• Ever paid for sex?

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    Strapon! [sign in to see picture]
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    Brilliant practical £ saving advice there from the duck!

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    Sukkamielli [sign in to see picture]
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    Coming to the convo a bit late as usual...

    I have both paid and been paid for sex but not in a street corner prozzie sense. Back in the motherland many years ago I was part of a very strange little swinging scene wherein rather than allow friends to fall on hard times we would pay one selected participant to become the group slave for the evening, great for a Sub like me! The selected slave would then take on the more violent/depersonalised roles, disregardng their own desire for satisfaction. this is how many of us paid for moves to uni etc.

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    I have, once - it was wonderful.

    Just to explain the background. 9 months ago I was divorced after 25 years. Neither of us had strayed 'elsewhere' during that time. After the divorce I thought the best way for me to draw a line under it would be to spend some time in bed with a different woman.

    Now, if you are 46 and have been very married for a long time, you can't just click your fingers and have someone appear in your bed. I found the Billy Piper 'Bell de Jour' series to be quite a turn on and started to do some research.

    From what I found, it's a market like any other. Avoid the cheap end. So, avoid people working on the street and I would also avoid massage parlours. Go for an expensive independent escort. Don't try to do this cheaply, you are looking for a courtesan, not a wh*re.

    I spent a lot of time researching this, which was quite enjoyable. Escort web sites are informative and erotic. So are the sites for client reviews. Once you have found someone you think meets your requirements, e-mail them and tell them about what you are after. Don't go asking questions that are answered on their web-site! Be honest.

    I ended up spending four hours with a very intelligent (a graduate), very attractive (best described as the younger sister of the woman from the BT ads) and understanding young woman. She was 23 and half my age, but she was very, very good in bed. There was nothing 'seedy' about it.

    It cost me a lot of money but I came away feeling great.

    @jkc27 - just do the research. If Mrs jkc is looking for 'hands on' as well, check the escort entertains couples and is bi first. It should all be on her web-site. Some of them may be a bit reluctant to admit that they are 'augmented' though!

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    Markedman [sign in to see picture]
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    To clarify, in the above post I meant that she looked like the younger sister of the woman in the BT ads, not that she was the younger sister!

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    Knew exactly what you meant Markedman.....always wondered about doing the same thing.

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    Markedman [sign in to see picture]
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    Caveat emptor tallboy. If someone does the research right, they can live out any fantasy they want - for a price of course.

    Now one of my fantasies is being the bloke who does their web-sites! Payment would be on a barter basis I think.

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    Markedman [sign in to see picture]
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    I've just updated my profile picture to show just a bit of the gorgeous young lady concerned!

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    Very nice Markedman, l take it you suffered no long term kinks as a result?

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    Markedman [sign in to see picture]
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    Well tallboy, if money was no object I would have blown thousands by now.

    Just the one-off so far. Since the divorce the quantity of sex has decreased but the diversity has gone up.

    A bi-sexual friend who has propositioned me on and off for the best part of 30 years suddenly got an answer he wasn't expecting. Also an old lover from way back is also there to provide me with the pleasures that only a woman can, so it's all good.

    None of it as often as I would like though, hence the intersest in sex toys, masturbation and horny chat!

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    Sukkamielli [sign in to see picture]
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    Sounds like you are celebrating the new found freedom in fantastic style Markedman! keep up the good work!

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    Good for you Markedman, a man after my own part!!

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    If the reason was for sexual relief, then a wank session can take care of that to a fair degree. and I would be concerned about STDs and the like which I would think would be rife in the main??

    However I see nothing wrong with doing that if that is what you want - and if I were to try it, then Markedmans experience sounds most enjoyable and reckon would be the route I would go

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    Bingo Caller wrote:

    If the reason was for sexual relief, then a wank session can take care of that to a fair degree. and I would be concerned about STDs and the like which I would think would be rife in the main??

    However I see nothing wrong with doing that if that is what you want - and if I were to try it, then Markedmans experience sounds most enjoyable and reckon would be the route I would go

    You'd be surprised i think about how careful those who make sex their living are about sexual health. it is only the junkies who will risk an sti/std damaging their income.

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    Gadget wrote:

    You'd be surprised i think about how careful those who make sex their living are about sexual health. it is only the junkies who will risk an sti/std damaging their income.

    Yep. They are very clear on their web-sites about what they will and won't do, including when the condom needs to go on. Only go with someone whose ideas about safety match your own.

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    And you're much more likely to pick up something nasty from a stranger in bar than a sex-trade professional, whose livelihood depends on keeping 100% clean...

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    i have,many times.i have a big appetite and they can generally satisfy that .it can be quite alot of fun but also costly.it's just like having a one nighter and you'll probably spend the same amount as going out on the piss.

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    lol my OH said he did once for the experience 25 yrs ago but didnt go bk 4 more and cant say id fancy it either lol tho escort agencys do sound 2 b the right way 2 go

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    well, i've always wanted sex, haven't had a REAL girlfriend/boyfriend, most of them were either using me or they simply didn't want to be with me in the end.

    i've wanted to loose my virginity the 'right' way, but lately i'm concerned as to what the so called 'right' way would be, therefore i have decided to save up and go to amsterdam and find myself a rather good prosy and ensure that I loose it to someone whom i feel is attractive and will please me. in the end that's all many peple want.

    Redefine love in your mind, what is it? how to you feel it and is it something you want or just something you think you want?

    sex is sex and I want sex!

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    JasonXI wrote:

    well, i've always wanted sex, haven't had a REAL girlfriend/boyfriend, most of them were either using me or they simply didn't want to be with me in the end.

    i've wanted to loose my virginity the 'right' way, but lately i'm concerned as to what the so called 'right' way would be, therefore i have decided to save up and go to amsterdam and find myself a rather good prosy and ensure that I loose it to someone whom i feel is attractive and will please me.

    For the record, every person I have ever met or heard about including myself has had relationships which ended because one or the other or both parties didn't want to be with each other in the end. The fact that the relationships ended doesn't make them any less "real".

    And as far as I'm aware, the only "right" way to lose one's virginity is consensually. Without that, any way is wrong.

    Also, I would caution against becoming accustomed to expecting women to be as they appear in the sex industry. I think that choosing a sex worker to lose your virginity with is fine. Transactions with sex workers are much easier because they don't require any emotional giving. Everyday relationships all require emotional give and take on both sides to make them work. So that's why I think that expecting to have relationships with people as if they were sex workers might not be very realistic.

    I wish you good fortune, and I hope you have a good experience in Amsterdam.

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    yep a long time ago whn i was very lonely and a bit depressed i paid for 2 blowjobs on 2 seperate occasions, first was shitty i did'nt come and she was drugged up i think.i felt sorry for her afterwards.

    second one was a million times better she was gorgeous and dressed like a schoolgirl i picked her up we drove to a quiet spot and i asked if i could touch her and she said yes so i lifted her skirt and she had a pink thong on which made me erect straight away,i got my cock out and she said ooh its big and she sucked me off and when i came she spat it out the door-classy.this is the first time i've ever told anyone about this

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