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  1. Ever paid for sex?

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Salvadore wrote:

    have only skimmed through this.. seems like no one has ever done it. I haven't but I have many friends who have, whether it was Amsterdam, stag do's, lads holidays.. I spent a lot of time working in Thailand and there it was almost accepted that Thai men could go for Kareoke and a massage on Friday nights. There were various massage options available, but I am sure it is hard to resist once you are upstairs.. I dont condone it, but I do think it should be legalised, because it is always going to happen...

    Kareoke... not exactly a turn on for me...

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Yeah! I completely agree. I meant I'm ashamed that it was my best friends boyfriend. but then on the other hand its better than a stranger. I really feel that licenced brothels should be allowed in the UK, or any standardable venue for prostitutes so they are safe and looked after and aren't getting in more trouble than its worth. I saw a programme a while ago of a sex house in america that had a manager and took care of any problems that might occur, and kept it all organized like money up front first, discussing what will happen and pricing before anything else, being checked for diseases etc. The UK needs that!

    im in full agreement. it being illegal means its unregulated, and that is not good!! x

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    Salvadore wrote:

    have only skimmed through this.. seems like no one has ever done it. I haven't but I have many friends who have, whether it was Amsterdam, stag do's, lads holidays.. I spent a lot of time working in Thailand and there it was almost accepted that Thai men could go for Kareoke and a massage on Friday nights. There were various massage options available, but I am sure it is hard to resist once you are upstairs.. I dont condone it, but I do think it should be legalised, because it is always going to happen...

    i do condone it!! i think its a great idea and if its something that someone is happy doing then they should be respected for that! what prostitutes do doesnt harm anyone and noone should feel guilty about it!

    i have never paid for or been paid for sex, but if i was to try anything like threesome with a partner etc i would definately go down the "escort" route for the other person. if i want a decent extension building on my house i would call in a builder. if i wanted sex purely as a service, i would call in a professional for that too!!

    also on that note, if i NEEDED to make money (for example if i was gonna lose my house etc) then i would consider it if it meant i could get the money to keep my daughter fed and clothed with a roof over her head and i would NOT be ashamed of it.

    it wouldnt be a career choice for me, but on the same note i wouldnt pick admin work as a career choice either!! doesnt mean i think its shameful

    and i know some people would form nasty opinions about me on this, which they are entitled to, but it doesnt change mine. x

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    I've never paid for sex, but I kind of like the idea as I've always fantasised about being with another woman. But it would have to be someone who likes their job, as opposed to someone who just needs the money. I think there was this program once on TV about (legal) brothels, and this woman said she enjoyed her work, and didn't do it just for the paycheck but for the confidence and experiences it gave her. Using someone and paying them, knowing that they don't like what they do or might even feel ashamed of themselves wouldn't be right.

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    Lunar Lunacy wrote:

    I've never paid for sex, but I kind of like the idea as I've always fantasised about being with another woman. But it would have to be someone who likes their job, as opposed to someone who just needs the money. I think there was this program once on TV about (legal) brothels, and this woman said she enjoyed her work, and didn't do it just for the paycheck but for the confidence and experiences it gave her. Using someone and paying them, knowing that they don't like what they do or might even feel ashamed of themselves wouldn't be right.

    i feel ashamed of being in customer services! i suggest they close the company!! hehe x

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    Yeah

    A similar story to alot of other guys here. I think i was 19 years old at the time and it was my second occassion going to Amsterdam. The first time it was a small group of guys. Staying for 3 days doing the things normally associated with amsterdam. Sex shows, strip clubs, looking at the ladies in the red light district. It wasnt even in my mind to get a prositiute. I just went for the novalty of amsterdam. The entire concept of the rld is alien idea to catholic ireland where condoms werent introduced until the 90;s. {being illegal or frowned upon by the church}. These girls werent your normal stereotypical hooker, you know, malnurished, desperate looking, depressing. Nope these girls were absolutely stunning way beyond my expectation. Model material that outshone any girl back home.

    The second occassion i went it was with a larger group of guys. There was more egging on involved, even guys who intended on getting one. I said i wouldnt again. Just enjoy the sights as the pervious time. Most nights revolved around consuming huge volumes of alcohol the local smoke, mushrooms and even the more naughty ones and walking with our jaws dropped (sometimes chemically) looking at the girls in the window. If you;ve been you'll know they try entice you over with a wink, showing more skin or a beckoning finger. On the last day, completely smashed and drugged up i succumbed to it. (this isnt an excuse, this is something i wanted to do i just needed all my inhibition to be shattered).

    Did i enjoy it? i see ask myself this. The genuine answer is im not sure. Through the haze i just cant decide

    Would i do it again? at home no. Maybe abroad

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    I think the sex industry should be legalised and properly licensed. That way there'd be a pension and health checks, not to mention a better system for finding what you were after. I mean, just how is a girl supposed to go about FINDING a lesbian prostitute?

    Wouldn't it make more sense for the government to legalise it? They could even tax it! And wouldn't it be safer for sex industry workers to know they were working in licensed brothels and would have proper security and such? We have strip clubs on the legal side and anything past that is considered illegal - I don't think that's fair at all.

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    Elle-Scotland wrote:

    I think the sex industry should be legalised and properly licensed. That way there'd be a pension and health checks, not to mention a better system for finding what you were after. I mean, just how is a girl supposed to go about FINDING a lesbian prostitute?

    Wouldn't it make more sense for the government to legalise it? They could even tax it! And wouldn't it be safer for sex industry workers to know they were working in licensed brothels and would have proper security and such? We have strip clubs on the legal side and anything past that is considered illegal - I don't think that's fair at all.

    im completely with you on that one. legalise it and make it safe and regulated for everyone. i dont think it will drastically increase the amount of people using them, it will just make it safer for all concerned. also will mean tat the money being taken in the sex industry will be subject to tax, like anyone else with a job has to pay. x

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    poppy904 wrote:

    im completely with you on that one. legalise it and make it safe and regulated for everyone. i dont think it will drastically increase the amount of people using them, it will just make it safer for all concerned. also will mean tat the money being taken in the sex industry will be subject to tax, like anyone else with a job has to pay. x

    But we just happen to have a government that has gone the opposite way... making the laws even more draconian!

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    WandA wrote:

    poppy904 wrote:

    im completely with you on that one. legalise it and make it safe and regulated for everyone. i dont think it will drastically increase the amount of people using them, it will just make it safer for all concerned. also will mean tat the money being taken in the sex industry will be subject to tax, like anyone else with a job has to pay. x

    But we just happen to have a government that has gone the opposite way... making the laws even more draconian!

    yeah. and it just causes more trouble!! x

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    I did. Once. I was on a stag weekend in Bournemouth. She was a lovely young lady, FAR too pretty to be a streetwalker, not an addict as I could not possibly contribute to that, her mate was and the difference between the two was quite shocking. Mate was 2yrs younger but looked best part of 40 not 18, very sad.

    Turns out she had an insatiable sexual appetite and thought she may as well make some cash out of it. Was a CRACKING cpl of hrs and as I was single at the time, away from where I lived and had the serious horn I didn't see anything wrong with it.

    It was also cheaper than the old fashioned route of buying a lass a few drinks in a nightclub on the off chance ya might get a shag!

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    I can imagine that is quite a big thing to get your head around if you have only just found out. As long as he was safe and he's clean, then I'm sure you'll come to terms with it. I can't imagine he would have announced it as off the cuff, and must have been a fair big thing for him to confide in you.

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    Oh ok. I know its one of those topics where even the broadest-minded people are accepting of prostitution however its something that it involves others and not people they know and love. Its a tricky one, and wouldn't know what to advise.

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    I've paid for sex toys to please myself but i've never paid for sex in the traditional way and I doubt I ever will.

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    Personally I wouldn't want to hire the services of a prostitute simply because I don't like to think of people being exploited. I know that not all prostitutes are, but the statistcs show the vast majority are and even if they said they were happy etc how could you be sure!?

    I think prostitution should be legalised so it can be regulated, the prositues could then be kept safer and healthier. Legalising the profession would mean that prostitutes were able to pay national insurance and be entitled to pensions etc.

    Even if prostitution was legalised I don't think it's something I'd be particularly interested in: I get a lot of my pleasure vicariously from pleasuring the other party, and I want to be wanted for me not for what I'm paying.

    I have been to a strip club though and weirdly had an "accidental orgasm!" The dancer was writhing naked on my lap, her knee hit my clit and it just happened! I'm not quite sure it's in the same league as paying for sex but it definately felt a bit risquee!

    xxKPxx

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    If it's legalised then it can be heavily regulated. Prostitution dates back to biblical times - its never going to be stopped. Better to regulate & have some control as well as keeping people safe. I was told that paying for sex isn't illegal, it's just when it's in the public eye. I personally would never pay for sex x

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    I had to pay for sex yet again last wed.

    For full on hard fucking and she sucked me off and let me lick her arse and cum inside her. . . .

    I had to the next morning replace one broken toilet seat and repair one childs bike!

    SG69 x

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    Nexas wrote:

    SEXYGET 69 wrote:

    I had to pay for sex yet again last wed.

    For full on hard fucking and she sucked me off and let me lick her arse and cum inside her. . . .

    I had to the next morning replace one broken toilet seat and repair one childs bike!

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    LOL I laughed for ages, then remembered you'd done this before and still found it funny LOL

    Yep! I think I ended up flagging her garden that time Nex! LOL

    SG69

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    LOL. Maybe I should use that tactic on Gee!
    In our house, its a case of the cobbler's wife wears no shoes i.e. everything is dilapidated (Gee included).

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    JayGee wrote:

    LOL. Maybe I should use that tactic on Gee!
    In our house, its a case of the cobbler's wife wears no shoes i.e. everything is dilapidated (Gee included).

    LOL! I think that's the case in most people with a trade's houses. They're too busy doing everyone elses!

    I'm sure if you were to suggest a *special* payment girl you'll be having work done left, right and certainly centre!

    SG69 x

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