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  1. FirstTimeAnaler A Little To Eager?

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    FirstTimeAnaler [sign in to see picture]
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    Guys Guys And Girls,

    Im quite new to this site and to the forums but have posted a few times, as you can tell by my name i am new to the male anal play scene but have noticed that as long as i use a bit of lube i can go straight to using 2 fingers in my bum but after about 3/4 mins i tighten up and can only get one in. :S

    ive purchased the basix mini butt plug and OMG i love it, never used one before and it feels great but ive noticed it slips out very easily if i move about at all. and was asking for some advice from some more experienced anal players if they think i should go for a slightly larger toy (baring in mind my fiance only thinks i like a finger up there and not toys, so id have to say its for her, lol) or should i stay with the one ive got and just enjoy the sensations im getting with it?

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Welcome to the site, FTA. Users who dig anal will have better advice than me but I would recommend a useful feature on the LH site: the circumference toggle on the search editor. Great way to find beginner butt buddies.

    You might like a plug that is a little wider in the end that goes in, then tapers down. This could solve the problem of it slipping out. These look promising:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17661

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16479

    Prostate massagers are a great step up from the basic anal plug. Aneros is making a big noise on the scene and their shape looks like they would have some considerable staying power.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17661

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?vr=1&term=aneros&x=0&y=0

    Theres a Aneros search. Think you posted the wrong link by accident TL.

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh welly boot, thank you Wanda.

    Also, typing Anal into the Love Honey blog gives some great advice from the fabulous people of LH Towers.I would definitely recommend the articles on how to care for your anal toys so your sexy time is good, clean fun.

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    FirstTimeAnaler wrote:

    ive purchased the basix mini butt plug and OMG i love it, never used one before and it feels great but ive noticed it slips out very easily if i move about at all. and was asking for some advice from some more experienced anal players if they think i should go for a slightly larger toy (baring in mind my fiance only thinks i like a finger up there and not toys, so id have to say its for her, lol) or should i stay with the one ive got and just enjoy the sensations im getting with it?

    I have this and I have the same problems with it, you need a plug that tapers out then in again in order to keep it in.

    There are some great ones in the Doc Johnson range, such as

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=711

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17662

    Or how about these...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8581 Small Penis Plug

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16561 Tracey Cox Anal Kit

    They are also good to get as a 'gift for the OH' as they aren't tailored specifically for men especially the cute Doc Johnson pink ones!

    And of course anything Tracey Cox is a winner.

    Hope this helps!

    MC xxx

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    Wizzie86 [sign in to see picture]
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    The Tracey Cox advanced anal kit is great. The middle butt plug isn't too big and neither are too girthy so they are brilliant if you want to build up. Both plugs are made of really nice material so that they are firm but not too hard. They do stay in better than other plugs and the best thing about them is that you can make them vibrate if you buy a supersex bullet. Plus if you spend £30 on TC products you get a free vibe at the minute, which you could give to your partner ;-) xxx

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    thecornflake [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,

    My first anal toy was from Ann Summers - http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplay_et!letc~ev!10201||et!letc~ev!23253||_40151_-1_10201_65917_10001_ and for some reason it stays in really well, I've had it in for about 30 minutes whilst being in all sorts of positions and it stayed put. I think position has a lot to do with it, in certain ones I can feel myself trying to push it out a bit. I think you'd also find something bigger might stay in better as well because your muscles will be tighter around it.

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    RubberJin [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd pluck up the courage and tell your fiance you want to try toys - if she's OK with a finger I don't see how she'll object overly to toys instead - leaves your hands free to do other things ;)

    I agree you probably want a slightly larger toy, a selection pack is a good way to buy a bigger toy "by accident".

    Ultimately I learnt a long time ago that surpressing things in your sex life is only a recipe for unhappiness - if you're engaged then you should have no problem being completely open with your OH or what's the point?

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