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  1. How many partners have you had

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    11.....and I thought I was bad lol. Only 3 were relationships and Im married to the last one :)

    Mr Puppies....care to answer hun???? Slag

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    AdnaW wrote:

    Ecksvie wrote:

    One.

    Me too.

    We got together at 15 and 16 so there was noone before.

    The same for me! What are the chances ey? Uncanny!

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    Sam66 [sign in to see picture]
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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Sam66 wrote:

    Trouble is AA I was, when this period in my life started, about 6 months older than my son - about 16! My early life was a bastard and sex was a way of getting the love I was missing. To think he might do what I did is horrifying.

    But in fact I made the loneliness worse - 'cos it was never the real thing, until I was rather older.

    Same as my OH. He left home at 16-17 and he became a city boy. He lived in Edinburgh then felt he needed a change so he moved to London where he really got messed up. Life was one big party for him, but when he moved to London it was a complete different kettle of fish. He lived there for 6-7 years and it was night after night of much harder drugs and much harder relationships with people. He became rather ill from it all so moved back home (here) to stay with his mother til he got his head cleared. Then after 4 months of staying with his mother, he met me in a bar one night and never looked back since! He misses his "fun" days a lot, but he's far more comfortable with me and his real home.

    I never got into drugs particlarly - I tried them once or twice but they did nothing for me (wierd I know!) but alcohol was my downfall. I got up to over a litre of scotch a day + wine + beer at lunch. Obviously I got very ill in the end and then met my OH. I occasionally miss the oppportunity to sleep around (one of the reasons for my affair if I'm honest. I missed the feel of kissing (not fucking oddly) a new person)

    But my wife is a remarkable woman and knowing all this is still with me - thank god. And for that I'm so grateful. Life is better now than it's been for years - and that comes through honesty - not least sexual honesty and openness to new things. My past is past - over and done.

    The future is bright. The past is a dark place I REALLY don't want t go back to.

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    BumLovingCriminal [sign in to see picture]
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    4

    Mr BLC and I got together when we were 15/16 but he wasn't a virgin. We split up for a year not long after we got together and each had a few souless fucks to try and get over each other. Seeing as we got back together and have been together ever since, it's safe to say the souless fucks weren't much good!

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    10 women not all at the same time of course lol that would of been fun

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    Ooh this was a difficult one! Not sure exactly...

    Under 30 men and under 10 women approx - I have had a weird and ropey life !

    xx

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    ive had sexual contact with 2 people

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    Lady Luna [sign in to see picture]
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    Two...my ex, and my soon to be husband ^_^

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    KittyPurry [sign in to see picture]
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    One man and after eight(ish) years he's still my very much loved and deeply sexy bedfellow

    Number of women rather depends on what you count as sex!

    xxKPxx

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    KittyPurry wrote:

    Number of women rather depends on what you count as sex!

    xxKPxx

    see this what annoys me. technically you can be asexually active lesbian and a virgin at the same time. I tend to go on sexual contact, which can be anyhting from a kiss to full penatrative sex.

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    KittyPurry wrote:

    Number of women rather depends on what you count as sex!

    xxKPxx

    see this what annoys me. technically you can be asexually active lesbian and a virgin at the same time. I tend to go on sexual contact, which can be anyhting from a kiss to full penatrative sex.

    I go on if my mouths been on and in their pussy and they have climaxed... or them to me vice versa etc as being sex

    kissing hugging booby squeezing or fingering etc I see as sexual contact

    holding hands with a woman is a bit OTT for me

    *again relevant disclaimer required* lol

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    Mistress Cara wrote:

    sweetlove666 wrote:

    KittyPurry wrote:

    Number of women rather depends on what you count as sex!

    xxKPxx

    see this what annoys me. technically you can be asexually active lesbian and a virgin at the same time. I tend to go on sexual contact, which can be anyhting from a kiss to full penatrative sex.

    I go on if my mouths been on and in their pussy and they have climaxed... or them to me vice versa etc as being sex

    kissing hugging booby squeezing or fingering etc I see as sexual contact

    holding hands with a woman is a bit OTT for me

    *again relevant disclaimer required* lol

    LOL!

    Well I have definate sexual contact with three women who've all cum...two involved fingering and one a mixture of oral, vibrators, fingers... all sorts (not actual liquriche all sorts...sorry bertie basset)!

    xxKPxx

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    well i meant oral ect as sexual contract. got confused with the legal terms again :S

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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    well i meant oral ect as sexual contract. got confused with the legal terms again :S

    Don't make us debrief you in the courtroom! lol xx

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    Mistress Cara wrote:

    Don't make us debrief you in the courtroom! lol xx

    urgh, the law is so crap regarding sex. technically S&M is illegal. classed as battery and assault!

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    Cara Sutra [sign in to see picture]
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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    Mistress Cara wrote:

    Don't make us debrief you in the courtroom! lol xx

    urgh, the law is so crap regarding sex. technically S&M is illegal. classed as battery and assault!

    It is illegal to own images of or be involved in anything regarding non-consensual S/m but the law is rather vague regarding the consensual acts between two (or more) people.

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    Mistress Cara wrote:

    sweetlove666 wrote:

    Mistress Cara wrote:

    Don't make us debrief you in the courtroom! lol xx

    urgh, the law is so crap regarding sex. technically S&M is illegal. classed as battery and assault!

    It is illegal to own images of or be involved in anything regarding non-consensual S/m but the law is rather vague regarding the consensual acts between two (or more) people.

    no, it is classed as illegal, and its nothing to do with the principle of consent, its about "public interest". http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R_v_Brown still held today. its not often enforced, but the thought is it is still assault. stupid i know, but im currently doing some more research for a blog im gonna do on theese laws.


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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Mistress Cara wrote:

    sweetlove666 wrote:

    Mistress Cara wrote:

    Don't make us debrief you in the courtroom! lol xx

    urgh, the law is so crap regarding sex. technically S&M is illegal. classed as battery and assault!

    It is illegal to own images of or be involved in anything regarding non-consensual S/m but the law is rather vague regarding the consensual acts between two (or more) people.

    The law is no longer even that liberal on sexual images. You can commit an offence by taking part in consentual S/M. An image only has to 'portray' a 'realistic' account of an offence.

    Basically if it looks dodgy enough, it doesn't matter if it actually WAS dodgy. Great way to run justice ey?

    How this affects the kink community is primary this line:

    "An image falls within this subsection if it portrays, in an explicit and realistic way, any of the following—

    (b) an act which results, or is likely to result, in serious injury to a person’s anus, breasts or genitals."

    http://www.opsi.gov.uk/acts/acts2008/ukpga_20080004_en_9#pt5-pb1

    Here is a related story and example.

    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1414289/englands_extreme_pornography_act_and.html

    Grrrr!

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    this is so OT. i think theres a sex and the law thread we could ressurect.

    battery is classed as any touch that is non consentual, or not in the scope of everyday activities. and sometimes even if it is consentual touch it is classed as battery if it is not in the public interest, as was the case in R v Brown

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    Columbus [sign in to see picture]
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    In the past 11 years I've had 3: my ex fiance who I spent 7 years with, an old school friend I had a very brief 'fuck buddy' thing with, and then I met my current OH/fiance who I have been with for nearly 2 years. However, before that I had 40+ partners (PIV) in my late teens and a couple of women, mostly one night stands either from their choice or mine. There were also more than that where there was some sexual contact (touching, oral) but not intercourse so I didn't count them as such. However, it all feels like a lifetime ago and as I got older I realised that - for me at least - it's definitely about quality not quantity. In fact there was no real quality to speak of in my teens! It got better from 20 onwards really and has continued to get better in my 30s with my current partner. Bring on my 40s

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