1. Sex on top

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    Abistar🦄 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi, so I am a plus size lady and I dread getting on top. I get no pleasure from it and although my other half cums, I do not believe he enjoys it either.

    I am stuck... I honestly don’t know what to do.

    Any help will be greatly appreciated.

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    JoJoXxX [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya Abistar
    If your not comfortable on top and you feel he isnt enjoying it as much then just let him go on top ? Everyone is different and there is no 'right' way so if you or him Dosent enjoy it then don't.But he is cumming so I'm preety sure your doing something right Hun. Maybe try some other positions ? From behind bent over the bed or on all fours ? Or crouched over him using your toes to move yourself up and down ? Does wonders for your leg muscles lol but puts no weight on him and gives longer strokes of his penis.
    I'm a plus size woman and my partner is slim which makes me feel concerned sometimes but I love going on top it does it for me and he would say if it was uncomfortable. I think sometimes we worry and think things are worse than they are. If he wasn't comfortable I'm sure most would take control and move into a different position.

    Experiment and find what pleasures you and do it that way.
    Xx

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    Abistar🦄 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you for this.
    We use lots of other positions, he really want me to ‘fuck him’ as he puts it.

    I will defo take your advice, thank you again.

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    Fun&Funky [sign in to see picture]
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    Another plus size lady too my hubby loves me to be on top but I hate it so don’t happen often. Generally because I’m worried I’m going to squash him or it hurts me due to my fibromyalgia / knee problems. We’ve just bought the bondage boutique sex stool with the idea me going on top amongst other positions we probably wouldn’t be able to try because of my problems not necessarily weight x

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Abistar🦄 wrote:

    Thank you for this.
    We use lots of other positions, he really want me to ‘fuck him’ as he puts it.

    I will defo take your advice, thank you again.

    With this position you can "be on top" without actually being on him; that's if you would like to find some way to give him this.

    I call it lazy doggy, as he's kind of in doggy with you but on his back; he lays on his back with his feet pulled up towards his bum so it raises his knees. You go on all fours between his feet with your bum towards him. Then you back up putting your feet under his raised knees until you are on him.

    You can push back onto him so you are fucking him; he can play with your bum, if you are into that kind of thing, he can spank you too. If you get a towel and put it round the front of your thighs, and give him the two ends; he can pull on it to pull you back onto him. Or to provide something to hold onto so he can give you a bit of action if you want, by pushing up towards you.

    He could also use a toy on you at the same time, and give you double vaginal penetration; again if that's something you maybe would like.

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    Mr Pheebs [sign in to see picture]
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    You can get a sex position stool if your worried about energy or squashing him they’re quite good fun.

    As Alicia says Lazy dogging is good fun too. There are loads of positions where you as the lady can control the sex

    Alternatively push him standing against a wall and bend over, slide on to him, use a chair or something to support your upper limbs and rick on your feet.

    Have fun X that’s the main thing! If you’re not, don’t do it!

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    Abistar🦄 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you for all the advise... I am looking into a stool and love the idea of the lazy doggy.
    Thank you.

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