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  1. like masturbating better than sex?

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    tengaFan100 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all - i know its taboo to say it..

    But I got delivery of lovely titan men butt plug and tenga from LH this week..

    had one of teh best nights of my lifeon friday "test driving" with some choice porn..

    may be im not doing it right.. but with all these gorgeous toys and porn around do you think wanking is now better than sex? i find it hard to disagree after Friday :)

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello Tenga Fan!

    I include my toys and some porn when I'm with a partner if I feel like it! They're not just for when I'm on my own. I like to give pleasure as much as I enjoy receiving it, and I don't think any of my dildos are as appreciative of being deepthroated as my man is. Combine that with the fact that no vibrator, however nifty, can hold your body tightly and whisper in your ear as you come... I definitely like sex better!

    That said, I love my solo play too and wouldn't want to go without it - thank goodness there's no need to choose!

    Welcome to the Orgasm Army.

    SS xx

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    tengaFan100 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Sweet submission. fair point. Gf is a little uptight bought these things unfortunately. definitely would flip if she saw my butt plug. which frankly takes my breath away.

    i do like to use sex lines when I wank too. sad but true. Some of teh girls are really good at what they do :)

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    Got to agree with SS here, I prefer sex with a partner. We also incorporate toys and I'm a giver rather than a receiver so I need that appreciation from sex. I also don't really enjoy coming so sex makes it more about the intimacy and the act rather than the orgasm.

    I could (and do, most of the time) go without masturbation all together as long as I have my partner.

    Interesting question!

    Ax

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    I find sex and masturbation to be two very different experiences. During sex it's about our mutual pleasure and I find Im generally thinking of if they are enjoying it, more than focussing on my own pleasure. During masturbation I'm focussed on the sensations plus any fantasies. During sex with a partner I'm thinking about them, sometimes so much so that I hold off my own climax until I am sure they are satisfied.

    So I wouldn't say one is better than the other, for me. Just that they are both different and highly enjoyable in their own ways

    PS Welcome to the forums xxxx

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    sexycornishcouple [sign in to see picture]
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    yea sex and masturbation are 2 different things being a couple we both agree its good to have time to pleasure are selves as well as each other. we deffantly agrre with mistress Cara

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    sexycornishcouple wrote:

    yea sex and masturbation are 2 different things being a couple we both agree its good to have time to pleasure are selves as well as each other. we deffantly agrre with mistress Cara

    Thank you! xxx

    Although I was hoping for a heated debate to end with me spanking someone, tbh LOL

    xxx

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Different, much less pressure with a solo play but much more intense with a partner!

    Hello and welcome!

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    sexycornishcouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Maybe another day Mistress Cara dont think her lil bottom could take any more spanking today

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    tengaFan100 [sign in to see picture]
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    Ill disagree! Been going hard at it with Stoya movies this morning and my tenga. Sex is more emotionally fulfilling. But i dont believe anything makes my dick feel better than porn/plug and tenga. Being honest!

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    The both are satisfyingly great, and even better if you can blend the two :P

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    Malteser81 [sign in to see picture]
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    I used to get far much more enjoyment from masterbation than sex but now it just doesnt compare to sex with my new partner, sex is just amazing and just as much fun with or without toys.

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    talisman [sign in to see picture]
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    whats sex again lol

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    sexy little minx [sign in to see picture]
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    I wouldn't say 1 is better than the other. I'm another who agrees with MC! x

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    bigbrownblowjobeyes [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm sure if/when your gf discovers the use of sex lines, your 'uptight gf' problems will be fixed...

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    bigbrownblowjobeyes wrote:

    I'm sure if/when your gf discovers the use of sex lines, your 'uptight gf' problems will be fixed...

    I know...

    Sex lines are, like, Soooooo last century!

    It's all about the internet now...Skype sex lines!

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    sex lines give me the creeps. Personal opinion not casting aspersions or anything. Just my own personal taste. I don't like them. Something about the girls being forced to talk a certain way, its all so fake, £1.50 a min... *shudders*

    jmo and all the terms and conditions etc lol

    SLM you can join in my 'people who agree with me' boobie squeeze lol

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    Ecksvie [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm not that skilled at masturbation. I've always found my partner pleasures me much better than I'm able to myself. Having said that though, I still wouldn't give up masturbation. It has its purposes when I'm away from my OH, and although I haven't delved into it much, it's never been anything less than completely hot when I've masturbated in front of him with my toys.

    There's a big differences between the effects of different sexual acts, so I couldn't say one is better than the other. Masturbation (with toys, there is no masturbation for me without them) makes me orgasm, but it doesn't feel that satisfying physically or mentally. Sex rarely makes me orgasm, but I feel satisfied afterwards. Depends what you're going for really.

    No matter how dirty I get, there's still a bit of innocence in me. It wasn't until MC's post that I realised you meant sex phone lines rather than lines you say during sex. :P

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    personally i view theese things as different types of pleasure and stimulation. i dont think either is better than the other, for me they are distinct.

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    littlebonnie [sign in to see picture]
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    this weekend me and boyfriend finally just let ourselves go after being together for a few months and i thought men just ddint know how to push the button but a 2hours kinky session beats solo anytime ;)!!

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