1. Guy trying anal first time

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    nacho123 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a straight guy no attraction to men but i just got the urge to try it i just used some water based lube there and got 2 fingers deep in my ass also tried a pen i know not a good idea i had a firm grip and didn't put it right in not using the lid end wouldn't want it coming off now lol i hope i don't have a sore ass tomorrow will i ? Anyway i decided fuck it and bought a 5inch dildo from here i thought 4inch would be too small. What should i expect will i have any pain the next day after use ? All advice welcomed thanks ill post a link to the one i bought

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    nacho123 [sign in to see picture]
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    www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30879

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    paulsballs [sign in to see picture]
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    Take things slowly

    Plenty of lube

    Try to relax

    Good luck 

    Enjoy

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    LampLover [sign in to see picture]
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    Buy a dildo with a sucker on it, then you can play hands free. Best thing I bought

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    nacho123 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the advice i was hoping the one i bought had a sucker too. Also can you hurt your self do any damage. My ass is actually slightly sore the now feels like it is bruised lol i felt like i used enough lube my fingers slipped in and out easily and smoothly

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    SlimeCoveredCow [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd recommend the 6inch Life-like Lover. I have the 6inch Basicxs one (in blue) and I've found the Life-like lover series a lot better quality.

    I'd highly recommend getting a douche and some wipes to make things a lot cleaner, and also most 6inch (length) and 3-4inch (circumference) dildos will glide in without much fuss and a decent amount of lube.

    Breathe, try to relax and take it slow. I'd recommend fully using the suction cup against a surface so you can position yourself comfortably and just "go for it".

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    You may find you are feeling tender as a pen is quite a solid object with no give in it and quite pointy. Really not a smart move as it could easily tear inside causing more issues.

    Anything with a girth of 3-4 inches really is quite easy to take. Don't go slamming down on it all in one go, take your time. Put the head in and then stop, breath and let your body get used to the sensation of being penetrated. Pull it out and then put it back in again, again just the head or maybe a fraction more and stop again, breath and relax into the sensation. 

    Rinse and repeat until you find that the presence of something going into your backside no longer feels foreign or invasive. It may take a good few minutes or longer until you feel comfortable (or confident) to take the whole toy, it may not even happen first time up to bat but don't stress.

    You shouldn't experience pain, maybe an unusual sensation, not discomfort but an awareness that something feels different back there. 

    Key points - 

    Relax

    Lube

    Don't rush

    Take time to stop and start repeatedly

    Lube

    Relax

    Enjoy

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    First thing never put anything up your ass that wasn't designed to go up there! The last thing you want is a trip to A&E! Even worse having to explain to your OH how it got there if they don't know about your anal play! Secondly when buy any toy make sure it has a large base as some small based toys can be completely useless. And like many have said plenty of good anal lube and plenty of time, don't rush it as you can do damage. Personally I would recommend before jumping straight on to a dildo you get an anal training kit, I did myself and you'll be amazed how easily they help you get to bigger and better things, there are some great ones on LH. Also Myself and my OH will always plug first to get comfortable and stretch before we proceed in any anal play.

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    Hey, you may notice a little tenderness for a few hours but it shouldn’t last much longer than that. Unless your using extremely big toys and may have stretched yourself a lot, but our bodies are designed to quickly repair and get back to our usual state. My tips would be to use plenty of lube, purchase a douche for a cleaner and more comfy experience and don’t go beyond a slight stretch. Take your time and if things start to hurt or don’t seem to be going in, then don’t force it. Build yourself up to taking bigger toys and slowly you will get there. You may also prefer to use a different type of toy if a realistic one doesn’t work, the ridges on the flared tip can be a bit of a nightmare to get in as a first timer, I would look at the G spot toys and find something thin and smooth.

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    Hi thanks for all the advice keep it coming I'm taken it all on bored. yes i knew the pen was a bad idea so that's why i stopped straight away came on here and bought something. It arrives tomorrow but today i have had things going through my head like what kind of man will that make me seems like a mental thing too when your a straight guy.

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    nacho123 wrote:

    Hi thanks for all the advice keep it coming I'm taken it all on bored. yes i knew the pen was a bad idea so that's why i stopped straight away came on here and bought something. It arrives tomorrow but today i have had things going through my head like what kind of man will that make me seems like a mental thing too when your a straight guy.

    So what you bought!😉 I'm totally straight but I love being pegged by my OH and love any solo anal play! I've always had the urge but have always been straight, no interest in men's cocks at all in anyway even though I can watch gay porn. I find my only reservation about me liking anal is the misunderstanding from those who just don't get it! We have a friend who knows all about our sex life as hers is very simular but when she found out about my anal sexlife she just couldn't understand that I could like it without being gay or bi! It's this type of attitude that you hear that can make you question why you like anal but at the end of the day it's more normal and practiced than is known and thats why theres such a taboo! If it has made you question your sexuality and you think you might be bi then theres nothing wrong with that too!
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    Yes man wrote:

    nacho123 wrote:

    Hi thanks for all the advice keep it coming I'm taken it all on bored. yes i knew the pen was a bad idea so that's why i stopped straight away came on here and bought something. It arrives tomorrow but today i have had things going through my head like what kind of man will that make me seems like a mental thing too when your a straight guy.

    So what you bought!😉 I'm totally straight but I love being pegged by my OH and love any solo anal play! I've always had the urge but have always been straight, no interest in men's cocks at all in anyway even though I can watch gay porn. I find my only reservation about me liking anal is the misunderstanding from those who just don't get it! We have a friend who knows all about our sex life as hers is very simular but when she found out about my anal sexlife she just couldn't understand that I could like it without being gay or bi! It's this type of attitude that you hear that can make you question why you like anal but at the end of the day it's more normal and practiced than is known and thats why theres such a taboo! If it has made you question your sexuality and you think you might be bi then theres nothing wrong with that too!
    Yes mate i should have said of course there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi. Its not that I'm questioning my sexuality just have they kind of thoughts like a real man wouldn't do that lol. I will admit i do like shemale porn anyway i have bought it now ill try it i may not even like it might not be for me but least i tried it lol i kinda hope i do like it though lol i say kinda as i still have the stupid real man thing going through my head I'm sure u got this also did you or is it maybe my age I'm 27.
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    After reading advice on here and online i was thinking the 5inch dildo might be a bit much so i bought a beginners butt plug all use that first a few times

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    When i was picking up my parcels at the post office it was a older woman who was serving me probably in her late 50s early 60s im not ashamed to say i would have lol anyway i was making small talk with her as she was processing my parcel i was thinking to my self what she would think if she knew what was in the parcel if she would like it or not lol. Anyway i just tried my toys out just now lubed up my ass and fingers used them for a bit then the butt plug that's as far as i planned to go but i had it fully in me in no time so i thought fuck it i may as well try im lubed now i got out the 5inch dildo put more lube on my fingers poked my ass for a bit then i tried the dildo took me a while but i eventually got the head in i tried to push it in more but i felt pain so i stoped took it out put more lube in my ass and on the dildo when i got the head in again i stopped then slowly pushed it in more probably got it half in then i stopped i decided to stand up and bend over i put more lube on slowly pushed it in again i managed to get it all the way in then i called it a day lol. I hope I'm not in pain tomorrow should i be ok since i had no pain putting it in and when i did i stopped straight away and applied more lube ? I have noticed if i keep this up ill have to invest in more lube lol you go through a lot.

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    Next day and no pain so that's good

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    nacho123 wrote:

    Next day and no pain so that's good

    Excellents news! Time to play! I can guarantee you'll just want to go bigger and bigger!! 😉😉😉
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    Once you get bigger there can be a little temporary stretching pain but not a huge amount you have to gage it and stop if it’s too much.

    Stick with proper toys and take your time. I start with my smaller toys work up to larger ones. Anal is addictive ! I’m using a 8.5in circumference now never done any damage or pain the next day.

    I suggest something like this one:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38286

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    pantieman [sign in to see picture]
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    Good advise I received from a gay friend is to push like you are about to poo and the toy will go in easier as you open up .

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    nacho123 [sign in to see picture]
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    thinking about buying this next

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5648

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Good on you 👍🏼 anal play is like pringles once you pop you can't stop 😂 Definitely an amazing experience everytime

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