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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    Hmmm ok

    I guess Im naughtier than I thought!

    I think all porn should be illegal as any intercourse could cause injury to genitals lol Or is it just my man who has a dangerous weapon? lol

    PS If I suddenly disappear without trace Ive been arrested or someone's torn me a new...

    ha better leave this there I think before I get told off for hijacking and changing the thread!

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    Sam66 [sign in to see picture]
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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Sam66 wrote:

    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Sam66 wrote:

    Trouble is AA I was, when this period in my life started, about 6 months older than my son - about 16! My early life was a bastard and sex was a way of getting the love I was missing. To think he might do what I did is horrifying.

    But in fact I made the loneliness worse - 'cos it was never the real thing, until I was rather older.

    Same as my OH. He left home at 16-17 and he became a city boy. He lived in Edinburgh then felt he needed a change so he moved to London where he really got messed up. Life was one big party for him, but when he moved to London it was a complete different kettle of fish. He lived there for 6-7 years and it was night after night of much harder drugs and much harder relationships with people. He became rather ill from it all so moved back home (here) to stay with his mother til he got his head cleared. Then after 4 months of staying with his mother, he met me in a bar one night and never looked back since! He misses his "fun" days a lot, but he's far more comfortable with me and his real home.

    I never got into drugs particlarly - I tried them once or twice but they did nothing for me (wierd I know!) but alcohol was my downfall. I got up to over a litre of scotch a day + wine + beer at lunch. Obviously I got very ill in the end and then met my OH. I occasionally miss the oppportunity to sleep around (one of the reasons for my affair if I'm honest. I missed the feel of kissing (not fucking oddly) a new person)

    But my wife is a remarkable woman and knowing all this is still with me - thank god. And for that I'm so grateful. Life is better now than it's been for years - and that comes through honesty - not least sexual honesty and openness to new things. My past is past - over and done.

    The future is bright. The past is a dark place I REALLY don't want t go back to.

    Wow. You have a wonderful wife by the sounds of it. Its great to see people who have pulled through from the dark places and come out the other end much better! Unfortunately there are a lot of people who seem to stick to the same routine for most of their lifes.

    Well done on you though. I know how hard it can be to do it. Its one thing to say you've had enough and are going to quit, but quite another to actually do it and stick to it!

    xx

    It's one thing to be lucky ... quite another to know it.

    I know how lucky I am and it's really very humbling.

    We're pulling through and all will be well - eventually. Thank you for the good wishes. We still need them but we're getting there!

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    bounce [sign in to see picture]
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    only one for me :D well and my OH we were each others first and dont regret it one bit :D

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    Kitty_McPlunder [sign in to see picture]
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    Umm.. I believe I have had 16 or 17...

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    MzBee [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh how strange, I was bored the other day at work and tried to list them. Have this deep dark fear of dementia as well so thought it would be a good exercise to remember the years and order as well. (just to note, I did well, just got lost on the surnames..gave that up as a bad job)

    And having read the legal speak of the above posts I do believe I've had between 21 and 25.

    I don't regret any of them - and some of them I wish I had had another go at! lol

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    kittycatgirl [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm 33 and had just 3, I have been with my hubby for 15 years and almost still feel embrassed at 3!! Don't get me wrong, hubby and I are very open minded and have tried an awful lot together. He has had more. I miss that first few times feeling- but nothing beats comfortable, actually I've always fancied trying this openness. Can't wait for my new grab bag to arrive - hoping tuesday. finger crossed.

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    lustylou [sign in to see picture]
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    i've been with 10 men, with 2 off them being 1 night stands.

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    Mistress Cara wrote:

    sweetlove666 wrote:

    Mistress Cara wrote:

    Don't make us debrief you in the courtroom! lol xx

    urgh, the law is so crap regarding sex. technically S&M is illegal. classed as battery and assault!

    It is illegal to own images of or be involved in anything regarding non-consensual S/m but the law is rather vague regarding the consensual acts between two (or more) people.

    no, it is classed as illegal, and its nothing to do with the principle of consent, its about "public interest". http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R_v_Brown still held today. its not often enforced, but the thought is it is still assault. stupid i know, but im currently doing some more research for a blog im gonna do on theese laws.


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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    No idea what happend above, tried to quote a post and all of my comments were cut off! Just to say that its a rahter interesting sub thread developing on the laws regarding S+M, I'll be looking out for your blog SL. I take it your following the backlash campaign. (Maybe this discussion should be take to a new thread!)

    Just to stay slightly on topic, i've had 6 partners.

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    Slave Malcom wrote:

    No idea what happend above, tried to quote a post and all of my comments were cut off! Just to say that its a rahter interesting sub thread developing on the laws regarding S+M, I'll be looking out for your blog SL. I take it your following the backlash campaign. (Maybe this discussion should be take to a new thread!)

    Just to stay slightly on topic, i've had 6 partners.

    there was a descussion on another thread yesterday Slave malcom.

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    swingcouple [sign in to see picture]
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    We both stopped counting several years ago. As we're experienced swingers, probably both well into 3 figures by now, with opposite-sex partners well in the majority. We obviously remember those we've had relationships with, where the sex was part of being in love, but at parties and when clubbing it's fairly usual to have casual sex with others and know nothing about them, not even their names; but then it's just a physical thing, not an emotional commitment.

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    I've been fretting about this lately - I'm heading towards a number I never wanted to reach! I'd never judge others for their number of sexual partners, but I'm having a hard time applying that to myself and therefore feeling rather slutty.

    SS xx

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    SweetSubmission wrote:

    I've been fretting about this lately - I'm heading towards a number I never wanted to reach! I'd never judge others for their number of sexual partners, but I'm having a hard time applying that to myself and therefore feeling rather slutty.

    SS xx

    And what's wrong with slutty?

    Honestly you shouldn't worry but *hugs* if you can't stop worrying!

    Ax

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm three partners away from the number I don't want to reach. I guess this means I've got three more attempts to find prince charming, or I'm going to have to revisit the previous contenders and choose from there! Or just stop being a moron about it and realise the only person counting and caring is me.

    Hugs back atcha AdnaW.

    SS xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    SweetSubmission wrote:

    I'm three partners away from the number I don't want to reach. I guess this means I've got three more attempts to find prince charming, or I'm going to have to revisit the previous contenders and choose from there! Or just stop being a moron about it and realise the only person counting and caring is me.

    Hugs back atcha AdnaW.

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    You could simply do figures the political way.

    Fiddle 'em!

    Surely some don't count? Did you cum, they cum? Lasted less than 10 mins? etc...

    (Fiddles don't count either!)

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    you're just having a hard time finding the right person, keeping on trying doesnt make you a slut, besides why should women get called a slut, and men a stud for doing the same thing but purely to inflate their egos, when you are just looking for mr right. dont sweat it.

    going back over old ground is the last thing you should do. trust your origninal judgment, and not settle for second best. soldier on, he's out their somewhere and just enjoy your self on the journey.

    i wish i had your strength to keep trying, any guy that doesn't respect your tenacity for going after what you want isn't worth it.

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    This is good, WandA - I'm definitely discounting the guy where the whole episode lasted less than one Sheryl Crow song. From fully dressed to "oh, so you're done?" in under four minutes. Bleugh.

    I'm discounting the guy whose penis was genuinely smaller than my little finger in both length and girth.

    I'm discounting half a threesome - who knows whose bits touched whose?! We probably didn't, right?

    I'm discounting the one that I never told a soul about, because if nobody knows then it didn't happen. Like the tree that falls down in an empty wood. See? I'm a philosopher.

    ooh, this is good... can we find enough reasons to make me a virgin again?!

    SS xx

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Sex after any alcohol, drugs, food or fuzzy feelings should be discounted. You obviously were not in the right frame of mind to truly consent...

    errr... If you used sex toys with any of them then it was just masturbation with added cock. Doesn't count, it's not your fault if there's cock is it!?!

    errr... missionary doesn't count, HE(she) did the trusting!

    All bases covered?

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    I think the last one is tenuous.... obviously the others aren't not at all!

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    JohnAndMoni [sign in to see picture]
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    Drum roll please.....1. Yes...that's right. Just one. We got married 10 years ago and have always been in love. Our entire sexual experience is a journey that we share together. It's truely amazing. As we've grown and matured - we've discovered things about each other that still blow our minds.

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