special. I'm not ugly or anything just sort of average. I don't mind though because I really couldn't handle lots of male attention!

    Back on topic though, I think you can't go wrong if you are honest, trusting, respectful and caring. If you think something would hurt your partner, don't do it: simples!

    xxKPxx

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    KittyPurry wrote:

    Aww thank you Fr33b1rd and CCW! My body is ok because I'm quite fit but facially speaking I'm just not that special. I'm not ugly or anything just sort of average. I don't mind though because I really couldn't handle lots of male attention!

    Back on topic though, I think you can't go wrong if you are honest, trusting, respectful and caring. If you think something would hurt your partner, don't do it: simples!

    xxKPxx

    I would love to have a body like yours!
    For me, it doesnt matter too much abolut looks, of course I have to find the person attractive but personality is better for me. I have never seen your face but a body and a personality like that your a total winner!

    Love the last bit, makes me think of that compare the meerkat simples thing...

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    jojomojo [sign in to see picture]
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    Luckily both me and the OH are on the same page when it comes to this subect and it's the same as KP's

    KittyPurry wrote:

    I just have the one rule: I wouldn't do anything I wouldn't be comfortable with my OH seeing/reading/hearing.

    I tell DD everything and if he was ever unhappy with anything I'd done I would modify my future behaviour so that he felt comfortable. I wouldn't consider it a chore, his happiness is always going to be my priority!

    xxKPxx

    my heart, body and soul belong to J and i never want that to change. He knows all my passwords and i know his. No secrets unless its a pesent for the other

    J

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    KittyPurry wrote:

    Aww thank you Fr33b1rd and CCW! My body is ok because I'm quite fit but facially speaking I'm just not that special. I'm not ugly or anything just sort of average. I don't mind though because I really couldn't handle lots of male attention!

    xxKPxx

    You have a beautiful face!

    Adx

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    I have never seen he face, I now want to lol

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    KP hit it on the head, really. I'd never intentionally do anything that my bf wouldn't be happy with. I get all my kicks and more at home, no need to look elsewhere! :)

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    shellyboo wrote:

    KP hit it on the head, really. I'd never intentionally do anything that my bf wouldn't be happy with. I get all my kicks and more at home, no need to look elsewhere! :)

    Thats great!

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    *Emma* [sign in to see picture]
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    diamonds wrote:

    do you think its acceptable for people who have partners and who are in a monogamouse relationship to talk to other people in a sexual way (like super flirty/cyber/txting ect)?

    if i found out that my OH had been doing such things it would cause massive problems in our relationship and i think would end with me ending it. as i would feel this was cheating on me, as he has had sexual feelings that have had real interaction (unlike porn) with someone other then me.

    and i feel if your in a monogamous relationship if you have any kind of sexual interaction with another person it is wrong and a form of cheating.i feel that if you want dirty emails/msn/txts you do that with your partner.

    No i dont think its acceptable and id be more than unhappy if i discovered he had been flirting or sending/receiving pictures of himself/others of a sexual nature with others via text/msn or in RL etc. I feel as though id lose trust in him big time if that occured. It would make me feel completely worthless and destroy my self confidence, thinking i was inadequate... as it has done previously

    I agree that when you are in a relationship and supposedly love your partner you should keep sexual things between the 2 of you (this applies to me and my view on relationships in general and my own but i understand some people wish to swing, have threesomes etc but thats not for me). If you arent happy sexually with your partner you should discuss it and sort it out rather than looking elsewhere

    x

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    *Emma* [sign in to see picture]
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    I tell DD everything and if he was ever unhappy with anything I'd done I would modify my future behaviour so that he felt comfortable. I wouldn't consider it a chore, his happiness is always going to be my priority!

    Ditto that x

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