1. Taking the leap..

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    Mr A and Mrs N [sign in to see picture]
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    So me and Mr A have been talking extensively about a threesome over the last few months and we've both decided we're ready to give it a go. We've set out the boundaries (mutual agreement on no kissing lol) and think it's best if it's with someone we don't know. We'd both prefer a MMF first and if we enjoy it as much as we expect to then we'd give a MFF a try.

    I'm just wondering if anyone can offer any insight into how you've turned the fantasy into a reality, was it on a night out, a swingers club etc ? 

    xo

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    try reading this, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/473216-threesomes/page-12/

    if you search 3somes on sex tips and talk above, you will find lots of threads. 

    You may not find it easy to drop on someone while out, not many guys will want to do other than have sex with you, and women who will do this are not called unicorns for nothing.

    Your best bet would be a swingers club, or such as fetlife, Or pay for an escort. Friends can turn into a nightmare, as well as be great. The thing with someone you know is that person feeling used, or falling for one of you, or one of you wondering what would they be like on their own. 

    If you do the agreements need to be between all of you, not just you two. And don't leave anyone out of things, the other person has feelings too.

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    Peakcouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Agree, go to a swinger club, our first group experience together was in one.  It's easier to walk away in a club if you're not happy, not so easy if you invite someone to your home. Whatever you do, don't involve friends - keep your swinging to strangers. 

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    hampshirecouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Peakcouple wrote:

    Agree, go to a swinger club, our first group experience together was in one.  It's easier to walk away in a club if you're not happy, not so easy if you invite someone to your home. Whatever you do, don't involve friends - keep your swinging to strangers. 

    What Peakcouple said, club has lot less pressure and you can talk to potential partner first. Don't go with a friend, but nothing wrong with swinging buddys becoming friends. If no swingers clubs near you plenty of websites for swingers

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