• clearly we are all insane!

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    Nexas wrote:

    I've discussed toys and the fact that I review them with a few people, my closest friend and his wife for example.

    I read that as 'the'.

    Thought bloody 'ell he never mentioned her!

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    hey toxycat i definitely agree with you on that one, if any of my friends found my stash of toys i think i would be rejected by them faster than you could say orgasm doesnt help being a straight guy and loving anal

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    its only a state of mind and i don't mind what state i'm in ha ha

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    No we're the sane ones, It's the rest of the outside world tht are insane for not being so openminded and sexually accepting in what year are we in now??? Oh yeh... 2010, Not, 1010!!!

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    Seduced wrote:

    No we're the sane ones, It's the rest of the outside world tht are insane for not being so openminded and sexually accepting in what year are we in now??? Oh yeh... 2010, Not, 1010!!!

    your'e so right my man and on that note i'm off to bed to add to the madness and having fun night night

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    Well goodness knows what my friends would think of me if they knew the full truth! I have a friend who claims she never masturbates. We were talkng one night after a few drinks, me my fella, her and her fella about sex. Masturbation came up and she was so shocked when we said if we don't feel like sex sometimes we just masturbate together/watch porn. We had to pick her jaw up off the floor - God knows how she would have reacted had we mentioned any toys!

    What my friends know of my sex life is very limited and it's probably better it stays that way, considering i'm obviously some kind of freak for enjoying sex. God knows what they'd say if they knew we'd started getting into swinging!! Actually...its tempting to tell them just for the priceless look on their faces! xx

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    sexynurse09 wrote:

    Well goodness knows what my friends would think of me if they knew the full truth!

    I get this feeling too. We're quite open with our friends & have bought Monogamy for friends before now but I wonder what they'd think if they knew we took turns to tie one another up & cane/paddle/crop/flog each other; or that we both have a collar; or that we watch porn together; or that we're exploring estim.

    Stuff that has become quite normal in our day-to-day lives I think would feel quite "out there" for some of our friends.

    We were shopping with some friends the other week & they asked our opinion on a lube so I'm guessing they have a fair idea of our kinkiness or at least our comfort with discussing things of a sexual nature...

    So long as they're happy & my friends are happy I'm not bothered that our sex lives are so different, don't see why they should care either.

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    Alot of my friends are the same.. just not somethings they talk about... but my closest friend has now joined the OA! yet to say hey (how rude lol) but then i worry she will think i am mad for loving everything sex related!!! But in all honesty i think she is too!! well we will see... hmm... but alot of my friends would probably think im insane!! xxxxxxxxx

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    a) hurt and b) be just not my thing.

    I was like that! And it didn't hurt because I was relaxed and didn't worry about it too much!! If you worry, your internal sphincter will close up (called anal blinking i believe) - even though your external sphincter hasnt, and that's when you can experience pain... that muscle has a memory and when it experiences a similar feeling - it will tighten again! The first experience is the MOST important one!

    I used to love anal - but had to be in the right mood for it, now I get an itch for it so maybe I'll be returning to it soon too!!

    BTW: I love how people say things are sick/disgusting/twisted when they haven't tried them!! I've always said, I will try almost everything apart from POO PLAY!!! :) x

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    CurlyCoupleWife wrote:

    sexynurse09 wrote:

    Well goodness knows what my friends would think of me if they knew the full truth!

    Stuff that has become quite normal in our day-to-day lives I think would feel quite "out there" for some of our friends.

    Lol you know every now and then I stop and wonder whether I am just a big perv, and whether other peoples apparant closed mindedness (is that a word? lol) is the weird thing or if everyone thinks my liberal approach to sex is strange. Which ever it is, I will not change. Yay for pervs!! xx

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    yeah ..perv's are us remember madness is only a state of mind ..and what state is your's in today xx

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    Mines in a horny state :P But I think that goes for a lot of us. I dont think we're insane though, just more open minded and I suppose, honest about things.

    You are only insane if you think you are normal and that everyone else is crazy!

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