1. Squirting/Gushing did it just happen or did you have to work at it?

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    teacake [sign in to see picture]
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    For years and years we tried to get my OH to squirt but it was never going to happen we both would of liked it to happen but it wasn't so we both agreed not to buy any more toys to help with it. Fastforward two years we were getting jiggy in the livingroom i was fingering her while she was kneeling on the floor, i could hear her getting wet and when she had her orgasm she said that it felt different and her legs were wet, as we were caught in the moment she still had her knickers down at her knees when she stood up her knickers were soaked and so was the carpet that was soaking  From then on its been very easy for her to gush i say gush because its more of a gushing waterfall, only odd times she squirts. Toys and Sex doesn't make her squirt just the fingers.
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    AmyA [sign in to see picture]
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    It just happened for me, I think before I had even heard of it so it was
    a bit of a “Whoah, what happened?!” moment. I think it was just from
    clit stim with a toy, on my own. It is more a gush for me too, and lots
    of it. It happens pretty much every time. I don’t know if it would
    happen with a partner since i’ve never had one.

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    IMO its a natural process. Its  a reaction to the right stimulation
    but not all women can do it. My Mrs has been doing it for years and did
    catch me out the first time it happened..

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    Fun&Funky [sign in to see picture]
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    It happened be random for us the first time too. I’m d never heard of it
    and wondered what the hell happened. H(although from memory it was when
    we were engaged) was super turned on. By it. Though so I guessed it was
    good slight panic at first cause I thought I’d pee’d till he assured me
    it was femal ejaculation lol. I now gush more often than not and
    generally have multiple orgasms. When we have sex. I think that’s why it
    took so long for taro get into toys..

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    It had never happened to me before and I had heard it was a made up
    thing for porn/ It was just wee etc. Then one night over a year into
    our relationship my OH and I were just having bog standard vaginal sex
    and it just happened! I was so confused! It doesn't happen all the time
    but does still happen on the occasion.

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    teacake [sign in to see picture]
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    She was so happy she got to soak her knickers and carpet she was on a high buzz for the rest of the day, she was soso happy she gave me her knickers to keep for a reminder of that first time. Its just a shame we never bought a mattress protector we shall get one when we get a new mattress.
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    himnher [sign in to see picture]
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    I have felt close to squirting many times before but nothing ever
    happened until I used the mains powered Lovehoney wand. Oh my god, I
    squirt every time I use it now and the mains powered Lovehoney rabbit
    also makes me squirt but no other toys. Maybe it's the extra power the
    mains toys give that tip me over the edge that the battery powered toys
    just can't match.

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    Penny26 [sign in to see picture]
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    I had always wanted to squirt but it never happened for me until I
    bought the SONA Cruise, and then  in about 3 seconds of the first time
    off using it I gushed ! it caught me by surprise, it was SO intense.

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    I have tried most things at least once and have had many experiances
    but the one thing that has eluded me is being able to squirt. I would be
    so happy to even once and hubby also  but alas i feel it will never
    happen now 

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    Glitterati [sign in to see picture]
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    Somehow its never happened with a partner but almost always happens
    with a sex toy for me. 

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    Fun Louise [sign in to see picture]
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    It's Definately something that just happens when your really excited,
    and if your trying to make it happen it's not going to. It's good but
    I'm more of a squirt and less of a gusher my self.

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    kitjos [sign in to see picture]
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    I can only squirt when im working on myself, usually with aid of a
    vibrator and a vivid imagination. Takes some time to build up, but it
    kind of just comes out of the blue and its earth shattering. Bed covers
    are wet (not gushed like others but enough for me) . Ive not told
    husband as i wonder if he'l be dissapointed that i dont have this with
    him. I hear many achieve this through solo play though. Ive just ordered
    a g-spot vibe to see if i can find that beauty and achieve more fun! :).
    TBH, i thought it was a porn made up thing till i had solo time in my
    late 20's. Take time and have fun xx

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    I would love to be able to be a squirter but no such luck. Takes me
    quite a long time just to reach orgasm with a clit vibe. All very
    pleasurable but would love to just once to know what its like. I imagine
    its amazing!!!!! Full admiration for you ladies who can

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    For me it just happened out of nowhere. I wasn't trying and I always
    assumed that this could happen with g-pot stimulation. I was playing
    with my wand and my playing was strictly a clitoral one, no dildo or any
    sort of g-spot action, and when I turned the power to the maximum I had
    a massive gushing without having an orgasm.  Now I can do fairly easily
    if I want to. However, I'm not keen on that mainly because for me at
    least it always happen before I have an orgasm and if I stop or have any
    kind of interruption or distraction, I end up not reaching climax
    despite squirting. Another reason is I don't like mess, I know it's a
    bit pathetic, but it's just the way I am.

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    Amykins [sign in to see picture]
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    Same here with the no squirting, youre not alone ! Good luck x bagpuss356 wrote: I would love to be able to be a squirter but no such luck. Takes me quite a long time just to reach orgasm with a clit vibe. All very pleasurable but would love to just once to know what its like. I imagine its amazing!!!!! Full admiration for you ladies who can 
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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    Another non squirter here! I'd like to be able to but it doesn't
    matter what I try it just doesn't happen.

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    We have been trying for a while with no luck. The OH can take a while to reach orgasm at the best of times but we have tried toys, fingers, clitoral stimulation, etc and nothing as yet. Hopefully will happen out of theblue as others have said becuase it would be a huge turn on.  

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