• What turns you off ???

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    • Dirty underwear
    • Constant bad breath
    • Back hair
    • Being a player.
    • Not willing to experiment.
    • Dumb.
    • Unambitious
    • Putting things like sports, tv on front of me regularly.
    • Unclean
    • Lying.
    • Constant sexism jokes.
    • Clothes that don't fit or aren't suitable for your age/body type.
    • Unable to have fun/make fun of each other/mess about.
    • Constant cockyness.
    • Lack of sex drive.

    You may have noticed i'm incredibly fussy.. I'm very lucky to have found someone that doesn't do any of that. .all the time.

    That's not fussy - for the most part, your turn offs are things that decent, normal blokes don't have. I wouldn't call not accepting lies as fussy

    Adx

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    EmilyBlenkins [sign in to see picture]
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    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    • Dirty underwear
    • Constant bad breath
    • Back hair
    • Being a player.
    • Not willing to experiment.
    • Dumb.
    • Unambitious
    • Putting things like sports, tv on front of me regularly.
    • Unclean
    • Lying.
    • Constant sexism jokes.
    • Clothes that don't fit or aren't suitable for your age/body type.
    • Unable to have fun/make fun of each other/mess about.
    • Constant cockyness.
    • Lack of sex drive.

    You may have noticed i'm incredibly fussy.. I'm very lucky to have found someone that doesn't do any of that. .all the time.

    That's not fussy - for the most part, your turn offs are things that decent, normal blokes don't have. I wouldn't call not accepting lies as fussy

    Adx

    You'd be suprised how many decent, normal blokes there is

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    EmilyBlenkins [sign in to see picture]
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    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    • Dirty underwear
    • Constant bad breath
    • Back hair
    • Being a player.
    • Not willing to experiment.
    • Dumb.
    • Unambitious
    • Putting things like sports, tv on front of me regularly.
    • Unclean
    • Lying.
    • Constant sexism jokes.
    • Clothes that don't fit or aren't suitable for your age/body type.
    • Unable to have fun/make fun of each other/mess about.
    • Constant cockyness.
    • Lack of sex drive.

    You may have noticed i'm incredibly fussy.. I'm very lucky to have found someone that doesn't do any of that. .all the time.

    Forgot this one: people who are homophobic.

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    Kasumi [sign in to see picture]
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    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    Forgot this one: people who are homophobic.

    This and bullies.

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    des69er [sign in to see picture]
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    Nagging is my pet hate

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    Janny [sign in to see picture]
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    X lovely lady X wrote:

    its really down to personal preferance i just dont like people near my feet, im ok with touching other peoples if thats what they want but id rather others leave my feet alone. apart from that you never know if someones ticklish and u might get a foot to the face! haha

    Wow you are the first woman I ever heard of who dont like there feet touched. Liked your comment 'not trying hard enough', so true x

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    The Plaything [sign in to see picture]
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    sex wise cant think of anything , open minded and enjoy everything otherwise its just swearing in public theres no need

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    People who are or have:

    Homophobic
    Unhygenic
    Lazy
    Selfish
    Uncommactive
    Wont listen
    Bullies
    Facial Hair
    Back hair
    Arrogant

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    YoungEssexCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    MasqueradeMinx wrote:

    People who are or have:

    Homophobic
    Unhygenic
    Lazy
    Selfish
    Uncommactive
    Wont listen
    Bullies
    Facial Hair
    Back hair
    Arrogant

    I'd echo this !

    Also like to add, people that are......unwilling to try new things.

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    YoungEssexCouple wrote:

    MasqueradeMinx wrote:

    People who are or have:

    Homophobic
    Unhygenic
    Lazy
    Selfish
    Uncommactive
    Wont listen
    Bullies
    Facial Hair
    Back hair
    Arrogant
    Unexperimental

    I'd echo this !

    Also like to add, people that are......unwilling to try new things.

    Good point, its added lol.

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    YoungEssexCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Very true, however I assume you are *fairly* open minded. I can't stand people that just say "No" to anything that seems slightly different because they are stuck in a rut.

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    YoungEssexCouple wrote:

    Very true, however I assume you are *fairly* open minded. I can't stand people that just say "No" to anything that seems slightly different because they are stuck in a rut.

    I hate that so much!

    I am think I am very open minded with most things. I think of myself as a tri-sexual in the words of samantha. I will try anything once, within reason of course.

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    YoungEssexCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Always within reason !

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    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    • Being a player.

    of the pink oboe?

    W

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    SnL [sign in to see picture]
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    Fishing for compliments.

    I knew a couple of guys who did this. Unattractive.

    They should patiently wait and they might appreciate a surprising, genuine compliment.

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    EmilyBlenkins [sign in to see picture]
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    Wilkibo wrote:

    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    • Being a player.

    of the pink oboe?

    W

    -.-

    SnL wrote:

    Fishing for compliments.

    I knew a couple of guys who did this. Unattractive.

    They should patiently wait and they might appreciate a surprising, genuine compliment.

    I feel as if some might think I do this sometimes =/.. It's not intentional but maybe I should try and stop putting myself down publicly. (I feel as if I'm doing it now..ffs)

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    SnL [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Emily,

    I was referring to (vain) people who directly bring up a question about themselves, knowing the answer but loving to hear it from you directly. So they may have been given the best bum award, yet they still prompt you tell them so.

    I support people who display their beauty of the human body, their personality, strengths and insecurities. It's all about being human.

    Lucy xx :)

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    EmilyBlenkins [sign in to see picture]
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    Ah, okay. Thank you Sometimes I wonder if people think i'm attention seeking but I'm not doing it on purpose =/

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    Person above is an attention seeker! j.k heheh x

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    Wilkibo wrote:

    EmilyBlenkins wrote:

    • Being a player.

    of the pink oboe?

    W

    -.-

    SnL wrote:

    Fishing for compliments.

    I knew a couple of guys who did this. Unattractive.

    They should patiently wait and they might appreciate a surprising, genuine compliment.

    I feel as if some might think I do this sometimes =/.. It's not intentional but maybe I should try and stop putting myself down publicly. (I feel as if I'm doing it now..ffs)

    I do get how you feel, I sometimes feel like that as well. Its not fishing for complilemts as you don't believe you deserve them.

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